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The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by nonsonnamani: 2:05pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men. Source: www.facebook.com/makeherchaseyou Every day I get approached by guys who just don't get it... Like, from the look of things they think they do but they just don't. Have you ever seen an extremely pretty girl who is dating a guy who looks so damn ordinary that you go like - "what the heck did that babe see in that dude?" I hear that all the time; stuffs like - "the dude is too ugly for that babe jare". The thing most dudes just don't get is the fact that when it comes to what makes we women trip, it's hundred percent different from what makes you guys trip. For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some boobs and probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted by what you see. The mistakes guys make is thinking that what works for men actually work for women. They feel maybe if they look a bit good, had six packs that maybe they will get women swooning around them. I see dudes wail about how average or not so good looking they look. Then I see some others, who don't really look that fine, give my pretty girlfriends headaches and heartbreaks. I see some other dudes who put on great clothes, dress really nice, forms fresh boys here and there and think it stops there - only for a guy who they look better than to steal their girlfriends from them. Most guys go out, try to get a girl of their dreams only to watch her turn them down. Then they start thinking something is wrong with them; they go like - "maybe it's money, maybe I didn't spend enough". So they go out and spend like they are Santa, acts really nice around her, take all sort of BS from her, tries so hard not to make her upset. You basically become a "nice guy" - but the same thing happens; the girl turns you down again. Then You give up; you insist something is wrong with you. Well, the truth is this - There is something wrong with you and it is that you just don't get it. The FACT IS THIS - while you guys fall for what you see, we ladies fall for some thing else that can NEVER be seen. And what is that? The PERSONALITY and MANLY QUALITIES of a man. The fact is this; some dudes are so verrry good in making we women trip that they do it so easily (I have fallen under the spells of one of such guys -they call 'em "players". Some other dudes are just plain annoying; so annoying and uninteresting that we have no option but to turn them into a play thing. They call us - we don't pick. They ask to see us - we give excuses why we can't (when we might be in a guy's house at that very moment they called us up to ask) I hear a lot of pained guys moan about how un loyal we girls are. It's funny sha; we are the most loyal creatures if you can be a man with the ATTRACTION TRIGGER QUALITY we want. We will so stick with you The fact is this.... Every man can have that quality. Trust me, I'm a woman - every man can become a man any woman will kill to want to be with. It doesn't matter how you look or how much you earn. When you see a hot babe dating a guy who is almost nothing - don't wonder why. It's the way we are wired. It's the way we think. Call it fish brain or what ever you want. We trip for personalities you guys trip for booty To sum up... - Any man can make women chase after him if he can have the personality and quality that triggers attraction in women (I will explain such qualities in subsequent posts) - we women don't give a hoot about how you look, maybe to a little extent we do but we would rather date an average looking guy who has the personalities that get we women tripping than a handsome dude who doesn't. 3 Likes |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Eberex(m): 2:12pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
[b][/b] nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.Yeah right! |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Polchiz(m): 7:14pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.This is simply your opinion and stop preaching as if it is a dogma ( a well established principle). Ask many girls and they will tell you how they trip for guys who are: 1. Above 6ft. 2. Wealthy 3. Educated 4. Out going 5. Influential They don't give a damn if the guy is an armed robber, a drunkard, a woman beater, a cheat, among others. So, what personality nonsense are you talking about? It seems you don't live in Nigeria. The nollywood movies they watch has really affected their brain. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by DoctorAshley(f): 8:52pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
u r damn right |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by oilykid(m): 9:28pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men.OK.noted |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by nellyelitz(m): 9:52pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Polchiz:i gat ur back bro. 2 Likes |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by nellyelitz(m): 9:53pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
No money no honey...leave the sermon till sunday service. |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by guyANDROID1: 10:20pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
CAPITAL "LOL" And what's the personality?. In 9ice voice "My personality no matter at all" Gongo aso |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Missmossy(f): 10:24pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Una no dey tire ni? With all these things about ladies/women and boys/men thing. |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
Missmossy: Una no dey tire ni? With all these things about ladies/women and boys/men thing.me gan don tire. Make somebody tell us the lies for once |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 10:53pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
This s a lesson for the upcoming kids... Adults are exempted... |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Missmossy(f): 11:15pm On Jul 31, 2014 |
OliverPin: me gan don tire. Make somebody tell us the lies for onceLol...na them sabi |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by b3llo(m): 12:45am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Polchiz:Cheers boss! You've hit the nail on the head. Personality and manly characteristics my a.s.s |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 2:42am On Aug 01, 2014 |
""For a lady, all it takes is just to flash some bosoms and probably look you in the eyes in a seductive manner and bam - you are turned on - that is, you guys are attracted by what you see."" This statement of urs is absolute HOGWASH! U only attract dogs wit such principle. My dear, ur post is an attempt to disguise ignorance as intelligence. Cheers 1 Like |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Mobi47(m): 4:54am On Aug 01, 2014 |
wao I love nairaland....... See comments with a properly guided and well thought thoughts.....hmmmm. Assuming its on facebook that this is posted, every one will just be saying good job,,, good job. Nairaland is for the men........hahaha we think b4 we write here,,,,,,although some children frm facbook de come here come de shout 1st to comment. @OP- I love ur post....it has 55% truth and 45% false. 2 Likes |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by youngwolf(m): 7:32am On Aug 01, 2014 |
nonsonnamani: By Chidinmma George...the female love doctor for men. U ve said so much....but u ve not made a point here. That personality theory does not hold water in this case |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by dmcdad: 9:22am On Aug 01, 2014 |
Polchiz:1 bottle of Amarula for you. |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 01, 2014 |
It's still thesame bi*tch that'll dump you for a money bag even when you have attributes of a manly personality. #TheseHoesAintLoyal |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by FancyClock(m): 5:31pm On Aug 22, 2014 |
Is not all about PERSONALITY my dear |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Sunnypar(m): 5:05am On Feb 27, 2016 |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 5:08am On Feb 27, 2016 |
ahh... ess long ooo. but 80% accurate sha |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Nobody: 7:16am On Feb 27, 2016 |
Your opinion. I turn men with these "personality nd masculine traits" down if they are not attractrive/quite attractive. |
Re: The Truth About What Attracts Women.... by Sunnypar(m): 9:19am On Feb 27, 2016 |
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