Thanks guys for you every comments and advises . I've just been to busy with my study that i can't visit NL

Is there any advises for the ladies for them to manage their home with it leading to nagging . Or to help the man get back to his feet. Since she is his backbone

Blessedwhite: I've notice it from my neighbor that when the wife have started to provide for her family and the man is not generating any fund and benefits the wife start nagging and making lot of trouble but if it's the the man that paying all the bills and caring for the family it become normal. Why is it like this pls.

i was a victim of such but in my own case i didnt nag instead i was being supportive coz my hubby lost his job but i began to get pissed wen he hits me at any slightest anger after a yr of just staying witout making efforts to look for anoda job instead d little he gets he spends it on gambling.

a man who cannot provide for his home is worse than an infidel.

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I think it's the way the man reacts to the situation that either encourages the woman or makes her mad (as well as the kind of woman involved).
I remember when we were in school, Dad's job had serious issues and almost nothing was coming in from his end. Mum, took full responsibility. Being a civil servant, she'll borrow money from co-operative, v.s, even rice group contribution sef she borrowed from them, she sold everything she could lay her hands on, except human parts in order to feed the home and pay our school fees, cos we were 3 in the university then.
The stress on her was crazy, she wasn't happy but Dad at his own end was doing whatever he could lay his hands upon, hence he was able to assist in his own little way and the words of encouragement he always gave her, made her stronger. Today, we're all through with school and working.
The point I'm trying to make here is this: Men, please encourage your wives when you know she's doing so much and trying so hard to make things work. Don't let your ego get in the way, don't sit at home lamenting your fate and lashing out at the poor woman and your kids. Put ur hands in other businesses, even if it yields little, I believe the woman would appreciate your effort and love you for it. My two cents

he who fail to provide for his house is worse than an infidel this is coming from a biblical point of view that is to show u how abnormal and inappropiate it is,under normal situations the man is xpected to wrk no matter how insignificant his contributions are,the only way he can or shuld be exempted is when faced with bodily or imposed barriers such as prison sentence,severe injuries, amd others

She who does not support her husband like it were from the beginning is was than devil