Most ladies believe it is a man's responsibility to apologise when there is a misunderstanding. Some guys also believe that it is a woman's responsibility to humble herself and apologise when things go wrong.i know of a couple that can stay away from each other for a week or more when they are at loggerheads,each waiting for the other to apologise first. Fellow nairalanders what is your take on this?

d one at fault shud b d one to apologize...if its on a marriage ni,d woman shud apologize even if she s totally not at fault..to save her marriage

temigracie: d one at fault shud b d one to apologize...if its on a marriage ni,d woman shud apologize even if she s totally not at fault..to save her marriage

A man should also apologise even when he is not at fault, that will calm her down but he should not make it a habit.

Tallesty1: A man should also apologise even when he is not at fault, that will calm her down but he should not make it a habit.

sure....

anybody can apologize

apologize ...anybody can....but d man shud show sign of accepting any kind of apology befor d lady does...vise versa...

After the apology, some couples always love to have a make up s*x tho...to take the ministry to the permanent site.

temigracie: d one at fault shud b d one to apologize...if its on a marriage ni,d woman shud apologize even if she s totally not at fault..to save her marriage

You were making sense to me until you got to the bolded.

Why can't we stop making marriage a do or die must-work-by-force affair?

Something that's meant to work will work.

I'd feel irritated if I get undeserved apology.

You no offend me, you con dey apologise.

It's outright silly to me.

I believe in communication....
Let communicate our faults and let the one who is at fault appologise

because if we keep draging the shit........ it will definately end to where we never think it will end ooooooo

so, i believe lets iron it out and the party at fault appologise and we move on.....





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It's a no brainer!

If the couples are so into each other, they will be dragging who will apologise sef.

The person who 4kd up... I aint saying sorry when you hurt me! That's just a silly thing to do.

Most guys have this attitude of not saying the word 'SORRY' even when it is clear that they are at fault

dre11: I believe in communication....
Let communicate our faults and let the one who is at fault appologise

because if we keep draging the shit........ it will definately end to where we never think it will end ooooooo

so, i believe lets iron it out and the party at fault appologise and we move on.....





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Thank God that you said it.....


Oya..........Go n meet her now and do wot you have jst said above.....

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Apologizing is a very big word in relationships nd marriages.. As far as i am concerned, anybody whether at fault or nt not can say it 1st.. Imagine a scenario whereby none of the 2 people involved is claiming the fault..the man is puttin d blame on d woman nd the woman also is puttin d blame on the man..??
Rule number 1 in any marriage, Lower your ego nd study the situation very well before you react.. Atimes, if reaction is far more than action, yawa go gass..

If you deem 'apology' fit(even when u ar nt at fault)_pls do it..the word "sorry" is very simply to say..

dejt4u: Apologizing is a very big word in relationships nd marriages.. As far as i am concerned, anybody whether at fault or nt not can say it 1st.. Imagine a scenario whereby none of the 2 people involved is claiming the fault..the is puttin d blame on d woman nd the woman also is puttin d blame on the man..??
Rule number 1 in any marriage, Lower your ego nd study every the situation very well before you react.. Atimes, if reaction is far more than action, yawa go gass..

If you deem 'apology' fit(even when u ar nt at fault)_pls do it..the word "sorry" is very simply to say..

nice and true

faithugo64: Most ladies believe it is a man's responsibility to apologise when there is a misunderstanding. Some guys also believe that it is a woman's responsibility to humble herself and apologise when things go wrong.i know of a couple that can stay away from each other for a week or more when they are at loggerheads,each waiting for the other to apologise first. Fellow nairalanders what is your take on this?

you should apologize simutaenously. How?
69 BAAAABY!

temigracie: d one at fault shud b d one to apologize...if its on a marriage ni,d woman shud apologize even if she s totally not at fault..to save her marriage

Some people are too proud to apologize even when they are at fault, some others will/might capitalized on it.

And above all, I say FORGIVE. Forgive even before your partner apologizes