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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by JudgementHammer: 12:44am On Dec 14, 2015 |
Didn't even know something that concerns me like this exists on NL. Happy I found it sha |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by naijacentric(m): 5:05am On Dec 14, 2015 |
ambiverts here anyone |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:01pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
feran15:That's good to know. Do you have difficulties when exchanging pleasantries with friends, elders and strangers, do you think greeting some one is the way of expressing the self respect you have for them or do you feel using greeting as a basis for self respect is over rated? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:03pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
naijacentric:Why do you think you're an ambivert. Can you naturally express extroversion among strangers and not feel exhausted? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:06pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
JudgementHammer:Welcome home. Please i will like to ask you this question. While growing up, did your parent or siblings ever scolded you for your introversion, and are you a shy introvert? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 10:21pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Bidexluv:As an introvert, you will have a lot of issues trusting people except for some family members. Well for some of us introverts, we deal with trust issue by not trusting anyone. The reason for this, is that there are only a few people out there that can be trusted. if at all you're are to trust any one, study that individually critically and see if he/she meets with your standard. It is very disastrous to trust the wrong fellow. Many people pretend to care when actually they don't give a damn. Be careful whom you trust. If i may ask, do you have a best friend? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by feran15(m): 10:43pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Olarewajub: i guess i find greeting friends difficult sometimes... i usually dont know how to do that, but for elders, as long as its not more than good morning and how is this person or that person, I'm okay with it. greeting as a basis for self respect is not over rated. at least in the case of older people 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 8:35am On Dec 15, 2015 |
feran15: |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 8:46am On Dec 15, 2015 |
Olarewajub:Have very close friends who people around calls my best friends but deep down they may just be close friends. My trust issues is worst believe me when i say worst. Trust no one at all except the Supreme Being Up in Heaven . 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 11:04am On Dec 15, 2015 |
Bidexluv:in d words of tuface "i know u cannot trust nobody but u have to trust someone". Life in itself is a risk, i have learnt to stat trusting people till they mess up. Guess wat? Some havn't messed up yet. Sometimes, its onli faith dat is required. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:40am On Dec 15, 2015 |
Bidexluv:Yea that's right. The definition whom is a friend is quite different from the perspective of an introvert. Many people here will have difficulties if tossed this question; Who is your friend? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:42am On Dec 15, 2015 |
shegxi:Do you have this uneasiness that some day they might stop being trust worthy? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 1:07pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
Olarewajub:i dn't. I have come to terms with d fact dat anybody can mess up at any time. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 3:12pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
shegxi:Oh i see, no disappointment expected. How do you do this, can i say you are being care free? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by shegxi(m): 5:27pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
Olarewajub:care free is nt d right word, of course am very careful. Anybody dat want to disappoint will disappoint whether u worry or nt. Dere are rili no hard and fast rule to it. Just be careful, know ur standards den simply hope for d best. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:31pm On Dec 15, 2015 |
shegxi:WOW i see. Humans will always be humans. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 8:42am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Olarewajub:Dont have a definition for a friend |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Bidexluv(f): 8:43am On Dec 17, 2015 |
shegxi:Yea, the faith..... Thanks |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 12:53pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Bidexluv:Anybody goes? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 1:45pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Have anyone of you ever wished to be an extrovert ? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by June24th: 2:03pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Olarewajub: 99% true for me... I hardly trust outsiders.. I'll have to really scrutinise u.. Maybe dats y I don't av any close friends.. Though I feel lonely at times |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:31pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
June24th:At one point in time or the other, introverts feel lonely and at this point in time if you don't understand your introversion you become remorseful for your personality. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:32pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Rukkydelta:Do you mean at certain instances or transforming totally to an extrovert? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 7:08pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Olarewajub:at certain instances |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 11:15pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Will just be willing to join in this discussion. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 4:43am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Rukkydelta:That will be a no, used to but not anymore not after I've come come to realize who am really are. Thank God for the book Quiet by Susan Cain. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 5:03am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Rukkydelta(f): 5:17am On Dec 18, 2015 |
Olarewajub:good for you |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by dasdexter(m): 5:59am On Dec 18, 2015 |
HaneefahRN:you just described my whole trait, one thing i have come to realize about humans is that they treat you depending on how you present yourself, once you set your boundaries trust me they will respect it, those who know me knows the good in me, while those who are yet to know, sees me as a snub, when i go to church, I just want to be done and get out, though i had love to stay back and chat, but what exactly are we chatting about, so i just up and leave, it's a routine i hate and love. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:11pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
Rukkydelta:Have you read quiet and are you from Delta? |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 1:13pm On Dec 18, 2015 |
dasdexter:Men routine you hate and love. That got me. 1 Like |
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