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Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by tracyfemmmm: 1:29pm On Jul 17, 2014
lokito: It works wella especially when the arranged damsel is not too exposed...

These city girls ain't loyal
Internet racketeering has beclouded their sense of reasoning
Chatting and searching for men on Badoo, FB,whatsapp posting pictures, wallowing and twerking like 3D cartoon on instagram just to get LIKE they can't convert to money.

Those days, make love to your woman in 10 seconds she is ok and everybody is good. Try it these days you'll see her complaining on NL like a she-goat "my man is a 1minute man"
Holla at your woman or get her angry... she'll quit and say "i've moved on". sometimes she'll wake up in the middle of the night and be staring at you. In her mind she'll be like "if I say make I press your neck now kill you die here nko"

Lemme stop here. Such works cause both the arranged will do everything not to disappoint the arrangers

Have a blessed day friends
Do u see how in ur senerio only men are benefiting?
what do u mean 10 seconds love making?so that only u will be satisfied abi.

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Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by divineRx(f): 2:46pm On Jul 17, 2014
sunnyshayne: It will work if money is involved.
i love dat
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by yinchar(m): 2:46pm On Jul 17, 2014
datalossvictim1:

First of all that is what is known as premature ejaculation. It is a sexual dysfunction so whoever has it should seek help. The doctors will help you cure it instead of becoming angry at women. It is abnormal. Secondly, are you saying that in 'those days' all men had this dysfunction? Because I would like to think the opposite since they ate a lot of organic food.

Not that you might care but there are loads of good girls out there, even the Brazilian weaves ones. Maybe you are just not looking properly.
So what you are saying in essence is that everybody that had sex for 10sec, when they were young or just attained the age of puberty have sexual dysfunction, you wrong sis!. Its definitely boils down to the level of immorality in our society, a lady that cant do without having sex once or twice in a week cant be satisfied for 10sec not even 10mins. Or else you want to tell us you didn't get satisfied for 10mins the first time you had an sexu.al encounter?
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Jul 17, 2014
yinchar:
So what you are saying in essence is that everybody that had sex for 10sec, when they were young or just attained the age of puberty have sexual dysfunction, you wrong sis!. Its definitely boils down to the level of immorality in our society, a lady that cant do without having sex once or twice in a week cant be satisfied for 10sec not even 10mins. Or else you want to tell us you didn't get satisfied for 10mins the first time you had an sexu.al encounter?

Please quote me accordingly!! Thanks. I repeat, if you cannot last more than 10seconds go and see your medical doctor. smiley

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Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Otunbakay(m): 4:24pm On Jul 17, 2014
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BukkyDan: It depends on the people involved, their taste, character(i.e are they the obedient type that can be made to do things they don't want to?) and preference.

The 'arrangee' should make sure they both have atleast one or two things in common.

I'd agree to an arranged marriage if the said guy is spiritually upright, not bad in terms of looks, financially stable and 'tends to see things my way'...that's an example though.

So it all boils down to the individual.
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AND YOU WANT HIM TO SEE THINGS IN YOUR OWN WAY...Na Dejo (Mumu) you need for arrangee be that. Goodluck!
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by BukkyDan(f): 4:46pm On Jul 17, 2014
Otunbakay: [/color][b][/b][color=#990000]AND YOU WANT HIM TO SEE THINGS IN YOUR OWN WAY...Na Dejo (Mumu) you need for arrangee be that. Goodluck!

hey bro, don't get me wrong. What I actually meant was, he should be able to view life and what it entails just the way I do.

#I don't know how best to explain#
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by apolonius(m): 4:57pm On Jul 17, 2014
lokito: It works wella especially when the arranged damsel is not too exposed...

These city girls ain't loyal
Internet racketeering has beclouded their sense of reasoning
Chatting and searching for men on Badoo, FB,whatsapp posting pictures, wallowing and twerking like 3D cartoon on instagram just to get LIKE they can't convert to money.

Those days, make love to your woman in 10 seconds she is ok and everybody is good. Try it these days you'll see her complaining on NL like a she-goat "my man is a 1minute man"
Holla at your woman or get her angry... she'll quit and say "i've moved on". sometimes she'll wake up in the middle of the night and be staring at you. In her mind she'll be like "if I say make I press your neck now kill you die here nko"

Lemme stop here. Such works cause both the arranged will do everything not to disappoint the arrangers

Have a blessed day friends


Wow wow wow. So direct,sharp and absolutely apt.

You need to comment more o. Well done well done!smiley
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by justiade4uu(m): 5:48pm On Jul 17, 2014
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Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jul 17, 2014
@Op,nt all arranged weddings work out buh I knw of some dt rily does work out well...it actually depends on if d two parties actually love up sha
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by zaynablar(f): 7:17pm On Jul 17, 2014
[quote author=sambisa5][/quote] My dear wot u c is wot u get.shud I educate u abit?once a woman decided to get married even if she's d queen of internet,i bet she locked dwn totally on som unreasonable apps!even contact nd d one she can't lock dwn on she limit it simply to get up to date -i.e d facebook tin.we av all being der.come out real.if men lik u r nt on ol dos sites u mentioned ao com u knw much about it.its men lik u who adds evry tom dick. Nd harry up nd den ask ur wifey's sisters nd frends out on a sex date.som niggur jus don't have good reputation nd it all not so fresh cos it's an inheritance...we v seen. niggur commuting fraaud in d bank nd got sacked.niggur s a liar a beast,a cheat nd a frauster.like to be coded,com on with it...however,d fact dat I left a man who doesn't value me nor. d marriage doesn't mean ma life has got to pause,Neva!!Niggur nids to grow up nd seek d face of God!#stop hating. Nd get a new job
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by bot101(m): 8:12pm On Jul 17, 2014
a successful marriage is one where the head is placed before the heart, and an arranged marriage makes that possible.
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Jul 17, 2014
A friend of mine has lately gotten strong-handed into meeting and soon marrying an Indian lady...in India.

I don't know if it'll work out, but the whole process has been very intriguing. Eyebrow-raising even - a grown man and woman being manipulated into a marriage. These people don't play!
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by sambisa5: 8:46pm On Jul 17, 2014
zaynablar: My dear wot u c is wot u get.shud I educate u abit?once a woman decided to get married even if she's d queen of internet,i bet she locked dwn totally on som unreasonable apps!even contact nd d one she can't lock dwn on she limit it simply to get up to date -i.e d facebook tin.we av all being der.come out real.if men lik u r nt on ol dos sites u mentioned ao com u knw much about it.its men lik u who adds evry tom dick. Nd harry up nd den ask ur wifey's sisters nd frends out on a sex date.som niggur jus don't have good reputation nd it all not so fresh cos it's an inheritance...we v seen. niggur commuting fraaud in d bank nd got sacked.niggur s a liar a beast,a cheat nd a frauster.like to be coded,com on with it...however,d fact dat I left a man who doesn't value me nor. d marriage doesn't mean ma life has got to pause,Neva!!Niggur nids to grow up nd seek d face of God!#stop hating. Nd get a new job

Am totally lost here...... sad
if i can still remember,i never made comment on this thread that will warrant you mentioning me.embarassed other than ''3D cartoon'' which i mentioned the guy of.

i think you av directed your post to a wrong person......i wasn't d one who wrote that apps stuff...maybe you should go back and read again.....

(lokito said such marriages work well if the woman is a village woman; cos city ladies, because of internet exposure don't get satisfied with s*x and all that.n that exposed ladies wallos and twerks on fb,twitter, instagram like 3D cartoon and i mentioned him '3D cartoon').

I don't know if you were talking to me or you were telling me about lokito.....cos you started with a women and ended with a man...

1st,,,,,u don't know if am married or not.....
2nd,,,,, and if i was,you don't know if my marriage was arranged or not..
3rd,,,,,you don't even know if am a man or a woman.....

So you took time out to write all these to me, without proper findings,,,,,who needs to get a job now
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Vivipop(f): 9:02pm On Jul 17, 2014
As funny as your write up sounds,it is one sided. The question is for an arranged "marriage" and not for an arranged wife. I liked it though. As for. The question, I believe it's a fifty fifty chance but personally, I don't approve.
lokito: It works wella especially when the arranged damsel is not too exposed...

These city girls ain't loyal
Internet racketeering has beclouded their sense of reasoning
Chatting and searching for men on Badoo, FB,whatsapp posting pictures, wallowing and twerking like 3D cartoon on instagram just to get LIKE they can't convert to money.

Those days, make love to your woman in 10 seconds she is ok and everybody is good. Try it these days you'll see her complaining on NL like a she-goat "my man is a 1minute man"
Holla at your woman or get her angry... she'll quit and say "i've moved on". sometimes she'll wake up in the middle of the night and be staring at you. In her mind she'll be like "if I say make I press your neck now kill you die here nko"

Lemme stop here. Such works cause both the arranged will do everything not to disappoint the arrangers

Have a blessed day friends
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by thegoodjoehunt(m): 10:09pm On Jul 17, 2014
Whether arranged or not, marriage works when both parties are determined to make it work.
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by nonjebose(m): 10:09pm On Jul 17, 2014
I think it depends mostly on the 'arrangers',and to an extent,the couple. Where the arrangers share similar ideology,they will mostly know whether their choices are compatible. While guys and girls can hide certain crucial traits in themselves from each other during courtship,the sponsors (when honest)are able to detect or inquire about these traits.
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by nonjebose(m): 10:14pm On Jul 17, 2014
Arranged marriage has numerous advantages over non arranged one
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 11:07pm On Jul 17, 2014
lokito: It works wella especially when the arranged damsel is not too exposed...

These city girls ain't loyal
Internet racketeering has beclouded their sense of reasoning
Chatting and searching for men on Badoo, FB,whatsapp posting pictures, wallowing and twerking like 3D cartoon on instagram just to get LIKE they can't convert to money.

Those days, make love to your woman in 10 seconds she is ok and everybody is good. Try it these days you'll see her complaining on NL like a she-goat "my man is a 1minute man"
Holla at your woman or get her angry... she'll quit and say "i've moved on". sometimes she'll wake up in the middle of the night and be staring at you. In her mind she'll be like "if I say make I press your neck now kill you die here nko"

Lemme stop here. Such works cause both the arranged will do everything not to disappoint the arrangers

Have a blessed day friends
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
YOU ARE SOOOOOO HILARIOUSSSSSS!!! MADE MY NIGHT! grin grin
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Mutuwa(m): 6:22am On Jul 18, 2014
kaima1984: wow,congrats

Appreciate. smiley
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Nobody: 6:47am On Jul 18, 2014
I must say, I am an Arrangee specialist. I help Matured Men and Women find love and we ensure it works and blossoms into Marriage.

Please you can reply on my post if you are serious and interested.

Please you must be ready for marriage to contact me.

We are in the E-age, you don't want to limit your self to meeting him/her physically. You never know how the love arrow would strike you, worse off.. the angle it will come from.

Hit me @nekaOS191 on twitter.

Looking forward to creating your love world of marriage.

See ya!!
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by tonychristopher: 12:30am On Jul 19, 2014
IT WORKED THEN AND TODAY WOMEN ARE LOOSE. ...U DONT NEED SKILLS TO BED A GIRL BUT THOSE DAYS U NEED TO MASTER RHYNNES BUT IT ALL DEPENDS

DIVORCE IS A RESULT OF CULTURE FEAR OF GOD AND FRIENDS. DOMESTIC WOMEN ARE GOOD AND SOME CULTURE HATES DIVORCE LIKE EAST WHILE SOME WILL WANT THE PARENTS TO INTERFER


BOTH ARE OK BUT ARRANGED MARRIAGE IS BEYTER
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by Eshence: 6:51am On Jul 19, 2014
It works 4me oO my husband was arrange 4me by her sister $ wen i get2 no him, he was my dream come true man. Am so proud of him 10years now
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by olatinpo(m): 5:37pm On Aug 03, 2014
Agrika: Very high, nothing increases a lady's prestige like being "recommended" by someone.....afterall u dey ur own him come meet u.

You head dey there joor,
U have spoken d central truth, and it consolidates mine.
Re: What Are The Chances Of Success For An Arranged Marriage? by olatinpo(m): 5:42pm On Aug 03, 2014
Eshence: It works 4me oO my husband was arrange 4me by her sister $ wen i get2 no him, he was my dream come true man. Am so proud of him 10years now
Hmmm, am loving this.
I wish someone recommend SHE for me now wherever she may be, because girls of today can b more deadly than Ebola. Just thinkin seriously!

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