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Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
Aisha you don't get, I also do not advice women to stay in an abusive home to the point of bleeding to death. Something must have triggered the beating, a man doesn't just wake up and beat his wife to the point of death (I am not in support of any man beating his spouse). Marriage is hardwork, it requires effort of two people to make it work. Ok if we keep advicing them to run at any slightest provocation would any nairalander provide shelter for these ladies? I think is hightime seun creates another charity organisation for women abandoning their homes and let's see how many of the socalled advicers will contribute to their welfare. |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Not running from your question. Start anOther so we discuss at length 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by jumzzy448: 4:01pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
It's been long since I had a good laugh will be back when i'm done reading. |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
Naetochukwu: My question is very simple and fits into the context of your thread / accusations, so why don't you just answer this question? Or if you refuse to answer the question, why don't you just provide some reference to the accusations you made here? You said you had no time but you are still here. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
page 4,So any reference yet. Okokobioko. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
Naetochukwu: Aisha you don't get, I also do not advice women to stay in an abusive home to the point of bleeding to death. We have been raised in a violent society, there is violence everywhere, anyone in position of small power will in so many cases use it to oppress others. Generally as a society we need sensitization, women abusing their maids, husbands abusing their wives, soldiers abusing these husbands, Oga slapping his workers etc. However, like I always say domestic abuse is worse because your children are watching and will carry on not just to their spouses but to coworkers, neighbours etc, the grow to see violence as the only way to solve conflicts. My advice has always been dont marry a man or woman with violent tendencies if no one marries these quick to slap people they will adjust or stay single or find violent once like themselves and box each other to death. In most cases violent abusive people seek out meek "submissive" spouses who will silently take the abuse and even submit more hoping it stops but it doesnt till someone ends up dead or permanently deformed. While we are asking "what happened? What triggered it" the victim should be away from the agressor so the agressor can calm down and decide to get help to STOP and control their anger. An abuser male or female deserves no spouse 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by jumzzy448: 4:13pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
Sadly what the op said is true. I have actually read some topics where the women are advised to divorce their husbands. Some might not come out to say it outrightly but the way they'll condemn your situation Ehn, they make you feel as if being married to your spouse is the worst thing to ever happen to you. Some do give good advise and I respect them so much for that. But some Ehn, you begin to wonder if they are truly married. For me too, if it's a case of violence, i'd advice separation first before divorce. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by crackhaus: 4:13pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Funny girl. Every time you call a guy 'chicken', is it supposed to make one of both balls disappear or something? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Inosenduatall: 4:14pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
Just a bit of information that I think might be useful to this now hilarious thread: Naetochukwu is female, not male. #okbye 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:15pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
jumzzy448: Sadly what the op said is true. I have actually read some topics where the women are advised to divorce to husband. You can help us all with a link Sister 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by DukeNija(m): 4:15pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
cococandy: Una dey laff? Y.A.W.N.S 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: On the contrary, I hope he will grow him one or two 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by jumzzy448: 4:21pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
aisha2: Honestly, I can't start giving examples right now. But have read so many topics here on family section and when see what some fellow women are advising, I just shake my head. To tell you the truth, some of these topics aren't even about violence. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by lirusehn(m): 4:24pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
here they go. . SMH 4 d future of Nigeria 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
jumzzy448: Its easy oh. Nairaland has a search engine just type in the word and plenty topics will appear. You can as well check posters history and use to post a link for posters you suspect. It makes more of a credible debate than giving generic statements. If we had one premise we can successfully debate it 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
If we cant research a simple topic and back it up with evidence how we wan reseach cure for ebola? Later we go dey blame oyibo for not funding ebola research 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by crackhaus: 4:28pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:I want to see what you look like. As in I've never been so eager and curious to see what a female on NL looks like before encountering you. What say you? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: I am not very tall, I am slim and I have a cute face. This should be enough. |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by crackhaus: 4:33pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:You're a chicken...better still, an orangutan 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: I don't mind. |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:39pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
You two get a room or I will start my own thread on Nairaland Flirts 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:41pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
aisha2: You two get a room or I will start my own thread on Nairaland Flirts What flirt? He just called me a monkey. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
Naetochukwu: How does post affect u.I belive evryone is entiled to his or her opinion.must u insult people?if u ar not comfortable with peoples opinion then DEACTIVATE or more still #hugawettransformer# 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Na love 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:46pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
aisha2: 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by crackhaus: 4:51pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
aisha2: You two get a room or I will start my own thread on Nairaland FlirtsCarefree has always refused to back up her looks with the required pics sent to my inbox. She even once told me she looks like Rihanna. She's an orangutan until proven otherwise. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 4:56pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: Invite me to the wedding 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by crackhaus: 5:05pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
aisha2:We would fight everyday...not healthy for someone like me who used to smoke I like submissive women ONLY! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: Oya madam SUBMIT, SUBMIT SUBMIT ohhhhh. She will cure ya hypertension, she get medicine for am 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
crackhaus: Have I ever sent you any emails at all? She even once told me she looks like Rihanna. Don't twist my words. She's an orangutan until proven otherwise. Being an orangutan is not a bad thing. |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by Nobody: 5:14pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
aisha2: Don't mind him Aisha. He is saying one thing and meaning another. Confusion is not only female He says, he wants a submissive wife but will do his best to conquer a wild one 1 Like |
Re: Why Are some Familylanders Quick To Advise Anyone To Divorce His/her Spouse? by DukeNija(m): 5:14pm On Aug 04, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You are short! 1 Like |
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