There's no meaning to your relationship at all.
The earlier you make the right decision, the better.

kamdyjenny: Pls, I need your suggestions and advice here. Am someone that loves to give a man some space and then letting him do what he wants. But trust me, I could be a great detector. I could monitor everything you do (I do this stlyishly because I don't want to be called possessive). Its rather very hard for my guy to cheat on me witout me finding out. Very hard! Because I must find out.

Ok now listen, the last time I caught him cheating on me was 6 months ago. I was out of town for 1 week and He brought a girl home. Ok when I came back, it took me just 2weeks and I found out he was with someone. I confronted him, normally he would want to lie but later he said the truth and confessed how everything happened. He said it was just a mere fling.

Ok! Now we were chatting normally some days back, and he was like can I let him have a fling? Thats is, I would be aware that he is with some woman and won't complain. My first answer was a resounding NO! So he went ahead to say he does not want to keep lying to me anymore because one lie begets plenty lies. Thus he wants to tell me when he is having a fling with a girl.

So, matured guys and girls. What do you think abt this? I prefer answers from matured minds. Would you let your spouse flirt??

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hmnnn... crazy world. This shit happens for real..

If he allows you to do same, no wahala.

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The current situation of having an extramarital affair is due to social networking and dating websites had eagerly hiked up to this date. studies shows that

57% who use the internet takes it as their advantage to flirt.
38% of these users have displayed sexual conversation and unequivocal actions.
50% of these users may have already made contact with their contacts through phone calls.
31% of these conversations lead to unprovoked sexual conversation and real time sex.
Evidence has been proven that cyber sex is parallel to real time sex.

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This is what happens when two clueless people get married, dey know nuffin bout marriage yet dey wanna get married because other persons are getting married. When a purpose of a thing is not known abuse is inevitable, dis is one of d proofs. Ow will u b askin weda 2 allow ur spouse flirt in d first place lyk u knw nt what is ryt? For ur spouse 2 tink of evn flirting means he doesn't value u, guess u were crazy with love in d first place dat u cudnt notice hez behaviours b4 u got married, anoda result of being clueless. Well guess u knw d answer now

Dis is my own take on this matter...OP....its obvious dis guy is gonna cheat u whether he tells u or not....well he's telling u now..which is good for u so u can run....nd from my own view as a guy...I would only tell a lady that kinda stuff if I don't love nd respect her deep down...it only means he doesn't care how u feel...u already made him feel u ain't going nowhere so far he wants to stay with u even if he ffucks up once in a while....well....im sure u gonna end up with HIV pretty soon....so I say again...run for ur life...

some wife allow that if they cant satify their men in bed.

Just to point out...I don't think I saw anything like being married in the post....so why is every one attacking the OP...like she's married....

If u re dating him,I realy believe in a relationship were u can snick out for a while.at least,if u re dat nice person, ur fiance can easily come bak afta realisin dere is no one like u.but if u guys re married,dere is no option for cheating.

"can I let him have a fling?"
What about three some including you
sick people

Yea y not! So far he let's me know about it and so far it is just a fling and he doesn't pick her calls when I nid his attention! A situation where we can talk about it and laugh about it.

Y are you guys wasting Seuns space now for God sake .
See OP ooooo Did I just see Marriage in DAT Report Letter
Wonderful shall Neva ends oooooo n u r saying u love DAT dude u called husband BT if u do I can categorically say DAT Sharpest dude don't love u oooo
And watin dey pain now be say if we check your PIC now you r pretty type .
To be cont

He isn't just into you...

Go find yourself a serious minded man and settle down...

Or simply play and fling along with him...

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A man can only look out side for other girls when he is not getting the best of sex from the wife.

Just have a look...

A man decided to let his wife know that he was unsatisfied with their relationship – by sending her a spreadsheet detailing all the excuses she gave for not having sex with him.
In a post on the sub-Reddit /r/Relationships, a 26-year-old woman revealed that as she was driving to the airport for a 10-day business trip, her husband (also 26) sent her an email containing the offending spreadsheet.


I open it up, and it’s a sarcastic diatribe basically saying he won’t miss me for the 10 days I’m gone. Attached is a SPREADSHEET of all the times he has tried to initiate sex since 1 June, with a column for my “excuses”, using verbatim quotes of why I didn’t feel like having sex at that very moment.
“This is a side of him I have never seen before,” she added.“Bitter, immature, full of hatred.”

She said he has cut off contact with her since sending the email.


The issue has thoroughly split the community, with no definite side being taken:


The husband has a right to be bothered with it, but he doesn’t have the right to send an email bomb like this and then completely cut off communication with his wife.
[The original poster] has been incredibly cruel and insensitive for months to her husband… [He] has decided that he is going to do something really hard in an attempt to save the marriage.

He waited until she was in a different state to say something… and then wouldn’t even answer the phone to talk to her about it! What a cowardly, childish thing to do. Talk it out, face-to-face, like an ADULT and a SPOUSE!


https://uk.news.yahoo.com/man-sends-wife-spreadsheet-times-she-denied-him-145153838.html
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[color=#000099][/color]Never!!!![b]Never!!!![/b]Never!!!!

See question? I can't even allow my bf let alone hubby.. Why am I married to him then

NaLaugh: in R.Kelly voice

"..Unless you trust herrrrr.. Don't bring your girl around me coz i'm a flirt"

Hmmm

This is jst one of d most absurd tins i've eva heard of in a marriage..trying to wrap my head around his request...
First and foremost definition of a Fling
deliberately short-term sexual relationship between two people. Longer than a one-night stand, not as serious-sounding as "affair", more frankly physical than the discreet or twee "dalliance", the word has the associations of a much-needed sexual relief from stress, worry or hangups. No deep personal involvement required, just the sex and a bit of attention.
Seriously? Is Dat wat he asked u 4 permission for.
Sis lets call a spade a spade.. A simple NO is less dan adequate... That nigga needs to stop it in its entirety..... Shikina

kamdyjenny: Pls, I need your suggestions and advice here. Am someone that loves to give a man some space and then letting him do what he wants. But trust me, I could be a great detector. I could monitor everything you do (I do this stlyishly because I don't want to be called possessive). Its rather very hard for my guy to cheat on me witout me finding out. Very hard! Because I must find out.

Ok now listen, the last time I caught him cheating on me was 6 months ago. I was out of town for 1 week and He brought a girl home. Ok when I came back, it took me just 2weeks and I found out he was with someone. I confronted him, normally he would want to lie but later he said the truth and confessed how everything happened. He said it was just a mere fling.

Ok! Now we were chatting normally some days back, and he was like can I let him have a fling? Thats is, I would be aware that he is with some woman and won't complain. My first answer was a resounding NO! So he went ahead to say he does not want to keep lying to me anymore because one lie begets plenty lies. Thus he wants to tell me when he is having a fling with a girl.

So, matured guys and girls. What do you think abt this? I prefer answers from matured minds. Would you let your spouse flirt??

the truth, as a lady, i think the guy is giving you the utmost respect, he isnt trying to play on your intelligence. but truth be told he is at the same time telling you all is not well with both of you. if that question was put to someone who marriage isnt on her mind, sincerely, no shit. the question you need to ask yourself is how commited are you, think about the worst case scenario, how it will impact you. if the thought scene wont hurt you much. Go ahead but if not, my sis..... no take am ooooo. i read a story previous months ago about gabriella union and her boyfriend who impregnated someone else. i think this issue is a personal thing. how far are you ready to go?

Still single bt the moment I catch my man cheating, that's the end of the rltnshp. If I get married & I catch my hubby cheating, I'm gonn make hm swallow a bitter pill b4 we'll move on.. I'm afraid ūя̲̅ man does nt respect you one bit cos if he does, he wouldn't suggest that.!

what is ''flirt'' and/or ''fling''? I just hope it is not what i am thinking or else ...................

@kamdyjenny, would he allow you to flirt as well? If yes and you don't mind him doing it then I say -Yes- go ahead.

Those vulgar whites we tend to worship call it open relationships. Disadvantages include STI and HIV transmission in cases where you have a careless/reckless partner. So advice him to always use a condom and test for HIV before he engages in the act. All the best.

kamdyjenny: . But trust me, I could be a great detector. I could monitor everything you do

. And we have been looking for away to bring back our girls for 100days now or atleast catch the BH boys before their bombs explode without success.

kamdyjenny: Pls, I need your suggestions and advice here. Am someone that loves to give a man some space and then letting him do what he wants. But trust me, I could be a great detector. I could monitor everything you do (I do this stlyishly because I don't want to be called possessive). Its rather very hard for my guy to cheat on me witout me finding out. Very hard! Because I must find out.

Ok now listen, the last time I caught him cheating on me was 6 months ago. I was out of town for 1 week and He brought a girl home. Ok when I came back, it took me just 2weeks and I found out he was with someone. I confronted him, normally he would want to lie but later he said the truth and confessed how everything happened. He said it was just a mere fling.

Ok! Now we were chatting normally some days back, and he was like can I let him have a fling? Thats is, I would be aware that he is with some woman and won't complain. My first answer was a resounding NO! So he went ahead to say he does not want to keep lying to me anymore because one lie begets plenty lies. Thus he wants to tell me when he is having a fling with a girl.

So, matured guys and girls. What do you think abt this? I prefer answers from matured minds. Would you let your spouse flirt??

wow! He is simply saying u don't have what does girls have and pls that the height of disreaspect , I mean he said that to ur face omg

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Some people are not meant to be monogamous. I think your husband is one of those men. if you want to stay with him, then the only way it can work is open relationship. Open relationship varies from couples to couples. So you two have to set your own rules according to your preference. and MUST follow it. I don't see anything wrong with him asking for a fling, at least he asked. It is up to you if you want to stay or leave.

I don't understand why everyone is having an anxiety and heart attack over his request. You will be shock how people define their own marriage. All these goody goody to shoes comments are too much.

jayseehe: Life is like Nairaland. People will like your problems and comment, but no one will solve them because everyone is busy updating theirs.

That is just it dear!

Everybody is busy solving their problems just like Nairalanders are been busy updating watever is on their mind....

So Op, pray to God & seek answers b4 it's late

I will never let my spouse flirt with other women; Apart from it been down right disrepectful, it is infact considered cheating and a sin; According to the bible.