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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jul 21, 2014
Present anty!!
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by just2endowed: 7:58pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
My own parents no longer love each other, they divorced when I was 6.


That's really touching. Sorry to hear that

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Rooneyboy(m): 7:59pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi: I grew up without a father, i'm an only child and I graduated at the age of 20, i'll be serving next month. I'm proud of who i've grown up to be.
My mom was an iron lady tho, she takes no nonsense. Died last year.
sorry about that sweetie , not to worry luv, the Lord God is ur strength........ Keep being positive about life.

PEACE

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jul 21, 2014
What can I say
I'm presently being raised by my Godsent mother when my parents abandoned me

It isn't easy at all but all is well

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jul 21, 2014
[quote author=Rooneyboy][/quote] kiss kiss tnx, at least before she died she gave me education which happens to be the best legacy.
God bless her in heaven.

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jul 21, 2014
Rooneyboy: sorry about that sweetie , not to worry luv, the Lord God is ur strength........ Keep being positive about life.

PEACE
Tnx hon.
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Cecediva(f): 8:02pm On Jul 21, 2014
Are they sharing money here?

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jul 21, 2014
just2endowed:


That's really touching. Sorry to hear that
Its ok.
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jul 21, 2014
Cecediva: Are they sharing money here?
Yes, how do you want it? Cash or cheque? tongue
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:04pm On Jul 21, 2014
Lordabas: here are some statistics:
Father-deprived children are:
1. 72% of all teenage murderers.
2. 60% of rapists.
3. 70% of kids incarcerated.
4. twice as likely to quit school.
5. 11 times more likely to be violent.
6. 3 of 4 teen suicides.
7. 80% of the adolescents in psychiatric hospitals.
8. 90% of runaways

http://childrenneedb othparents.net/

statistically speaking, ^^thats what happens without a mother being present.

a monther or single parent?
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jul 21, 2014
Maczeelly: Mak I siddon dey luk b4 I go tel ma own experience...............








.....

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Cecediva(f): 8:06pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Yes, how do you want it? Cash or cheque? tongue
Bank wire cheesy how much am i expecting?
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jul 21, 2014
onyaigo: Anyway...for me sha oooo....it happened when I was a teen,i took in immediately i got disvirgined.....it wasn't funny then....going to school,,,the stigma,,the gossip,,,,breaking my family's heart,,,emotional,,,psychological,,,mental trauma(na die)....thank God I never did an abortion(i for done die of heart attack)....today am a better,,stronger,,prettier,,,classier lady......its been from one blessing to another since then(i can't fit shout).........I have learnt that love ain't sex,,relationship is for the matured in mind,,parents know your kids in and out,make them your best friend.....my advice is,,,no Sex before marriage(u r entitled to ur opinion so don't give me dat look)..,,love is not a feeling but a choice u make,,,,if it is easy getting the right partner we all would have been married by now so chill and be the best you can be(your own dey road)......brb.

nice one for being very strong lady


I'LL never marry a single mom not till death

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:07pm On Jul 21, 2014
Cecediva: Bank wire cheesy how much am i expecting?
50cowries. tongue tongue
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Cecediva(f): 8:08pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Tnx hon.
sweetie and honey grin
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by farano(f): 8:08pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
My own parents no longer love each other, they divorced when I was 6.
So sorry about that dear
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Malakh: 8:08pm On Jul 21, 2014
Psalm 27:10 KJV
When my father and my mother forsake me, then the Lord will take me up.

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by buchibabe: 8:09pm On Jul 21, 2014
babestell: Someone close to me is a single mom and I know how tough it was for her. She lost her job when the boss found out. Imagine!!! Like how was it her business. Thank God for family that stood by her and protected her from public scorn. Now the kid is 2yrs and everything is fine.

The annoying thing is all those guys that come to marry her but put condition that she will leave the boy behind angry
I wonder how they just expect her to abandon her son


im a single mom of a handsome lil boy. and to HELL wit any morafucker dat says i shuld abandon my son for him.God forbid!!!

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Rooneyboy(m): 8:09pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Tnx hon.
U welcome dear !
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
Na crazy dey do dem. Awon oniranu.


lol no body ready to feed another man pikin na
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2014
farano: So sorry about that dear
Its ok.
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Firmjudge(m): 8:10pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi: I grew up without a father, i'm an only child and I graduated at the age of 20, i'll be serving next month. I'm proud of who i've grown up to be.
My mom was an iron lady tho, she takes no nonsense. Died last year.
Wow, awesome..

Some of us are often go getters, i am equally in my final years its not really been easy, same story with yours but my mum is very much alive, i am proud of her she is a father and a mother all at the same time.
Growing up was hard, stigma, having some pips calling me a bastard and going through trauma after getting insulted by so-called friends et el..
Low self exteem and trauma really gave me a blow at a tender age.
It wasnt funny, iknow i am a better man now.
I have learned to keep it all together and man up ..

God bless all the single mum that has been holding it down..

One question Father, can you tell me my Name..?

One fact. i tot myself how to tie my shoes.

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by farano(f): 8:11pm On Jul 21, 2014
donnypool:

nice one for being very strong lady


I'LL never marry a single mom not till death
shocked One man's meat is another man's poison

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jul 21, 2014
buchibabe:


im a single mom of a handsome lil boy. and to HELL wit any morafucker dat says i shuld abandon my son for him.God forbid!!!
#Gbam. #Correct

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by sarutobie(m): 8:12pm On Jul 21, 2014
onyaigo: Anyway...for me sha oooo....it happened when I was a teen,i took in immediately i got disvirgined.....it wasn't funny then....going to school,,,the stigma,,the gossip,,,,breaking my family's heart,,,emotional,,,psychological,,,mental trauma(na die)....thank God I never did an abortion(i for done die of heart attack)....today am a better,,stronger,,prettier,,,classier lady......its been from one blessing to another since then(i can't fit shout).........I have learnt that love ain't sex,,relationship is for the matured in mind,,parents know your kids in and out,make them your best friend.....my advice is,,,no Sex before marriage(u r entitled to ur opinion so don't give me dat look)..,,love is not a feeling but a choice u make,,,,if it is easy getting the right partner we all would have been married by now so chill and be the best you can be(your own dey road)......brb.
"love is not a feeling but a choice you make".....a lot of broken marriages and divorces could have been averted if people realised this truth..love isnt really that butterfly feeling in the gut..such feelings fade..that is why God said we should love even our enemies, it is a mandate, a choice we make........

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jul 21, 2014
Odilafta: What can I say
I'm presently being raised by my Godsent mother when my parents abandoned me

It isn't easy at all but all is well
Hmmmm....Pele.
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Cecediva(f): 8:14pm On Jul 21, 2014
Amusaopeyemi:
50cowries. tongue tongue
shocked shocked shocked Are you a native doctor? tonguegrin
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:14pm On Jul 21, 2014
Firmjudge:
Wow, awesome..

Some of us are often go getters, i am equally in my final years its not really been easy, same story with yours but my mum is very much alive, i am proud of her she was a father and a mother all at the same time.
Growing up was hard, stigman, pips calling me a bastard and going through trauma after grtting insulted by so-called friends et el..

It wasnt funny, iknow i am a better man now.
I have learned to keep it all together and man up ..

God bless all the single mum that has been holding it down..

One question Dad, can you tell me my Name..?
I understand dear, It wasn't easy o, you know same mom paying skul fee, buying me clothes and shoes, feeding me, paying the bills with her teacher salary.
I swear some fathers will find tears on that day and they won't see.

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jul 21, 2014
Cecediva: shockedshockedshocked Are you a native doctor? tonguegrin
No, na native doctor younger sister.

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by henryobinna(m): 8:15pm On Jul 21, 2014
Lordabas: here are some statistics:
Father-deprived children are:
1. 72% of all teenage murderers.
2. 60% of rapists.
3. 70% of kids incarcerated.
4. twice as likely to quit school.
5. 11 times more likely to be violent.
6. 3 of 4 teen suicides.
7. 80% of the adolescents in psychiatric hospitals.
8. 90% of runaways

http://childrenneedb othparents.net/

statistically speaking, ^^thats what happens without a mother being present.
explain yourself please, your first statement is not inline with the last statement. they contradict each other

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Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by odeebee: 8:16pm On Jul 21, 2014
Touching tho
Re: Thread For Single Mothers/ Fathers by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jul 21, 2014
MzMariah: Hmmmm....Pele.



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