Guys do you care to know the kind of guys your girlfriend has dated and how many guys she

has dated and slept with before you met her? And if you know, would you judge her for that?

fyneboi:

Guys do you care to know the kind of guys your  girlfriend has dated and how many guys she

has dated and slept with before you met her?  And if you know, would you judge her for that?

warrahell!  what about how many girls the guy has dated and slept with before she met him? 

talk about double standards!

if the guys can use their "kini" anyhow they like , why cant the girl use hers too

fyneboi:

Guys do you care to know the kind of guys your  girlfriend has dated and how many guys she

has dated and slept with before you met her?  And if you know, would you judge her for that?

No!!!!!!

Digging her past is purely academic.
Every Naija babe had sex only ONCE and was raped!!!
Take it on the chin and move on. . . . .

I dnt need to judge her on her past of she was honest enough to tell me the truth before i find out on ma own, its d past, u need to let go and face d present

lonelypal:

I dnt need to judge her on her past of she was honest enough to tell me the truth before i find out on ma own, its d past, u need to let go and face d present

Honest talk Lonelypal. That is what i keep trying to tell my friend. He met this girl and liked her, since the girl told him

the truth that she has slept with one or two guys she didn't date, he got a wrong impression about her. That a decent girl

shouldn't be doing a friend with benefit, meaning sleeping with a guy she is not in a relationship with. That has been

bothering him ever since. Personally, I dont like girls that do friends with benefit, but i wouldnt go diggin into her past

like that.

fyneboi:

Honest talk Lonelypal. That is what i keep trying to tell my friend. He met this girl and liked her, since the girl told him

the truth that she has slept with one or two guys she didn't date, he got a wrong impression about her. That a decent girl

shouldn't be doing a friend with benefit, meaning sleeping with a guy she is not in a relationship with. That has been

bothering him ever since. Personally, I don't like girls that do friends with benefit, but i wouldnt go diggin into her past

like that.

well i quite agree with ur friend on that, i detest such too, but i would still forgive her if she told me before i found out on ma own n she 's ready to turn on a new leaf. My present gurl also had a nasty past but since she was honest enough to let me know about it b4 i asked her, i forgave her n we r good now, evryone has a dirty past one way or d other, nobody holy pass

past is important so i can handle the present.

is she was a free giver then i be mad and the relationship will be terminated

a slut will always be a slut,

can anyone marry ashewo because she now want to be a good woman??

past is past and it is the key to the present

i dont give a damn about her past, all am interested bout is her present, lol

when you dig, you will find!!! and I am sure that you are not going to be happy with the answer. What does it matter? let the past stay in the past.

fyneboi:

That a decent girl shouldn't be doing a friend with benefit, meaning sleeping with a guy she is not in a relationship with.

so it is ok for dudes to engage in such behavior?

Somethings can be overlooked, while some cannot. If the lady's past keeps coming up in your face everytime, it'll be pretty tough to just forget about it. I know ladies that are still pretty close with some of their ex-es.

Also, what if there was a child from a previous relationship? , that can never be brushed aside.

so let's face the facts, really.

kokoye:

Somethings can be overlooked, while some cannot. If the lady's past keeps coming up in your face everytime, it'll be pretty tough to just forget about it. I know ladies that are still pretty close with some of their ex-es.

Also, what if there was a child from a previous relationship? , that can never be brushed aside.

so let's face the facts, really.

I agree with that, depends of the situation! Now is the female  crazy enough to bring a past relationship into the present in a way that it affects you both? of course it will be questionable to the guy that she may still be holding on. Then again, some guys will still trip about u staying as friends with your ex even if "you are just strictly friends"

Hannibal:

No!!!!!!

Digging her past is purely academic.
Every Naija babe had sex only ONCE and was raped!!!
Take it on the chin and move on. . . . .

Classic punk arse answer hissssss.


To the poster I think its very important infact you need to collect names and addresses visit each person and ask the
1)type of sexual positions
2)if they kissed were tongues used?
3)Did they engage in oral?

Please take a notebook and pen the answers will surely benefit your life.

*rolls eyes*

its is absolutely necessary to find out bout a girls past cos old habits die hard.

if she was a serial cheater, she is most likely goin cheat on you

if she was a donatus, she is most likely goin donate again.

after you find out bout her past, the decision to date or not now depends on you.