orbis: Fiestly, i aint chauvinistic, but i find it reallly irritating when you try to have a decent discussion with most ladies especially the ones close to their 30's...the first thing they kindda ask is 'are you serious about marriage with me". like seriously!!!!
Marriage is not something people enter at the spur of the moment, so probably that why we see a lot of ladies coming online here to cry about their failing marriages...

lofty900: sharap and stop insulting ladies, marriage is sweet

orbis: Fiestly, i aint chauvinistic, but i find it reallly irritating when you try to have a decent discussion with most ladies especially the ones close to their 30's...the first thing they kindda ask is 'are you serious about marriage with me". like seriously!!!!
Marriage is not something people enter at the spur of the moment, so probably that why we see a lot of ladies coming online here to cry about their failing marriages...

berem: so what exactly is your point? They should stop asking you if you're serious with marriage or what?
Guy,you no get yarns abeg! Shift make I see road!!

orbis: Fiestly, i aint chauvinistic, but i find it reallly irritating when you try to have a decent discussion with most ladies especially the ones close to their 30's...the first thing they kindda ask is 'are you serious about marriage with me". like seriously!!!!
Marriage is not something people enter at the spur of the moment, so probably that why we see a lot of ladies coming online here to cry about their failing marriages...

Chillisauce: Only you Waka come dey discuss with ladies above 30yrs, Wetin you dey expect dem ask you before ?
You see under 30yrs, you Waka pass go meet 30 something, come here dey complain .
My dear, make una bear the pains, you make the society and here you are complaining. Na una dey shout for social media,,go marry, go marry. Dem wan marry now, you come dey complain

Btw, you wey dey razzle 30 +, how old are you? Wetin you dey wait for. Abi u be ogakpakpa? That akamu dey expire o, let no one decieve you.

Chillisauce: Only you Waka come dey discuss with ladies above 30yrs, Wetin you dey expect dem ask you before ?
You see under 30yrs, you Waka pass go meet 30 something, come here dey complain .
My dear, make una bear the pains, you make the society and here you are complaining. Na una dey shout for social media,,go marry, go marry. Dem wan marry now, you come dey complain

Btw, you wey dey razzle 30 +, how old are you? Wetin you dey wait for. Abi u be ogakpakpa? That akamu dey expire o, let no one decieve you.

armyofone: See yab
True, akamu dey expire too. An expired akamu will not be thick and if you make am, it go turn watery. If you drink am, you go dey piss like donkey.
so sayeth the ogbologbo of corn fermentation.

Smart gals are tired of them coming to chop and leave. Who wan be long term sidekick? Abeg put a ring on it before you chop or waka pass.

orbis: Ok ladies, seems i was misunderstood here. What i had in mind to say was the kinda irritating way some ladies query your advances towards them. you say hello, an they marriage. Before a guy would even bring up the issue of marriage, he must have courted the lady for maybe six months trying to see if she possesses the qualities he need in a wife. Some ladies want him to skip the inquiries and just want him to propose. Babes, it doesn't work that way and no amount of desperation would cower us into marrying bad wives.

Sophyrocks:
Those ladies are reminding men like you that when you approach them, its not for games but must have marriage in view. I dnt think a reasonable lady would just tell you the word 'Marriage' when you dnt even know her name. Yes, you have to get to know yourselves well. But it must have marriage in view, marriage is the focus not games or keeping her hanging while you distribute your sperm about or having s*e*x or committing abortions while you turn her to 'Lord of the rings' for years. Some of you men are not serious and have no knowledge of what you want. Kmt.

shizzle11: lol....dont know exactly what you ladies mean by that 'akamu dey expire', as if a 70year old man cannot impregnate a woman. If we are to go by your analyses, pray tell, who is at the higher risk of running out of time reproduction wise? or do you guys just want to make jest of the op?

@chillisauce and sophyrocks

LaRoyalHighness:

Chillisauce:
BCC :Orbis and shizzle11

Chillisauce:
So you don't know it expires. Just like the eggs in female . Doesn't mean they can't get pregnant or impregnate someone. Just that the final produce might have some anomaly . The longer you wait, the higher chance of producing a down syndrome child.

orbis: Ok ladies, seems i was misunderstood here. What i had in mind to say was the kinda irritating way some ladies query your advances towards them. you say hello, an they marriage. Before a guy would even bring up the issue of marriage, he must have courted the lady for maybe six months trying to see if she possesses the qualities he need in a wife. Some ladies want him to skip the inquiries and just want him to propose. Babes, it doesn't work that way and no amount of desperation would cower us into marrying bad wives.

LyndaRoyce:
All things being equal, a man isn't suppose to date a lady for 6months or more without sincerely conceiving the thought of tying the knot with her in the nearest future.
Some of you men are the reason why some ladies remain unmarried even in their late thirties..... Why will a man in his right senses date a lady for 10yrs or more without putting a ring on it?
Free kitchen services.....
Free laundry services......
Free cleaning/arrangement services.....
Not forgetting, free tosky services!
Now tell me, why won't she be desperate after going through all that for decade and still counting......
Ya'll don't want bad/rotten wives yet to use and dispose girls @will...... Who are u dumping them for?
If every man should have a sincere relationship with just a single lady and then tie the knot after few months; I think the number of unmarried ladies would be @a diminishing rate.
If you don't want a "bad wife"; don't make another man's wife "bad"!

LyndaRoyce:
All things being equal, a man isn't suppose to date a lady for 6months or more without sincerely conceiving the thought of tying the knot with her in the nearest future.
Some of you men are the reason why some ladies remain unmarried even in their late thirties..... Why will a man in his right senses date a lady for 10yrs or more without putting a ring on it?
Free kitchen services.....
Free laundry services......
Free cleaning/arrangement services.....
Not forgetting, free tosky services!
Now tell me, why won't she be desperate after going through all that for decade and still counting......
Ya'll don't want bad/rotten wives yet to use and dispose girls @will...... Who are u dumping them for?
If every man should have a sincere relationship with just a single lady and then tie the knot after few months; I think the number of unmarried ladies would be @a diminishing rate.
If you don't want a "bad wife"; don't make another man's wife "bad"!

LyndaRoyce:
All things being equal, a man isn't suppose to date a lady for 6months or more without sincerely conceiving the thought of tying the knot with her in the nearest future.
Some of you men are the reason why some ladies remain unmarried even in their late thirties..... Why will a man in his right senses date a lady for 10yrs or more without putting a ring on it?
Free kitchen services.....
Free laundry services......
Free cleaning/arrangement services.....
Not forgetting, free tosky services!
Now tell me, why won't she be desperate after going through all that for decade and still counting......
Ya'll don't want bad/rotten wives yet to use and dispose girls @will...... Who are u dumping them for?
If every man should have a sincere relationship with just a single lady and then tie the knot after few months; I think the number of unmarried ladies would be @a diminishing rate.
If you don't want a "bad wife"; don't make another man's wife "bad"!

Sophyrocks:
Thank you jare!! Better person has spoken!!
Watch these men o. They will date a lady for so long just because of the benefits i bolded in your comment. Tell this lady that you cannot marry her, Mbanu!. When belle enter, na there them go remember say she be bad wife and dnt marry her!! You see their hypocrisy? Before you know, a lady they just met weeks ago they rush to marry her. Is that how to look for good wife? Help me ask them o.

An average man is responsible for numerous abortions of different ladies. Almost all of them are murderers!! Yet na them dey make noise say make ladies born first before marriage because of fear of punctured wombs! Will abortions occur if these men can just stop being dogs? That is how they create bad wives and in the end after parabulating all over the place they end up with the same bad wife they fear. My dear, that is how they search for wife o.

egopersonified: Op, i sorry for u, they don finish u, take heart ehh, God will bring your own patience goodluck come for u,pele.

LyndaRoyce:
All things being equal, a man isn't suppose to date a lady for 6months or more without sincerely conceiving the thought of tying the knot with her in the nearest future.
Some of you men are the reason why some ladies remain unmarried even in their late thirties..... Why will a man in his right senses date a lady for 10yrs or more without putting a ring on it?
Free kitchen services.....
Free laundry services......
Free cleaning/arrangement services.....
Not forgetting, free tosky services!
Now tell me, why won't she be desperate after going through all that for decade and still counting......
Ya'll don't want bad/rotten wives yet to use and dispose girls @will...... Who are u dumping them for?
If every man should have a sincere relationship with just a single lady and then tie the knot after few months; I think the number of unmarried ladies would be @a diminishing rate.
If you don't want a "bad wife"; don't make another man's wife "bad"!