turn the other side? do i look like Jesus to u?

sistawoman:

I imange you being the type of dude that would not do a thing to your woman if she slapped you. I am sure you would turn the other side for her to hit you again. . . . . LOL. . . . . Just joking
Soap operas are fake in case you did not know.

but they tell about life

Rape him.

arramyjay:

Rape him.

oga ju

who is arramyjay raping

SHENANIGAN:

who is arramyjay raping

i tire ooo

Some ppls -here- says if ur wife slap u,u shud leave her,walk away cos u cant raise ur hand on ur wifey.
Reallllllllllllly?
Yet she can raise her hand on u?

Well,whether u "retaliate" or not,remember that women like their man to be in charge.
As a result,i ll "follow" her up,even though am againt women beating"
and show her dat am in charge.
That way when she realises and apologise,i guess me 2 will say am sorry 2.
"No dulling"

She slap u in private and u just walk away or let her be with or wthout her sorries,
someday in d future,she ll slap u in the presence of ur mother and friends.
Wont it be 2 late then.

Tolarance should be controlled and guided when dealing with women.

Just look at her strait in the eyes and walk away saying nothing. she will come begging u if she has consciensce. Never ever hit her back. Never

If my wife slaps me, i will walk away, cos i have to make sure i dont get the second one, however, i will NOT raise my hands against the woman, but she will surely spend some very good time looking for how we can make up, cos nothing cld have warranted him slapping me, cos i will never slap her either.

That's a tough one.It's never happened to me so i don't know how i would react but for a woman to slap me is an indication of a rundown in terms of respect and if my morals keep me from hitting back, i would do things that would be worse that slapping back (psychological).Women are habitual creatures, if she hits you once and gets away with it, she's do it again and this time around, it might be in public (with your family and friends around).

I will so beat her that day until she turns catatonic! I won't even wait for her to slap me. Mere looking at me with a bad eye is a ground for a good thorough beating, talkess of nagging!

Chuck Ba$$:

I will so beat her that day until she turns catatonic! I won't even wait for her to slap me. Mere looking at me with a bad eye is a ground for a good thorough beating, talkess of nagging!

@chuck , r u a man at all?this will nvr help u sha,

Chookym:

Just look at her strait in the eyes and walk away saying nothing. she will come begging u if she has consciensce. Never ever hit her back. Never

this is reasonable jare,
@post, if she tries that, i will be so . i will just let her be and will nvr change to her, I think that will give me a second thought and i will be looking for point of exit(if need be)

if she slaps u, return fire, two for the price of one

Why the Guys for Nairaland dey lie anyhow? We know for sure she will receive a nice package if any woman slap a man in Nigeria or a tradition man. Guys stop all these lie

OneNaija:

Why the Guys for Nairaland dey lie anyhow? We know for sure she will receive a nice package if any woman slap a man in Nigeria or a tradition man. Guys stop all these lie

thank u o jare

If your wife slaps u, just turn and walk away and her conscience will prick her till she apologises. Please do not slap her in return, because it could turn nasty brawl.

If your wife slaps u, just turn and walk away and her conscience will prick her till she apologises. Please do not slap her in return, because it could result into a nasty brawl.

glotes:

If your wife slaps u, just turn and walk away and her conscience will prick her till she apologises. Please do not slap her in return, because it could result into a nasty brawl.

turn to a brawl? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLL! who will lose that fight? most likely not the guy

na2day?:

turn to a brawl? LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOLLLL! who will lose that fight? most likely not the guy

na2day? so you would beat your wife blue black, if it eventually turns into a brawl
shame on you, is she not the same person you claim to love and marry for better or worse.

glotes:

na2day? so you would beat your wife blue black, if it eventually turns into a brawl
shame on you, is she not the same person you claim to love and marry for better or worse.

me beat my wife "blue black" ke? God forbid bad thing, i will only beat her "black and blue"  . she that slapped me, i guess she forgot the for better for worse thing and if she moves it to brawl, my short time memory disease will surely kick in 


FYI: remember it didnt just say for "better" only, it included for "worse" which may also include serious pounding by ur beloved hubby 

cold (m)
UK
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The only time my wife wld b justified in slappin me is if she caught me in an uncompromisin position wit anuda woman.Anythin outside that God help her;she'l b declared "Dead On Arrival". 

@Cold
Na wah for you ooh. With how big you are in your picture, how can you even think of beating a woman. So if I were your wife and I slapped you out of anger without catching you in a compromising position, then i am "dead on arrival abi". Na wah for you naija men ooh. What does it cost
you to walk away and punish her in other ways??

It's funny that so many men are saying they'll leave and when they'll come back they'll have intimacy. So that just going to set everything straight? What about the memory? Is it just gon' disappear during intimacy? She done lost her mind thinking she can just slap me and poo won't go down. In fact, in my marriage vow I'm gon' put in bold, if at any time you hit me intentionally or unintentionally, you are to immediately pack your belongings* and leave the house.

*things you bought for yourself with your own money. Note: This doesn't include the money I'll give to you during the course of this marriage to buy something for yourself.

@Stephenp

Careful, your age is showing in your comment. You don't drive your wife away because she slaps you. Anyway you are still young, you will learn as you grow older.

If I should slap my husband, just know that I have damned all consequences and wouldn't care if the marriage gets dissolved.

I know most here would say they wouldn't retaliate
But we all know they would slap her even harder
in real life.

Slap back a lot harder. Hard enough that it will ring in those ears for the rest of her existence never to raise another filthy hand on me in abuse. . . and later apologize of course.

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Slap back a lot harder. Hard enough that it will ring in those ears for the rest of her existence never to raise another filthy hand on me in abuse. . . and later apologize of course.

Hmm i didnt know you were this wicked.

Abekeade08:

Hmm i didnt know you were this wicked.

No, boo, I'm not wicked o. I'm probably too nice of a dude. Btw, that's what I THINK I will do. I probably wouldn't hit her though.
We men have got to control ourselves.

No, boo, I'm not wicked o. I'm probably too nice of a dude. Btw, that's what I THINK I will do. I probably wouldn't hit her though.
We men have got to control ourselves.

Much better response, thanks

did you do something to deserve it? if so tough sh1t. if not walk away and both cool off and talk about it.

hitting her back will only make things worse

agathamari:

did you do something to deserve it?  if so tough sh1t.  if not walk away and both cool off and talk about it.

hitting her back will only make things worse

nonsense! if u cant take it dont dish it

This topic proves that women talk too much.

One good slap deserves another.

na2day?:

nonsense! if u cant take it dont dish it

i said depends on circumstance. example: my neighbor accused his wife of being a prostitute- that deserves a slap.
another neighbor slaps her husband for not waking up quickly enough when she calls him - that is not deserved

neither cases will slapping her back though acomplish anything