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My Dilemma-please Help by Rockstar2014(m): 3:53pm On Aug 05, 2014
Someone please help me figure out this situation.I am in a relationship worth of envy up until now that I had a disgusting experience.I was nursing the ideal of settling down with my fiancee whom I have been together with for two years now, considering the fact that I felt she loves me and that she has every potential ingredient required in a lady for marriage,and of course, am so so much in love with this lady that when ever she is unhappy I feel my world is crumbling.
Just February, one of my elder brother who was a captain in the army was killed in Borno state, I told me girl about this ugly development but to my greatest surprise, she showed no sign of sympathy or that kind of deep sorry I expected from her. So, I had to travel home (Delta State) from Lagos for the burial. My baby only called me twice as I spent two weeks at home.Two months ago, she took ill of typhoid fever and I took her to a hospital close to my house where I registered for any form of unforeseen breakdown because I don't like practicing self medication.She was thoroughly treated and I paid the bill, next was the issue of her cousin who was visually impaired and I recommended for them, my elder sister's friend who is a medical doctor and a specialist in sight problems, as I type, she has stopped using glasses as she now sees almost clearly.Though she was grateful afterword, reaffirming her readiness to ever remain with me.l was coming from work a fourth night ago the bike I was on collided with a gulf on my street and I fell and fortunately for me I only had small bruise on my left leg. I called my girl and told her but, she will only call on phone and has not visited even though we both live at Ojota.Where do I go from here? pls candid advice and will appreciate this on FP.
Re: My Dilemma-please Help by Summersland(m): 4:32pm On Aug 05, 2014
Ur gal frnd is a witch(aje) hw can u datin such wicked lady dsn't care about u..Leave her b4 u payin ooooo grin grin
Re: My Dilemma-please Help by pickabeau1: 4:33pm On Aug 05, 2014
seems she does not know how to show a little of the big love she claims she has for you

which potential wifely ingredient does she have?
Re: My Dilemma-please Help by ib4real95(m): 4:35pm On Aug 05, 2014
brb
Re: My Dilemma-please Help by Nobody: 4:52pm On Aug 05, 2014
pickabeau1: seems she does not know how to show a little of the big love she claims she has for you

which potential wifely ingredient does she have
?

Exactly!
Re: My Dilemma-please Help by Liability(m): 6:17pm On Aug 05, 2014
i dont know why some ladies are spoiling market for us.
Op, she is not your wife. Yiu have to leave her.
Re: My Dilemma-please Help by davno: 7:55pm On Aug 05, 2014
To marry, you have to be able to give and give without seeking or hoping to receive anything in return. This is the foundation of unconditional love.

Op you and ur fiancee are two different people with different backgrounds and experiences. It's a pity she deals with such things differently. Gently talk to her about it.

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