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Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:15am On Jul 29, 2014 |
I hv been living in an easthern state for 3 years now, But I have decided to go back to the west where am from But the problem is there is a girl am dating she loves me so much, as hard as it is for me I jst hv to leave her and move on wit my life, I don't know Wat is out there for me. Am a realist I don't live on promises and hopes. Pls how I do I tell her without hurting her badly |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:24am On Jul 29, 2014 |
Why do you want to break up with her if she truly loves you? 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:25am On Jul 29, 2014 |
Op, ..You should know that is a very selfish act on your part. You're asking us how do you tell her you're breaking up with her, without hurting her badly?....Why don't ask yourself the Same damn question?. How would you feel if you gf tells you she's breaking up with you, because she's moving away to a different state?. Haven't you ever thought about the fact that she might love you so much that she wouldn't mind going along with you?...After three years...Do you think its that easy to end a relationship like that?. 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:36am On Jul 29, 2014 |
[quote author=Victoriousvic][color=#000099]Why do you want to break up with her if she truly loves you? its not my intention but i dont know wat is waiting for me out there |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:37am On Jul 29, 2014 |
glitest: Op, ..You should know that is a very selfish act on your part.. Its the most difficult tin I hv ever have to do |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Tallesty1(m): 6:39am On Jul 29, 2014 |
glitest: Op, ..You should know that is a very selfish act on your part.I wish girls reason this way before braking-up with a guy, but unfortunately they don't. It is only when a guy wants to dump a gf that we hear preaching like this.............@Op, you started everything so you should know how to end it if you wish to. I would say distance may not affect the r/shp if the bond is a strong one but the decision is yours to make. 2 Likes |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by lokito: 6:41am On Jul 29, 2014 |
I hate it when a partner takes a unilateral decision. Mscheew 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:42am On Jul 29, 2014 |
I'm sorry to say this, but like glitest said, that's truly a selfish act on your part. Dude, this girl loves you. Are you just gonna break her heart and hurt her because you're moving, or because you don't know what's waiting for you out there? Think about it. Wait, do you even love her? I'm sure you don't, because if you do, you won't be asking this. 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by fijiano202(m): 6:56am On Jul 29, 2014 |
Dude,this a really tough question cos theres no better way to break up with someone that loves u but i truely understand u cos sometimes in life love aint enough....you have ur dreams and goals and maybe its ur love for her thats hindering u from acheiving it but my advice is dont break up with her yet.try to make her understand and see reasons why u have to relocate alone and also why u need to get ur shit together but u will always keep in touch and invite her over once in a while,wait until she starts losing hope and doubting ur relationship before u end things it may take alot of time but u have to be really patient and gentle with her......one more thing,ignore all those that say ur selfish,some of them are too afraid to take life changing decisions concerning their own lifes,can love pay the bills? 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 7:00am On Jul 29, 2014 |
fijiano202: Dude,this a really tough question cos theres no better way to break up with someone that loves u but i truely understand u cos sometimes in life love aint enough....you have ur dreams and goals and maybe its ur love for her thats hindering u from acheiving it but my advice is dont break up with her yet.try to make her understand and see reasons why u have to relocate alone and also why u need to get ur shit together but u will always keep in touch and invite her over once in a while,wait until she starts losing hope and doubting ur relationship before u end things it may take alot of time but u have to be really patient and gentle with herthanks for your understand, u hv an idea abt hw I feel |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Tallesty1: I wish girls reason this way before braking-up with a guy, but unfortunately they don't. It is only when a guy wants to dump a gf that we hear preaching like this.............@Op, you started everything so you should know how to end it if you wish to. I would say distance may not affect the r/shp if the bond is a strong one but the decision is yours to make. Bros, this ain't no preaching....I lost a friendship( female) due to a similar issue...So my preaching isn't only towards the guys. |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 2:20pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
eskober: . Its the most difficult tin I hv ever have to do If this was the most difficult thing you've ever had to do as you claim, you wouldn't be online asking people on how to tell her you're moving on without her.....So your comment isn't given you any pass. You didn't come online to get everyone's advice, you are online to get advice from those who are in support with your already planned decision; You want to get their advice and approval, so as to reduce the level of guilt you already have for doing so; Thus you wouldn't have such decision hunt you, when you move on. You might not be an horrible guy, but you are sure 100% a selfish one. 2 Likes |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by dre11(m): 3:11pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
Tallesty1: I wish girls reason this way before braking-up with a guy, but unfortunately they don't. It is only when a guy wants to dump a gf that we hear preaching like this............. guy u deserve a Gold medal for that thesis u just put up there @Op, you started everything so you should know how to end it if you wish to. I would say distance may not affect the r/shp if the bond is a strong one but the decision is yours to make. i don't think the Op is into the girl that much because he should have weight all options before coming online to make his intentions know........ Because distance relationship isn't as bad as some people put it since there was a foundation of years before u decide to move......... So OP na you shit........ nah u go pack am |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:09pm On Jul 29, 2014 |
glitest:take it easy wit me now, let me ask u hv u ever had to take a life changing decision befor. If u want to talk me out of it I will appreciate jst open my eyes to think u think am missin thanks in advance |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 6:06am On Jul 30, 2014 |
Op...Talk you out of it?.. This is a decision you have to make for yourself...Good luck with whatever decision and step that you take concerning your relationship and life. |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Sunkyphil(m): 6:25am On Jul 30, 2014 |
D way u tell her to remove her pants 2 Likes |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by hakeem4(m): 8:06am On Jul 30, 2014 |
eskober: I hv been living in an easthern state for 3 years now, But I have decided to go back to the west where am from But the problem is there is a girl am dating she loves me so much, as hard as it is for me I jst hv to leave her and move on wit my life, I don't know Wat is out there for me. Am a realist I don't live on promises and hopes. Pls how I do I tell her without hurting her badlylmao tell her your mom went to an herbalist n he saw the future that the both of you ain't compatible ..........lmao 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Kentnickole(m): 2:14pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
glitest: Op...Talk you out of it?..*smiles* 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Kentnickole: Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Kentnickole(m): 8:11pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
glitest:Wat can I do to win u over again? 2 Likes |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Kentnickole: Win me over as in?. 3 Likes |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Kentnickole(m): 8:17pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
glitest:Can we talk in prvt? 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Kentnickole: I hope there isn't any problem?. 3 Likes |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Kentnickole(m): 8:25pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
glitest:It seems there is... 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Kentnickole(m): 8:27pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
glitest:There is... 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
Kentnickole: I hope I didn't offend you?....I do apologize if I did...So I hope there isn't anything else?. 1 Like |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Kentnickole(m): 8:40pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
glitest:I already sent u a mail nd u owe me sm tn... |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by freecocoa(f): 9:02pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
You keep saying you don't know what's out there for you, biko let me ask o, did you keep any unpleasant thing out there?Boko haram or Ebola dey wait you ni? You just tired of the babe and it would be easier to just tell her that, either ways, since she loves you, she'd hurt badly. |
Re: Hw Do I Tell Her That Its Time For Me To Move On by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jul 30, 2014 |
I hate seen all dis topic,if u want 2 breakup while not go ahead,y askin 4 help,oh u want us 2 encorage u 2 break up wit a girl dat luv u wholeheartedly |
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