phone? what about someone that bought a car? its a gift , if you were MATURED enough to give it to her, you should be bold and MATURED enough to let go, afteral you both at a time shared certain things in common.

E DEY PAIN SHA OOOOOO,

Having ur gift back! ah ah, why were you in relationship with
her at first? it's always a game of luck, your eyes must be closed when
investing in, or you think it's the way you buy shares and looking
4ward to it's dividend? l bow 4 u oh





being manly is good sha

i am finding it hard reading your mind. you mean you will continue to pay bills for an ex? and may i know how long you will keep paying the bills kind sir?

as i said there are gifts and there are gifts. there is difference between giving some girl a God forsaken nokia phone costing you four figures and getting out of legal 6-7 figures financial commitments that continues to cost you dearly. for your info it is not funny having to pay lawyers to stop an ex taking advantage of you financially.

our lives and minds are our personal properties and we are at liberty to do whatever we want as long as it doesn't cause others harm or distress.

@topic,

That is just too childish.

It's not a sign of maturity at all. I had a grlfriend den who once did dat. It pissed me off real good!!! It just dumb! I burnt all she brot bak in annoyance. we later made up sha nd she agreed it was a dumb & silly thing to do. She was so ashamed of herslf when she discovered I didnt dispose of all the things she gave me.

It's not just matured to do such a thing.

The first thing we must understand here is that "GIFT" is something we give to somebody whether close or not, a gift once given out ceases to be our property,somebody does not have to deserve something(a gift) from us before we give and until we understand these we'll keep getting it wrong.
I have been taught that when i give something to somebody as a gift i should pretend as if i didn't have that thing before, am not trying to preach but the bible made it clear that "GOD so love the world and he gave" and there's no place where it was recorded that GOD collected back what He had given us.
We need 2 ask ourselves that all the blessings we receive from GOD do we deserve them, if NO, then when u say u have given a gift to somebody u dont have 2 go back for it.

Why do we buy gifts for women? It is to appreciate them 4 all the things they do to please us and all da bullshit they put up with. the gifts were not coerced, they r giving out of our own volition. In this case i wont ask her 2 return dem i'll consider it " the spoils of war" carry go

But if she demanded for them and i did it to please her, after all dat investment she thinks she can break up with me after she's gotten all dat she wanted. NA BIG LIE, she go return every damn thing or else even UN n AU peacekeeping troops no go fit settle de yawa wey go gas.

It it unwise for a man to collect back the gift given to a girl after break up

@topic
HELL NO, I wont take things back from an ex, that is just childish, I dont take back and neither do I keep anything from them. I either regift or discard,

Ive always wondered about this

as me i neva Break-up before

Once she return it. Yes ooooooo no wa a la

@
blengacy
you are complainning that i don't have manners but look at what u are typing here
( taking back what u have given out devil)

Topic

NAH!

I will buy more to console the victim

@aje
we are talking on a ex frid here not a Devil. i can read it all over your face you be real AJE

Don't take what u have given out weather ex or current

Don't take what u have given out weather ex or current


@
bleng
what do u mean ( u be real AJE)

I would love to take every single bit of it back. But a heart! Whats the point in taking it back? its gonna cause me eternal torments as i use the gifts to remember all bad experiences that transpired

wake up old thread week

no matter what u don't have to collect

i think it depends if they tell you they lost feeling at the time it was given take it back