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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mosandie(f): 11:12pm On Jul 31, 2014
Olarewajub: #IntrovertFact: Most introverts tend to be good listeners and pretend to enjoy a boring convesation just like the way sailormoon does it.
So true. Im not much of a talker, more comfortable listening and ive noticed people easily confide in me but i hardly reciprocate.
Ive been accused of being proud and snobbish just cos i keep to myself and like to mind my business.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jul 31, 2014
corisande: present! !
People think I'm a snub and not approachable
I don't keep/have friends
*boring*
same here, I only keep contacts, but I love the aloneness... Tis fun n so interesting, helps me think better
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:14pm On Jul 31, 2014
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mosandie(f): 11:15pm On Jul 31, 2014
Olarewajub: @ Monsandie i sight thee spying.
lol, that's exactly what i wanted to do, just spy.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sailormoon: 11:15pm On Jul 31, 2014
Mosandie:
So true. Im not much of a talker, more comfortable listening and ive noticed people easily confide in me but i hardly reciprocate.
Ive been accused of being proud and snobbish just cos i keep to myself and like to mind my business.
Cosign on all of this, especially the proud and snobbish part
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:16pm On Jul 31, 2014
Mosandie:
So true. Im not much of a talker, more comfortable listening and ive noticed people easily confide in me but i hardly reciprocate.
Ive been accused of being proud and snobbish just cos i keep to myself and like to mind my business.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:17pm On Jul 31, 2014
Mosandie:
lol, that's exactly what i wanted to do, just spy.
LOL! Spying ain't allowed here. Don't even think about it @ mzsunshine
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:20pm On Jul 31, 2014
wallflower: I just want to be left alone in a dark and quiet room, most of the time. Nobody ever gets it.
Dark room keh?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:22pm On Jul 31, 2014
J0nyb0y: at times people dont seem to understand my reason for doing some things.. Am a serious Nerd and a extremely shy guy... Its difficult at tyms trying to blend... Most esp keeping coversation with ladies. I get so uneasy and awkward..
I can actually relate to all of this.. So how do you intend to overcome that shy attitude?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 11:28pm On Jul 31, 2014
Olarewajub: I can actually relate to all of this.. So how do you intend to overcome that shy attitude?
av been reading many articles/books on it. I try as much as possible to talk to more people the few times i go out. And the kind of person i am, a tall 6'9ft dude.. When i pass/enter a crowd i act like am a star and all eyes on me cos of my height... That is helping
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 11:28pm On Jul 31, 2014
Olarewajub: I can actually relate to all of this.. So how do you intend to overcome that shy attitude?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 11:33pm On Jul 31, 2014
Mosandie:
So true. Im not much of a talker, more comfortable listening and ive noticed people easily confide in me but i hardly reciprocate.
Ive been accused of being proud and snobbish just cos i keep to myself and like to mind my business.
same here... Minding my business is my priorety. And i keep things 2 myself., see no reason why sum1 else should know

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mosandie(f): 11:37pm On Jul 31, 2014
Im shy but sometimes i surprise myself. I could start a conversation with anyone no matter how intimidating (its like a challenge).

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by tpia1: 11:44pm On Jul 31, 2014
Most introverts respond well to whatever they consider challenges.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 12:04am On Aug 01, 2014
J0nyb0y:
av been reading many articles/books on it. I try as much as possible to talk to more people the few times i go out. And the kind of person i am, a tall 6'9ft dude.. When i pass/enter a crowd i act like am a star and all eyes on me cos of my height... That is helping
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mstik(f): 12:07am On Aug 01, 2014
undecided
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 12:10am On Aug 01, 2014
Happy New Month Guys. Its August (Août). Thank you Jesus.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 12:11am On Aug 01, 2014
mstik: undecided
You wanna say something?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 1:48am On Aug 01, 2014
Olarewajub: Happy New Month Guys. Its August (Août). Thank you Jesus.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ib4real95(m): 3:51am On Aug 01, 2014
sailormoon: I have more conversations in my head than I do in real life

Exactly.. Thats hw i am too. I may be listening to pples convo without talking but up there im processing and analyzing pple.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by mstik(f): 3:55am On Aug 01, 2014
yup, quiet people are more analytic. Like me, I never talk, but I can give a detailed description of a person. I did this once and the person was shocked lol
ib4real95:
Exactly.. Thats hw i am too. I may be listening to pples convo without talking but up there im processing and analyzing pple.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by sheniqua: 4:49am On Aug 01, 2014
chinnyness122: as an introvert, its not really been easy dealing with people who don't understand me.

people say am proud, snobbish and unfriendly. dat I always feel too big to associate with them. while some odas think am a good n homely girl,.....hahaha but dey don't know me

I am a 100% indoor person, I prefer to read novels, play music, and surf d net. I am easily irritated by people and as such, I don't have many friends. once someone starts irritating me, i stop picking his/her calls. I hardly make new friends, d ones I make, maintaining d friendship becomes a problem. dey complain dat I don't call, I don't visit bla bla bla ........am working on it shaa.

party? hahaha! not my thing buh wen I attend one, I jes sit n observe.


I find it difficult engaging in a conversation with people esp d elderly ones. I find myself tongue-tied weneva I wan to spaek to dem.. I hardly call dem by dia names, I prefer going near dem n whispering in dia ears.

stage fright I something av not bin able to deal with........I think my own "introvercy" is d worst.
I really nid help!

Can someone give her tips
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 6:22am On Aug 01, 2014
Olarewajub: Dark room keh?

My eyes are more sensitive to light than usual.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Alexsmith20(m): 10:41am On Aug 01, 2014
J0nyb0y: at times people dont seem to understand my reason for doing some things.. Am a serious Nerd and a extremely shy guy... Its difficult at tyms trying to blend... Most esp keeping coversation with ladies. I get so uneasy and awkward..
same here,'especialy ladies' wat do you think is the way out??
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Skills102(m): 10:53am On Aug 01, 2014
1st tym i admit ds...kinda lyk my space,hate gossips,prefer to b indoors,nt realy shy bt kip my distance...friends do cum for advice n i tink y me !!!
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Alexsmith20(m): 10:55am On Aug 01, 2014
being an introvert aint easy to cope with..
introverts are mostly shy(guys) especially when around ladies..
You see that beautiful girl across the street and you know that you so into this girl,but when ever you think of making an attempt you jst feel weigh-down until some other gut comes and and get her...
And when ever an introvert eventually tries to make an attempt,the girl on the other hand feels hez to boring and says no!!
SERIOUSLY THE GIRLS AINT HELP ISSUES...GBAM!

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 11:46am On Aug 01, 2014
Alexsmith20: being an introvert aint easy to cope with..
introverts are mostly shy(guys) especially when around ladies..
You see that beautiful girl across the street and you know that you so into this girl,but when ever you think of making an attempt you jst feel weigh-down until some other gut comes and and get her...
And when ever an introvert eventually tries to make an attempt,the girl on the other hand feels hez to boring and says no!!
SERIOUSLY THE GIRLS AINT HELP ISSUES...GBAM!
LOL! Confidence and high self esteem is the way out.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 4:11pm On Aug 01, 2014
Alexsmith20: same here,'especialy ladies' wat do you think is the way out??
from articles and books av read, most emphasize on going out of our comfort zone., talking to random people anywhere we find ourselves....
Also heard ladies love shy guys. Lol dont know how true
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by J0nyb0y(m): 4:18pm On Aug 01, 2014
who else often forget things easily?, get irritated/angry over silly things and have problems expressing my feelings because i think no one would understand me

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 4:20pm On Aug 01, 2014
J0nyb0y:
from articles and books av read, most emphasize on going out of our comfort zone., talking to random people anywhere we find ourselves....
Also heard ladies love shy guys. Lol dont know how true
I guess so.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Olarewajub: 4:22pm On Aug 01, 2014
Sincerely, i don't experience such.
J0nyb0y: who else often forget things easily?, get irritated/angry over silly things and have problems expressing my feelings because i think no one would understand me
How are you enjoying your weekend?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by agitator: 4:28pm On Aug 01, 2014
ok

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