MizMyColi: Thank You

2sExy1: easy bro, easy! mencade5, where at thou

MRbrownJAY:

in life, actions speak louder than words, and she certainly dont act right. if all is well, as you want to put it, then she wouldnt be in the mess that she finds herself into. that man can never accept her r/ship with the guy she once fell in love with ( and that she cant be with), it is not a healthy r/ship, it is not practical, it is not proper, and just a catastrophe waiting to happen.

this lady has to decide what is important for her, and get rid of the other. she CANNOT have her cake and eat it too.

mencade5: 2sExy1 present sir!

I was at politics section when you called me.
How was the holiday?

Oooooo peeeeee, stop doing ojoro to your boyfriend.
The guy is trying to build a bond with you and needs you to spend quality time with him. Instead you are giving more attention to another guy. Why?

There are somethings you are doing secretly that you are not telling us. All these naija girls sef na wa for una ooo. You knew quite well that he needs you more but you giving preference to another boy, whom you called your friend.

If na you this thing dey happen to, you go happy?
Ladies, no be una wey i know. Una wey get jealousy pass anything. Your boyfriend may said that he doesnt want your male friend near you again due to the frustrating situation your placed him in.

Abeg, pleade with your guy and reduce the time you spend with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is your boyfriend, unless you are fvcking your friend too.

wasak:
Oh! i see... loves both but in different ways... so. she want to be putting two cakes in her mouth @ d same time because one is milk nd the other is honey

ideology: u r welcome

Folks like u give me hope of a greater future, just transfer those traits to ur kids, so At least my sons and daughters would find good couples in future

kikikiki Now you make me wanna be pals with you Thanks all the same, We should work with our creator to ensure that our kids are farr greater than we'll ever be for therein lies great a measure of success.

2sExy1: I am not in the right frame of mind to give proper advice so, I felt you could do justice. Mr Brownjay already handle it well.

MzPreshie: Really, my friend doesn't prefer her bestie to her boyfie, that's a point to note. She loves both but in different ways. And about adding oil to the fire, she had already resolved this issue with her boyfriend the first time he popped it up. She just didnt expect things will go this way.

mencade5:
Your boyfriend may said that he doesnt want your male friend near you again due to the frustrating situation your placed him in.

Abeg, pleade with your guy and reduce the time you spend with your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is your boyfriend.

mencade5: i no dey even advise girls ooo. As you see them so them wicked no be small. If na them, them no go look back before them leave you.

ideology:

Dear friend kindly tell ur friend, if she's choosing her current man, she should cut down relationship with bestie. Better still visit her man, and explain the last incident and ensure it doesn't happen again.

#with the trend of things, brothers are impregnanting their brother's wife

Ps: I have a bestie(No strings attached ), you can check my profile And read of a tribute I dedicated to her, but Immediately she informed me that she was engaged, i cut down communications with her, initially she would complain that we are not communicating like before, She even told the guy about me, but For me it wasn't fair, i needed to help her focus on her marriage.

We are still bestie, but Have not visited her since after wedding, i call her once in 2months, we chat once in 2weeks.

MizMyColi: [font=Georgia]kikikiki Now you make me wanna be pals with you Thanks all the same, We should work with our creator to ensure that our kids are farr greater than we'll ever be for therein lies great a measure of success

MzPreshie: Thanks for the advice. Noted.

MzPreshie: She has done away with her love for him already. And besides, the boyfriend doesn't know she was in love with her bestie before. So his insecurity certainly doesn't come from there. Let's see, if you were the girl, who would you go for?

ideology:

No be today i sight you o o, have been monitoring ur response to comments and how u relate here. Its been very impressive.

#In fact, i come to NL to give myself hope, that there are still people with similar core values and mindset out there,

Thanks Ideology (now I'm wondering the ideology behind the "Ideology" moniker? ) Again, thank you, for your kind words, I'm touched

MRbrownJAY:

again, her ACTION speaks louder than words, so even if she didnt tell her bf about lover/friend, she certainly act suspiciously.
she has done away with her love, as if you just turn love on and off at the switch of a button, lol!

his insecurities may come from many different things, BUT, the fact that his girl is spending quite a lot of time with her bestie/buddy, must have something to do with it too.

if i was the girl, i wouldnt be in such a silly situation. i would KNOW exactly what i want, invest myself fully in that person, get rid of the other so that it doesnt interfere with the r/ship.

MizMyColi: Thanks Ideology (now I'm wondering the ideology behind the "Ideology" moniker? ) Again, thank you, for your kind words, I'm touched

MizMyColi: Thanks Ideology (now I'm wondering the ideology behind the "Ideology" moniker? ) Again, thank you, for your kind words, I'm touched

MzPreshie: In other news, her boyfriend should be choosen over her bestie, right?

MzPreshie: In other news, her boyfriend should be choosen over her bestie, right?

ideology:

Thanks too, for being different

#you are not trying to be good, Its in ur DNA

MizMyColi: Noted Sir. Right now, I think the same of you.

MRbrownJAY:

no no no, maybe she wants this friendship with bestie (ex love) to never finish, its all on her to decide what is more important to her.

mrkay101: As a guy I've been in this same predicament once.. Back in sch my 3rd year a close female friend of mine jst strted dating her bf. At some point I had to keep a distance cuz she told me her bf was getting suspicious nd all. So if ur friend really loves her bf she needs to put him 1st.

ideology:

Ok dear, am flattered
There is one other lady here like you, (HOGLAM),

I saw where you used (it gets better), have been using (it can only get better )

Yours is "present-day reality "
Mine is "hope"

Am switching to urs, lol

LoL @Switching, You're Welcome I know her, I once commended her pretty face before the tsunami

MizMyColi: LoL @Switching, You're Welcome I know her, I once commended her pretty face before the tsunami

MzPreshie: And again, you're totally ruling out the fact that she was best friends with this guy before she met her boyfriend. Do you always change the list of your female friends each time you meet a new girlfriend?

wasak:


she should just go with her best friend. i can't even imagine myself in this kinda situation... I'll dump her swiftly....
i don't have d luxury of making regrets over evitable circumstances