I want to share this with everyone. How would you feel if you spouse is jealous of your success? Let's say you won a contract and unexpectedly you've become a millionaire and the next thing your spouse does is act like it's just cool and after she grows cold and eventually starts giving you attitude. Please what will be your thoughts and reaction? Thanks!

Hmmm. Maybe you said something? Acted someway. Before you point fingers check yourself.

andromida: Hmmm. Maybe you said something? Acted someway. Before you point fingers check yourself.

Said nothing and did absolutely nothing even if the husband did, can't she ask?

Its not she doesn't want u to succeed but she's scared of what u'll become when u get the money. Its when money comes that u see someone's real identity. Maybe she feels u'll start doing something u usually don't do

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A jealous spouse? That's a new one and quite unnatural.

Isn't the money meant for the home?

holluwai:


Said nothing and did absolutely nothing even if the husband did, can't she ask?

Very likely giving you the cool attitude because she wants you to ask her what is wrong and she wants to feel she is still appreciated. Not saying its the best way to handle things but before your own imagination takes over take charge of the situation and ask her why she is being cold with you.

She may be feeling insecure not because of anything you did but because of gory stories she has heard about how men behave when they hit the millionaire mark.Her imagination may be doing overtime duty as well which is why communication is very important NOW.

The tone of your voice and look on your face is very important so be gentle when asking. You don't want things to drag out and sour your marriage nip it NOW.

Don't forget to discuss the current plans you are making with her as you used to do before the millions came. Just let her know by your actions and words that she is still important to you and you are not leaving her behind.

That woman is bewitched! Simpless.
Instead of thanking God that Garri will turn to custard and Keke napep to Honda, she is envious. Na Witch dey worry am. There's absolutely no explanation for such a silly and childish act. Reminds me of how jealous a kid gets when a sibling gets a new toy from dad. Infact, some will be excited and they will start sampling the toy together.
Witchcraft things.

Maybe she is jealous that her hold over the man is over. She was probably rubbing shoulders with him because he wasn't financially strong. But his God has suddenly smiled on him, and she realised that Chicken don tie wrapper. Oga is back on top! This is the only reasonable explanation.

Thank you everyone, I'm really enjoying the various thoughts that's being laid on here. I want to hear more....

She wants a new car or her own share, just form like everything is alright, if you make mistake ask what's wrong, you go bleed oh.

proudly233: She wants a new car or her own share, just form like everything is alright, if you make mistake ask what's wrong, you go bleed oh.

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Bleed ke? Why?

andromida:

Very likely giving you the cool attitude because she wants you to ask her what is wrong and she wants to feel she is still appreciated. Not saying its the best way to handle things but before your own imagination takes over take charge of the situation and ask her why she is being cold with you.

She may be feeling insecure not because of anything you did but because of gory stories she has heard about how men behave when they hit the millionaire mark.Her imagination may be doing overtime duty as well which is why communication is very important NOW.

The tone of your voice and look on your face is very important so be gentle when asking. You don't want things to drag out and sour your marriage nip it NOW.

Don't forget to discuss the current plans you are making with her as you used to do before the millions came. Just let her know by your actions and words that she is still important to you and you are not leaving her behind.

Thank you very much!

It depends on what you became in your previous 'hits'. My sisters husband tends to 'flex' and drink more whenever the money comes in great amount. sometimes my sis could wish the money doesn't come that much again

aadetoyin: Its not she doesn't want u to succeed but she's scared of what u'll become when u get the money. Its when money comes that u see someone's real identity. Maybe she feels u'll start doing something u usually don't do

Kinda

holluwai: Married but still enjoying my girls out there....

https://www.nairaland.com/1553285/whats-relationship-status/6#20215462

Good Boi: Kinda

https://www.nairaland.com/1553285/whats-relationship-status/6#20215462

Hahaha.... This guy get my time oh!

Good Boi: Kinda

https://www.nairaland.com/1553285/whats-relationship-status/6#20215462

Nice one. Thanks for digging this out. The wife's fear has been confirmed. Too bad. Now her fear will multiply. I hope she is not on Nairaland to see this link. SMH.

Sophyrocks:
Nice one. Thanks for digging this out. The wife's fear has been confirmed. Too bad. Now her fear will multiply. I hope she is not on Nairaland to see this link. SMH.

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Hahaha.... Seriously this has nothing to do with the issue on ground.

holluwai: .



Hahaha.... Seriously this has nothing to do with the issue on ground.

Of course it does. Go and discuss with your wife. Unless you want to explain your comment on that thread or perhaps it was a ghost that typed it. Too bad. SMH.

holluwai:
Hahaha.... This guy get my time oh!

Hahaha

Oh shush , what's funny about your disgraceful post huh? ... Thanks for digging that outrageous post out..

#Except an individual is mentally unstable .. . No one , I repeat nobody flares up & nag randomly without a tangible reason.

Jealous of you ko

She's afraid you might take a second wife. You're not to be trusted.

berem: She's afraid you might take a second wife. You're not to be trusted.

I wouldn't even think about it. I think you all should just calm down. It's no news that a man has a girlfriend even after marriage so it's not an issue for me. She could be scared of that but I'm not like that. Just don't know why she can't just talk about it instead of acting like a child.

holluwai:


I wouldn't even think about it. I think you all should just calm down. It's no news that a man has a girlfriend even after marriage so it's not an issue for me. She could be scared of that but I'm not like that. Just don't know why she can't just talk about it instead of acting like a child.

very good! Now you're talking.
She knows you have a girlfriend so she doesn't want you splitting your money into two to satisfy her and your girlfriend. You shouldn't blame her for her attitude,you caused it.

holluwai:
I wouldn't even think about it. I think you all should just calm down. It's no news that a man has a girlfriend even after marriage so it's not an issue for me. She could be scared of that but I'm not like that. Just don't know why she can't just talk about it instead of acting like a child.

I see. . .

I will pass, because if I answer you this morning eeeeehhhh *bites lips*

Phema:

I see. . .

I will pass, because if I answer you this morning eeeeehhhh *bites lips*

Lmao..... Please pass oh!

holluwai:


I wouldn't even think about it. I think you all should just calm down. It's no news that a man has a girlfriend even after marriage so it's not an issue for me. She could be scared of that but I'm not like that. Just don't know why she can't just talk about it instead of acting like a child.

I hope you will take it to be No news when she decides to have a boyfrend outside since its common these days. And what do you mean by you are not like that? You are already commiting adultery and insulting your marriage as evident in that thread. Was it a ghost that typed it? explain that comment in that thread.

berem: very good! Now you're talking.
She knows you have a girlfriend so she doesn't want you splitting your money into two to satisfy her and your girlfriend. You shouldn't blame her for her attitude,you caused it.

Exactly. She already knows. He thinks she doesnt know. Women always know when a disaster is waiting to happen. And he is here asking us about 'Strange spouse'. You bring problems into your marriage and you are asking where the problems came from. You see how people destroy their marriages with their own hands. kmt.

Sophyrocks:
I hope you will take it to be No news when she decides to have a boyfrend outside since its common these days. And what do you mean by you are not like that? You are already commiting adultery and insulting your marriage as evident in that thread. Was it a ghost that typed it? explain that comment in that thread.

The other thread was basically a joke and nothing to be taken serious besides there isn't anywhere I've insulted my marriage except you only want to misquote me. I care about the marriage is why I'm shocked at her moves and I didn't really know what to do is why I came and it up on here so I can hear people's view.
Thank you for the way you've all handled the issue and I've realized a few things and made adjustment.

holluwai:

The other thread was basically a joke and nothing to be taken serious besides there isn't anywhere I've insulted my marriage except you only want to misquote me. I care about the marriage is why I'm shocked at her moves and I didn't really know what to do is why I came and it up on here so I can hear people's view.
Thank you for the way you've all handled the issue and I've realized a few things and made adjustment.

Nope!! It is not a joke. If you really are not doing what you typed out there, you will never type such. You will be proud to type the opposite. what comes out of a man's mouth so is he. you dnt joke about something that destroys marriages. Nairaland is a social network. if your wife comes across that thread, you will tell her its a joke? Oh puleeeezze!! You and God alone know what you are doing. I hope you certainly make adjustments. Dnt start what you can't finish. If you take your marriage to be some sort of game or sham, it will be so for you. and when it happens, dnt complain.

Sophyrocks:
Nope!! It is not a joke. If you really are not doing what you typed out there, you will never type such. You will be proud to type the opposite. what comes out of a man's mouth so is he. you dnt joke about something that destroys marriages. You and God alone know what you are doing. I hope you certainly make adjustments. Dnt start what you can't finish. If you take your marriage to be some sort of game or sham, it will be so for you. and when it happens, dnt complain.

Alright, I hear you!!! Thanks!

holluwai:
Lmao..... Please pass oh!

Aahh! I've waka'd pass ooo.

More ororo to your john thomas.

holluwai:


I wouldn't even think about it. I think you all should just calm down. It's no news that a man has a girlfriend even after marriage so it's not an issue for me. She could be scared of that but I'm not like that. Just don't know why she can't just talk about it instead of acting like a child.

You are impossible. Its ok for you to have a girlfriend as in she should get over it and be happy for you but its not ok for her to be upset with you and act childish. You are your actions so yes you are like that.

Na wa o,just sad for her and nau u re richer