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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Ryabcool(m): 1:40pm On Jul 09, 2014
fruityjojo: Chai! Na wa oh.
She has a pointed nose,red lips, sexy eyes, curvy figure & a very lovely, smooth complexion. What else does it take 4 a girl to be beautiful physically!?
All you listed are the attributes of a pretty girl, not beautiful. She is not beautiful, lets be honest here. If i start to point out the flaws in what you said, it would seem like i'm hating whereas i don't know her, neither have I met her before. So lets leave it at that.

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nkem88(f): 2:19pm On Jul 09, 2014
Ryabcool: All you listed are the attributes of a pretty girl, not beautiful. She is not beautiful, lets be honest here. If i start to point out the flaws in what you said, it would seem like i'm hating whereas i don't know her, neither have I met her before. So lets leave it at that.

Dorochop anybody wey dorobeef doro

*hands cutlass to missdebs*

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Ryabcool(m): 3:05pm On Jul 09, 2014
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Dorochop anybody wey dorobeef doro

*hands cutlass to missdebs*[/quote] LMAO! #np 2shotz - Odeshi...

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 3:55pm On Jul 09, 2014
have you been banned? I was just about to post a reply to your mad black woman thread before I saw that it was now hidden. Nawa o, less that thirty minutes after it was opened. I wonder how he found out so soon abi him dey click your profile from time to time?
Anyway sorry he went into your profile to delete you and Jamie's pic, I knew he liked you sha, what with all that plenty talk of bushy eyebrows but that doesn't excuse his removing your profile pic and banning .
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by xynerise: 4:03pm On Jul 09, 2014
fellis: have you been banned? I was just about to post a reply to your mad black woman thread before I saw that it was now hidden. Nawa o, less that thirty minutes after it was opened. I wonder how he found out so soon abi him dey click your profile from time to time?
Anyway sorry he went into your profile to delete you and Jamie's pic, I knew he liked you sha, what with all that plenty talk of bushy eyebrows but that doesn't excuse his removing your profile pic and banning .
Seun deleted both of them
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by AntiGbagaun(f): 4:37pm On Jul 09, 2014
shocked shocked shocked

Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jul 09, 2014
You be mod? How do you come across this top secret information?



But that guy is childish I swear.

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 5:17pm On Jul 09, 2014
AntiGbagaun: shocked shocked shocked

How did you do It? That's a top secret cheesy.

Saved!

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jul 09, 2014
beautiful people... well beautiful girls both inside and out are 90% lonely. but beautiful girls with a badass attitude get the guys... crazy world

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by dagentility(f): 5:44pm On Jul 09, 2014
Yea, its true.
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by oyin57: 5:53pm On Jul 09, 2014
So true .....
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Romeo3(m): 6:25pm On Jul 09, 2014
TroyJay1: .
shocked
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by homesteady(m): 6:30pm On Jul 09, 2014
fellis: You be mod? How do you come across this top secret information?



But that guy is childish I swear.
please can you gist me what happened? it seems I missed serious drama today!
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by mrkay101(m): 7:25pm On Jul 09, 2014
Well I can relate to this though... Inferiority complex is really a bad thing which happens to both male and female.. As a dude I've had to struggle with it most times. I've had people talk abt my height and hw gud looking I am. But most times I really don't see it. But I'm working on it though. smiley
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jul 09, 2014
TroyJay1:
He was banned for one week for posting this picture
I no fit laff.
He even called sexkilz ugly in his email. And look at him using profane language because he thinks he is out of sight of Nairalanders. After him go dey censor word give people, Manliness, womanliness, manipulation, mess, heavenly feelings.

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 9:34pm On Jul 09, 2014
dreyjacs: beautiful people... well beautiful girls both inside and out are 90% lonely. but beautiful girls with a badass attitude get the guys... crazy world
OMG I am back again ooooo.... I cant believe it, I can now post and quote again! Mr Seun thank you for this miraculous gesture for resurrecting my deactivated account....damsel you are beauty hope u tall and lanky+ skiny

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 2:15am On Jul 10, 2014
I could write an essay about this.
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 2:53am On Jul 10, 2014
Like the person in your post, I grew out of an awkward stage. I wouldn't have called myself an ugly duckling, but with being reed tall and weed thin, having "too sharp" features and huge doe eyes that literally bugged out of an also thin, long face with long forehead, I withstood a lot of childhood taunts and nicknames: Pinhead, 5head, Bambi, and the worst: Bugs etc

Unlike your character, I wasn't shy. I enjoyed my childhood, returned the taunts, and had plenty of real friends in school all the way up to middle school. By then I was no longer Bugs. I'd noticed my peers slowly change their perception, though my eyes were just as noticeably huge, and I myself was starting to feel self conscious about this and other things as a teen.

It wasn't until high school, when I moved into another school district, that all that changed and I experienced chaos in my life. 9th year I was stalked by a middle-aged man that would park his car near my bus-stop and stare at me? I wasn't sure. It wasn't until he tried talking to me and asking me if I would get in his car that I started to take refuge in a nearby convenience store until my bus came by. I came to fear walking to and from that stop, so I eventually told my mom, who would make it point to drive me to school every day.

I knew no one but I was sociable and active, joining a couple of clubs and even a team. It was very easy to make "friends", yet I realized that I also evoked feelings of dislike for no reason that I could understand. A few of the closest of this group of GFs would stop talking to me because some guy they liked apparently "liked" me, never-mind that I wasn't dating nor expressing any interest in them. I couldn't trust many of my female "friends" due to repeat betrayals and I certainly never trusted guys, knowing the reason for all the misguided attention which had quite frankly started to scare me by the time I'd had a few parties under my belt. I became withdrawn from people, and only kept the friends I'd had outside school, from childhood.

First world problems? With all the drama of that year, I was actually relieved when my parents announced a huge move to Egypt. If only I'd known the atmosphere would be exponentially worse.

I could be out (with family) at the family gardens and parks, and shameless men would flash their credit cards at me with a nod. This really shocked me and I tried noticing if it was commonplace and happening to others around me, but I never did - not until I spoke to a girl I came to befriend who'd experienced the same thing. I could be walking to the nearby bakery literally a block away from my house to pick up the daily bread at 10 am, and all the sudden a car would slow down and someone would ask me to spend the day with him/them. Once, a strange man that I'd bypassed on a public sidewalk with a group of friends came up from behind me and picked me up bodily. He put me down promptly when I screamed and kicked, and ran off apologizing saying he hadn't meant anything by it "sorry ma'am". The social dynamics at school was even weirder than back home.

Throughout all this, I was wearing the standard style of clothing there, and I wasn't even allowed makeup. I was 16. This incident struck real fear in me like nothing else. I wanted to be invisible. I stopped leaving the house outside attending school, and purchased a veil for when I'd have to. And so it happened that with zero religious fervor on my part, I would go from running a brush threw my hair on my way out the door, to tying a face veil. This would backfire in the most unimaginable way imaginable. The reason shocks me to this day.

From this glimpse, your imagination might run with you, but I feel I'm a bit of an atypical type. It's not what I see. I still feel my face is too thin, and my eyes too big etcetera...but somehow that's ok.

These events and those of later years would impact my personality and the way I look at the world. I felt lonely, but I would learn how to pick real friends. How to judge and discern motives.

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Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 9:31am On Jul 10, 2014
yea i feel very lonely,it gets worse wen the girls u r attracted turn u down,and thats why i really be drinking and i really be smoking
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 10:17pm On Jul 19, 2014
Nkem888: It's pretty true and understandable, to me anyway. I've never been one to categorize myself as a beauty or attractive, but others do. It has its ups and downs just like everything else in life.

Being seen as attractive causes a disturbance at work. On a number of occasions, I've had to be moved or shuffled around because of persistent or disturbing men. Women also egg them on at times. Just a month or two ago, I had to be escorted by my male supervisor from the back door of our workplace to my car because of how problematic it became. It's certainly one of the things that keeps me indoors or not going to parties or clubs. Guys see your face first and I'm one of those who would rather have my personality make an impact on someone than looks which will undeniably fade.

It takes me a while to open up to people as well, which is probably why I don't keep many friends. I have to trust someone to open up to anyone these days and call him or her a friend. I can count the number of friends I have with one hand. Men and women. One thing they all have in common is that they love and respect all of me and not just what's outside, as I do them.

Like the poster, I fell for the wrong people in the past as well, but I made sure to learn from those experiences and never let it happen again. Thankfully, the person I'm with now understands and respects every part of me and who I am.
Jesus Christ! Not you too!!
Now, read my lips...You.are.not.beautiful.
If pushed, I would describe you as handsome, certainly not beautiful. Matter of fact, some would call you ugly. For a girl. Fact.

Fucck, women and hubris.

Not taking away from the thread, but this just goes to show how everything must be considered, in context, before false truths are internalized.
That rare beauties are sometimes introverted doesn't mean every introvert is a beauty. And never confuse thirsty guys grovelling as a meter of your attractiveness.
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 19, 2014
missdebs: Stop beefin us
dats d trut my dear
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 10:52pm On Jul 19, 2014
fruityjojo: Chai! Na wa oh.
She has a pointed nose,red lips, sexy eyes, curvy figure & a very lovely, smooth complexion. What else does it take 4 a girl to be beautiful physically!?
wow i most confess, u r beautifull.
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by fruityjojo(f): 7:12am On Jul 20, 2014
sameer1212: wow i most confess, u r beautifull.
Thankskiss. Happy Sunday to you.
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by Nobody: 7:38am On Jul 20, 2014
Ryabcool: You are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty.

Anyway, i'm not surprised. Its usually the average/ugly ones with shape that make the most noise and have the most attitude.

@OP, i agree with you. Luckily I've dated TRULY beautiful girls and most of them usually had low self esteems and were emotionally needy. They have very soft hearts that can easily be broken. And when they love, they love to a fault. Nobody else matters to them except that loved one.

You should have said you are not pretty to me......beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, for all we cares/she could be more beautiful to me or someone else then those "truly beautiful girls" you dated.
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by ChristineC: 9:03am On Jul 20, 2014
Her loneliness had a lot to do with her 'late blossom' as she thinks.
Years & activities of growing up affects large part of an adult's life who isn't strong-willed.
She got confidence in her own self pretty late, but she can put it all together by merging experiences gathered from years past & recognize her man when she sees him
Re: Beautiful People Are Usually The Most Lonely by ChristineC: 9:06am On Jul 20, 2014
Ryabcool: You are not beautiful. Whoever has been telling you are beautiful is only trying to get in between your legs. The highest rank you can be given is ALMOST pretty.

Anyway, i'm not surprised. Its usually the average/ugly ones with shape that make the most noise and have the most attitude.

@OP, i agree with you. Luckily I've dated TRULY beautiful girls and most of them usually had low self esteems and were emotionally needy. They have very soft hearts that can easily be broken. And when they love, they love to a fault. Nobody else matters to them except that loved one.
Chaiiii
That's not fair @ all.

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