is it wrong for your friend to date your sister,not that they had known each other before he got to know her through you,is it kool

Well it may not be wrong but itz offensive, I have a friend who thinks itz crazy.
1. it will make your friendship grow cold
2. you might have problems with your sister
3. it would like a competition between you and your sister

@ Oracle

That is a good comment and also it makes your sister reduce her respect for you some how

wat do u mean? reduce her respect for you? it depends on how dt respect was gotten in the first instance. like i tell pple, "respect isnt gotten cuz u want it but cuz u earn it"! and so if my big bro for instance earns my respect, d fact dt i date his frnd wouldnt matter at all! but if it's a matter of ï'm older than u, so u shld respect me, of course, i'll eventually lose my respect for him, if im datin he's frnd. i hope im makin myself clear? and nyways, i use2have a very minor crush for my bro's frnd but ofcourse its long gone now, we r good friends now but dt doesnt in any way affect my relationship wit my bro

Pips I very hard to find a friend that let u date his sister, I don't actually know why?. Mayb cos' he can't stand the imagination or thought of his friend banging his sister, and I also agree with the disrespecting thing, u know now! the sister go dey feel say nothing dey happen!

its all in the mind, if you guys are vampires, then you will fear for your sister and say NO!! but if your man is responsible, not much of a player then bingo!! why not??

its all in the mind, if you guys are vampires, then you will fear for your sister and say NO!! but if your man is responsible, not much of a player then bingo!! why not??

its not wrong

but its certainly not advisable

I'll do anything within my powers to stop it from happening. its no wrong but,

Depends on the kind of friend he is. if you think he's a good guy, why not. why should you deny your sister the opportunity of dating a guy who might just be right for her, just because he's your friend.

Friendship shouldn't come between things but strengthen things.

those of us who dont have younger sisters will easily say no problem to such advances by a friend, but seriously lest check this out, how many of you can stand the fact that you know ur lil sister just got back from where she had been bleeped, ormaybe u visit ur friend and find out that she is in the rrom and having a mind blowing sex with ur friend.
its something we all know we cant stand it.

its not sometin of joy when ur lil sister is being used in that manner.

friends alike act alike, it depends on how u treat ur gf, ur friend will treat ur sister same. we all know the theory.

izeek:

those of us who dont have younger sisters will easily say no problem to such advances by a friend, but seriously lest check this out, [b][b][b][b][b]how many of you can stand the fact that you know your lil sister just got back from where she had been bleeped, ormaybe u visit your friend and find out that she is in the rrom and having a mind blowing sex with your friend.[/b][/b][/b][/b][/b]
its something we all know we cant stand it.

its not sometin of joy when your lil sister is being used in that manner.

friends alike act alike, it depends on how u treat your gf, your friend will treat your sister same. we all know the theory.

@ izeek,

Let us be sincere with ourselves-----hw many of us can stand this? At times, u visited ur friend without informing him and u noticed he just finished rounds of sex with his girlfriend-----what do u do? u will probably give him thumb up. But, if this lady turn out to be ur sister-----how will you feel? Honestly, one will be bitterd.

To me, it is a no go area. I will never date my friend's sister and none of my friends can do such to my sister----I will resist it vehemently. Pls note that I'm talking about blood sisters and not cousins.

Oracle:

Well it may not be wrong but itz offensive, I have a friend who thinks itz crazy.
1. it will make your friendship grow cold
2. you might have problems with your sister
3. it would like a competition between you and your sister

my opinion too

I don't think I can allow that.

Sorry oh,but there is no way i'd allow that. He might be a wonderful salt-of-the-earth man,but he should please go and date someone else's sister.

Well, it kinda depends on the type of person the guy really is. If he is a good pal, I will ok him, but if he is the other way round, mehn, God knows for sure what I am going to do,

Well, I don't see much wrong with it. My sister is currently engaged to my friend whom she met through me while in college, I think it just moves the relationship further. From friends to inlaws. But sometimes, you could get some mad disagreements that really get out of hand and y'all start thinking it's because of the relationshipe meanwhile, it's really not.

Nope.

cos i know my kind of friends am evn ready to hook them up with my Lil sis.

Afterall i know that they ar gonna be g8 4 her.

its wrong cos of d sentiments in dis part of d world

an neither for nor against the idea. its left to them.

DaudaAbu:

Nope.

cos i know my kind of friends am evn ready to hook them up with my Lil sis.

Afterall i know that they ar gonna be g8 4 her.

the friend involved matters if it is one that is an ass then i'ld neva allow it

But you men are dating and sexing up someone else's sister Hypocrites,

Oracle:

Well it may not be wrong but itz offensive, I have a friend who thinks itz crazy.
1. it will make your friendship grow cold
2. you might have problems with your sister
3. it would like a competition between you and your sister

to me it doesnt matter cos no one knws tomorow.Wat if ur friend is richer or rather very rich,dont u think him marrying ur sister makes u an inlaw that will benefit from his ,

nethacker:

to me it doesnt matter cos no one knws tomorow.Wat if your friend is richer or rather very rich,dont u think him marrying your sister makes u an inlaw that will benefit from his ,

Guy, you see the bigger picture

If my friend is at that advanced stage at which his playa's career is over and he's now ready to settle down I think i am cool with him dating my sister. Otherwise NO!

If he is doing with total sincerity and love their is nothing wrong with that.In-fact it will make your friend to respect you the more.

if u guys r not havin feelings 4 each other or rada u r not thinkin of takin it 2 d nxt level i guess dere is notin wrng wit dat

Its meaningless, but it doesn't make sense. I got this experienc once: My friend was the one that introduc me to his sister as a better brother and finally we got feelings for ourselves. Sometimes He is even the one that'll smuggle his sister to my house to that we can have some fun together, am not talkin about sex even though he created the chance but I never choos to be quick, but at the end of the stories he turns a disaster between me and his sister, He switched his sister to someone else, but at the end The guy disflower the girl and have her 3times experien of abortion. At the end the whole story burst out lik smoke, Now she's cryin for me everyday and night just to come back after she've confessed everything to me and no place to go. As for my friend, he is now regrettin his wrong even though he choos to broke up with me. Becaus of money and recharge card, he betray me friendship but now he found out that my story has changed, he'd tremble in the sound of my name. But I finally understood his point that How can I be fuckin his sister, but he forgot that he's the one that started it.

it depends on the kind of person my friend is, if he has good intentions(i mean he is not a playboi type) then, im in full support, nothing do them.