I don't know if these has been posted b/4 but i just wanted to know what you'll actions would be when your partner breaks up a very important realtionship with you over the phone instead of doing it the mature way i.e. face to face conversation.

I would take it as he didn't worth it at all. Though I would be hurt if I love him but I will quickly get over it knowing that he couldn't even say it to my face.

I had a boyfriend that did taht to me . I only said Ok and when i droped the phone i cryed.

Two weeks later he came back. He did not say sorry for breaking up but he now asked me never to agree so easy the next time (he was bluffing when he called)

I think breakin up over d phone is a bit childish. if he really want to end d relationship , doesnt ve 2 say it he should only act it out until d girl gets d msg clearly. then dey can both decide 2 end it more amicably. Anyway if I find myself in dat situation, dere is nothing much 2 do than 2 bon up n pretend like i was goin 2 tell him d same thing.

is she dat scared of me? wow, dats cool.

dunno, but Seriously i have no feelings where break-Ups are Concerned, i absoluteyl do not feel any pain whatsoever thou i may have loved the guy, thats just my nature and i like it that way, but then again, no guy has ever done that to me

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ikamefa

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Hmmm, Abi its even good if guy calls,
I broke up wit my girl of 5yrs

Clap for yourself.

it better not be an old school phone, cause i ll rip the phone off the hook, hunt his @SS down and knock him out with the phone

quietly just hang up the Phone, maybe cry, maybe not but hell, life goes on

i really believe some do this cause they r trying to avoid any drama from the other party. _{probably things getting physical}.

i would feel hurt and the muther father better stay out my sight.

It depends on how long the relationship lasted. I've done it before, but the guy and I only went out for about 6 months. And we still talked as friends afterwards. Now, if it was someone I was with for a long time, (say a good 2 or 3 years or more), then it would be wrong.

breaking up with me on phone?dats not okay the hell cant you tell it to my face instead of on phone.but if a guy calls me and tells me dat,its okay.even though i love him and he says he is thru with me all is well cos i cant force myself on him.its a free world.ve got to move on with my life

tot of it and its like wow she must be joking.

i'll call back to be sure if she really meant it

and she does, i will and will become strong again like lauryn

I will simply say OK IF THATS WAT U WANT, and hang up, cos am not one to beg a guy.

Well life goes on, atleast the most beatiful are yet to b born.

i'll try and end off amicably, drop d phone quietly, cry my eyes out d rest of d day, swear i'll neva let nyone dump me eva again, and listen to some songs. then i'll pray deeply before i sleep.

by d next mornin, i'l be fine, , u gats ta keep on movin u know!

woooooooow fone is kinda too low man dats real deep i will neva dump sumone on fone dats just really sad n shame 2 whoeva did it but its just too sad

the relationship did not start over the phone in the first place, so calling it off that way would be rather childish. I would make effort to see her so we talk it over

my girl friend did that to me. but she lata said she did not mean it.

its a sign of cowardice.

hang up!!

I did sometin close to that dis year , but i had earlier already made my intentions known 2her face to face. so i just sent a text later when she didn't respond to the issues i had raised

Well, i ll just accept the fact and move on.
But then after the shock, i would then sit dwn and write one of my dear exs text.
Its a poisonious text i send to exs who need to hear certain home truths from me.

olulu:

I did sometin close to that this year , but i had earlier already made my intentions known 2her face to face. so i just sent a text later when she didn't respond to the issues i had raised

Coward.

I'd just accept it as done. I'd think less of her though, as she'd taken the cowards way out.

But besides being upset, I'd thank my lucky stars our relationship hadn't progressed to getting married.

Well,it has happened to me before and all i said was goodbye.