............... ....TO ALL MEN............ ............

1. Before you start a
relationship with a lady,
you must think carefully
about what you are
about to do. A
relationship is not something you should
rush into or handle
lightly.
2. Are you ready for a
relationship with her?
Are you emotionally, mentally and spiritually
mature to meet her
needs?
3. Being sexually
attracted to her means
absolutely nothing. It isn’t a sign of likeness,
love or any other thing
your mind may come up
with. It may just be your
hormones messing with
your mind. A woman is more than her body and
her sexuality. She has a
life which you should be
able to blend with. Can
you do that?
4. This lady has a history. Can you handle
it?
She has a past. Can you
handle it? Can you
handle her mistakes,
failures and weaknesses? Can you
handle her dreams
without being
intimidated and
becoming jealous?
5. She already had a life before she met you. Can
you fit into and help
improve her life?
6. Love is commitment.
Are you ready to
commit your life to helping her grow and
become all that she can
be, by God’s grace?
7. Is she valuable
enough for you to
devote a large portion of your life towards the
accomplishment of HER
dream? Are you ready
to pour your resources
into making her all the
Lord plans for her to be? If you are not ready,
don’t just bother.
8. Before you open your
mouth to say ‘I love
you’, ask yourself if this
is not just a moment of ‘emotional madness’. A
lady needs much more
than ‘I love you’. She
needs your commitment.
If you are not ready to
make that commitment that will lead to
marriage, please leave
her alone in peace and
stop wasting her time
and resources..
AGREE ??

I agree but number 3 any gal dat s nt ready 2 ve sex should nt enter in2 a relationship.

I believe all that question would be answered in the space of courtship between both parties, the problem during this stage of life usually isn't weather to commit or not, but the fear of starting over the courtship process with another person after a couple of years, this latent thought continues to hunt the man or in other cases the woman as the person in question is afraid leave the relationship for fear of starting over this leads to inconsistency and indecision- that if the man is a well groomed person. Generally the man does not commit for fear of the unknown, and the lady is grounded for not wanting to start a long process especially in cases where the woman is of age.

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