Baldmarv:
y do you girls always think the guy should always be available, always create time always always...he might truly be busy or he doesn't want you to go too fast because you have some way to go before finishing sch...things progress fast if you stay in touch every minute...i do what he does when i don't want things progressing too fast...the guy might have the same philosophy!

. I wanted friendship, he wanted more. I accepted the more. He is behaving like a pig

Delightbaby: Some men became unserious once you agreed to date then unlike when they could go extra miles for them to woo you. You cherish what you value no matter how busy your schedule may seems to be. My candid advice is just for you to move on with your life. It might be that he has gotten someone else but just for him to have somebody to rest upon in case of any emergency/eventuality. GOD will give you a man that will love, cherish and be the one that will be sending texts and calling you every now and then

Amennnnnnn ooo

kagari: Like what someone said, he might be broke now or have a serious personal project, that keeps him to himself. I behave like that also coupled with the fact that iam not the calling type.
I totally undestand what you are going through cause same happened in my relationship not quite long, my girl called the shots and said it was over, i was sad and angry for she wanting to leave me at this difficult stage in my life. But pride wont let me plead. We broke communication for some weeks, she called inbetween but i do busy the calls. But after a month i called and apologised and she told me her anger with me is when things starts becoming rough 4 me i blackout everyone.
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So it might be same for your guy. You can call to know wtzup, it wont hurt sweetheart.

. Yea that's true. Am just getting fed up of having to call and find out. I rather loose him now than go far with an uncaring man.

Sounds more like my girlfriend .. Princess666.

Princess666: conquered? How? Not like he has gotten anything from me

but your own case is settled already. he moved on to woo the next in line

He is not into you! Too busy doing what? No matter what he could always create time for you. His actions show he doesn't care. Move on without him,he isn't worth it i must say.

What was the content of your text?
Maybe you demanded for money or you were bordering him with so many things

Maybe you are not what he thought you were. I could remember meeting a very sweet and pretty lady in the airport during my I.T. She was smart and smooth just as I like them. We started going out.

I never know say as she come fine well well na so her wahala come plenty well well. She calls me for almost everything(she doesn't demand physical cash from me), I been dey happy to dey help her shaa. I was her hero. I never knw say nature gave her all dose beauties just to attract potential victims like myself.

All her calls/texts come with fresh problem upon say we still dey in d preliminary of our r/ship. Na so I suffer sotee I begin lose weight; I eat well but still grow tinny. Nobi person tell me to run and leave the girl o.

I hate it wen someone says "I luv yu" buh their actions says "I don't forkin care about yu"....we even, I broke up last week, and I suggest u do d same, and if e truly luvs u?? E will come prostrating...








































Thank me later

GreyBlood: What was the content of your text?
Maybe you demanded for money or you were bordering him with so many things

Maybe you are not what he thought you were. I could remember meeting a very sweet and pretty lady in the airport during my I.T. She was smart and smooth just as I like them. We started going out.

I never know say as she come fine well well na so her wahala come plenty well well. She calls me for almost everything(she doesn't demand physical cash from me), I been dey happy to dey help her shaa. I was her hero. I never knw say nature gave her all dose beauties just to attract potential victims like myself.

All her calls/texts come with fresh problem upon say we still dey in d preliminary of our r/ship. Na so I suffer sotee I begin lose weight; I eat well but still grow tinny. Nobi person tell me to run and leave the girl o.

My dear pls forget him. My ex did same to me. Anybody who is into you will do everything possible to communicate with you daily. He is probably cheating on you!!!

stinggy:

but your own case is settled already. he moved on to woo the next in line

so what do you guys benefit from wooing lots of ladies? a trophy or what?

GreyBlood: What was the content of your text?
Maybe you demanded for money or you were bordering him with so many things

Maybe you are not what he thought you were. I could remember meeting a very sweet and pretty lady in the airport during my I.T. She was smart and smooth just as I like them. We started going out.

I never know say as she come fine well well na so her wahala come plenty well well. She calls me for almost everything(she doesn't demand physical cash from me), I been dey happy to dey help her shaa. I was her hero. I never knw say nature gave her all dose beauties just to attract potential victims like myself.

All her calls/texts come with fresh problem upon say we still dey in d preliminary of our r/ship. Na so I suffer sotee I begin lose weight; I eat well but still grow tinny. Nobi person tell me to run and leave the girl o.

see me laughing... if she wasnt demanding cash, how then wash she making you get thin? looool

korres00: I hate it wen someone says "I luv yu" buh their actions says "I don't forkin care about yu"....we even, I broke up last week, and I suggest u do d same, and if e truly luvs u?? E will come prostrating..








































Thank me later

after you guys prostrate, you men will still go back to your vomit as if its sweet

Princess666: so what do you guys benefit from wooing lots of ladies? a trophy or what?

no trophy dear, it's nature. and if we don't do, so many of you will be without bf

stinggy:

no trophy dear, it's nature. and if we don't do, so many of you will be without bf

you men need GOD. loool

Baldmarv:
y do you girls always think the guy should always be available, always create time always always...he might truly be busy or he doesn't want you to go too fast because you have some way to go before finishing sch...things progress fast if you stay in touch every minute...i do what he does when i don't want things progressing too fast...the guy might have the same philosophy!

Oh yeah... No one is asking for his whole bunch of time here but a simple gesture of returning/acknowledging calls. I too like a relationship that each has a breathing space and gat to be more focused. Seeing once in a while makes everything anew than stalking someone. View the matter divergently nah. IMO

Princess666:
after you guys prostrate, you men will still go back to your vomit as if its sweet

if he does dat...u shut him out completely, cos his a di.ck-head..

So u sent him a message on Saturday and he did not reply till now?




What was he busy with last Saturday? Is ur guy an undertaker?





Truth is;.........make I no talk




But I know this won't end well

stinggy:

no trophy dear, it's nature. and if we don't do, so many of you will be without bf

Just say truth men who act like you are not ready for all the commitment thing. You still want to play the field and there is nothing wrong with it.

What is wrong is when a gyal starts trying to change the guy instead of recognizing that he is not for her, may never be ready and there are men who are for are and are ready to commit to her.

Princess666 he is just a friend flirting with you so treat him as he is even when he is asking you out or begging to come back, for him he is just testing how far he can get away with whatever.

andromida:

Just say truth men who act like you are not ready for all the commitment thing. You still want to play the field and there is nothing wrong with it.

What is wrong is when a gyal starts trying to change the guy instead of recognizing that he is not for her, may never be ready and there are men who are for are and are ready to commit to her.

Princess666 he is just a friend flirting with you so treat him as he is even when he is asking you out or begging to come back, for him he is just testing how far he can get away with whatever.

You might actually be right about me, but using my comment to judge Princess666's bf isn't right. Accepted, he isn't acting well atm, but then there might be some things he's passing thru cos the funny thing is this babe said he was very caring and loving at their friendship stage, but just after she said yes, he changed.
Again, maybe and maybe he is testing her patience or trying to know the depth of attachment he has formed with her too and trying to see how long he can carry on without her in the event of an heartbreak.

stinggy:

You might actually be right about me, but using my comment to judge Princess666's bf isn't right. Accepted, he isn't acting well atm, but then there might be some things he's passing thru cos the funny thing is this babe said he was very caring and loving at their friendship stage, but just after she said yes, he changed.
Again, maybe and maybe he is testing her patience or trying to know the depth of attachment he has formed with her too and trying to see how long he can carry on without her in the event of an heartbreak.

Almost all men are caring and loving at the friendship stage but humans as we are, we unfold. The guy unfolded to show himself whether trying her patience or whatever private games he is playing she should move on, he has not communicated to her that he is having trying times and if he is already planning ahead in terms of a heartbreak it means he knows a heartbreak is imminent. He does not care about her feelings, He is taking care of himself she should take care of herself too.

She must not wait until a heartbreak before she moves on. The writing is on the wall.

andromida:

Just say truth men who act like you are not ready for all the commitment thing. You still want to play the field and there is nothing wrong with it.

What is wrong is when a gyal starts trying to change the guy instead of recognizing that he is not for her, may never be ready and there are men who are for are and are ready to commit to her.

Princess666 he is just a friend flirting with you so treat him as he is even when he is asking you out or begging to come back, for him he is just testing how far he can get away with whatever.

i thought as much too but i tried giving room to see for my self. i have moved on jare. thank God i have nothing to loose ;except missing him

Princess666: i thought as much too but i tried giving room to see for my self. i have moved on jare. thank God i have nothing to loose ;except missing him

Missing him is normal, just don't make him into one special guy in your mind he he was an experience but remember the world is full of men who will really be into you and be what you desire.

Don't force yourself to forget him time will do that for you then you will meet your right match and you may not even remember his name again that's life. Be gentle with you and enjoy your life.

All the best.

andromida:

Missing him is normal, just don't make him into one special guy in your mind he he was an experience but remember the world is full of men who will really be into you and be what you desire.

Don't force yourself to forget him time will do that for you then you will meet your right match and you may not even remember his name again that's life. Be gentle with you and enjoy your life.

All the best.

thanks

Princess666:
see me laughing... if she wasnt demanding cash, how then wash she making you get thin? looool

nagging things, trust women n na their life be that,
My ex-babe nag a lot sotey I come dey restless, shior! I got call it quit, I don break up with her cos of this and she will be telling me she will change that not her fault, mostly, when I travel out of the state na there the nagging dey worst.
I finally broke up with her early this year but recently, she has started calling me again that she has out grown that kind of behaviour. I do love but this is the problem I have with her, any small thing she don dey cry, she is just too emotional.

3 days to reply a chat ?

Is that his only fault ?

I have a lady who hardly chats too. She isn't good in chatting but physically, she talks non stop...

Princess666: i thought as much too but i tried giving room to see for my self. i have moved on jare. thank God i have nothing to loose ;except missing him

na so you don love up reach ? take am easy liltle sister

Princess666: hi. please i need anyone's sincere help in understanding this guy. i met him somewhere somehow in january and we became friends that enjoyed each other's company alot...we could not always see but we were close using chats and all. around june there was a mutual affection running...he wanted more...i liked him but i wasnt sure i loved him...so i refused because i wasnt also sure if his love was genuine and how long it would last because am in school and we may not see for long say about june to december.....after much pressure i agreed mid july after all trying wont hurt. but he has this bad habit of not replying my messages, claiming he is busy etc. i sent him a message since saturday since this the only way we can communicate due to distance, today is tuesday and no reply. thats his habit. i fight over that alot with him. he would come and apologise and say he is sorry and all. guys please when you love a girl doesnt it drive you to wanna reach her no matter how busy you are? dont you think of her always? am i wasting my time with him? does his action show true love? should i move on cus me i love with my head and sense or am i just being insensitive and not understanding? he is a great person same time i also wouldnt like to loose him but i cant love an uncaring man either

hey wassup long time . why did you stop replying my mails? did i say anything wrong ? c........@gmail.com I hope you know who is talking.

Princess666: hi. please i need anyone's sincere help in understanding this guy. i met him somewhere somehow in january and we became friends that enjoyed each other's company alot...we could not always see but we were close using chats and all. around june there was a mutual affection running...he wanted more...i liked him but i wasnt sure i loved him...so i refused because i wasnt also sure if his love was genuine and how long it would last because am in school and we may not see for long say about june to december.....after much pressure i agreed mid july after all trying wont hurt. but he has this bad habit of not replying my messages, claiming he is busy etc. i sent him a message since saturday since this the only way we can communicate due to distance, today is tuesday and no reply. thats his habit. i fight over that alot with him. he would come and apologise and say he is sorry and all. guys please when you love a girl doesnt it drive you to wanna reach her no matter how busy you are? dont you think of her always? am i wasting my time with him? does his action show true love? should i move on cus me i love with my head and sense or am i just being insensitive and not understanding? he is a great person same time i also wouldnt like to loose him but i cant love an uncaring man either

The truth of the matter is that, who ever loves you with his whole heart and not with a part will always care, call at least twice in a day, some times send you SMS about how he feels about you no matter the circumstances/busyness.

Because that makes you special and different from other girls.

Even if he doesn't have, he most have his little way to show you love and care.