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Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Jinyjagz(m): 7:22pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Someone sent this IN.. Needs your Candid advice. Dear Nairaland Readers, Pease I need your sincere and esteemed advice, I am 20yrs of age and I’m addicted to watching P0rn and when I watch it I always mastur’bate very often, I want to truly stop it. Something happened to me recently a spiritual attack and it took the intervention of God before I was saved, I learnt my lesson from it, not long after, the urge came to watch p0rn and mastur’bate again and I Started. I’m the type that shy-away from girls, because in my house, We’re all boys 5 of us, I don’t have a sister, and I don’t know if that’s the cause. I want to stop watching P0rn and also Stop the act of Mastu’rbation.. Please help me! |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Jinyjagz: Someone sent this IN.. Needs your Candidstop thinking 'bout sex again, that shld help... And also, u need to discipline urself I.e to say learn to stop watching porn n watch DaystarTV or Iqraa channel 5 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by benswagtt(m): 7:30pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Its only God dat can help..! provb 8v17I love those who love me, and those who seek me diligently find me... Mark d work "deligently" so u hav 2 st@ seekin God deligently... |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by benswagtt(m): 7:30pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Its only God dat can help..! provb 8v17I love those who love me, and those who seek me diligently find me... Mark d work "deligently" so u hav 2 st@ seekin God deligently... 2 b liberated 1 Like |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by sexylogan(m): 7:33pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Jinyjagz: Someone sent this IN.. Needs your Candid Get a gf. Then get married. Stop wasting sperm. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 7:35pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
go and die |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Caseless: 7:37pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Embrace God! |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by bbello28(m): 7:39pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
ajibolabd: go and dieu re stupid 5 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Strongman02(m): 7:57pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Good day bros,my little advise is that u should dedicate ur self to christ,make God wrd standerd for ur life,read psalm 23:1-end,an if u hav emmanuel cable in ur house nabors,always pray with him,with God all things ar possible 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by nke001: 8:07pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Engage urself in more social activities and always avoid being alone. + all of the above. 5 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Enegod(m): 8:10pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Jinyjagz: Someone sent this IN.. Needs your Candidop, u are finished!!! |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by raziboi(m): 8:26pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
ma advice for u is to forget all those memories .....and start a new life!!!!!! believe me God ll help u |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by ShyDare(m): 8:50pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Check out aunty landa's programme on weekends on inspiration fm 92.3 Lagos. Saturdays - 1 pm to 2 pm and 7 pm to 8 pm. Sundays - 7 pm to 8 pm. You can get her Pa's number and book appoinment with her for counselling. 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
wel, watching porn n mastubation r comon tin wit yong lads sha.increase ur rate of socialization, engage in gals n oda stuffs. am nt teling u to turn in to a bad boy o,n stop been alone. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 9:00pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
"Some spiritual attack". Please what was it like? #curious! |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Dubby6(m): 9:04pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Endulge urself more... e get where u go wan* reach, nothing go dey to milk again...Say 6times for 6 days nd 6 nights...666...end time comment |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by MaziOmenuko: 9:06pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Its a phase of your life; you'll soon outgrow it. But to help yourself, delete all porns in ur phone, get rid of those porn vcd, then you must have made a head-way for your own rehabilitation. Mind you, prayer doesn't help. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by sarmiie(m): 9:28pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
the dude shld cut it off..... D bible says ''if ur eyes cause u to sin, it is betta to cut it off dan to go to hell with both eyes''....so, extrapolating from dt, niqqa, CUT IT OFF |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Ekhemini(m): 9:57pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Simple...replace his vaseline with aboniki balm. Thank me later 3 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
bbello28: u re stupidyes, ur father's yansh. |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by donkross1(m): 11:24pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Cut off your JOHNTOMAS. Thank me lerraa |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 11:32pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
Hmmmm op u have taken d first step towards a change and dats is ACKNOWLEDGING d fact u ina bad act and u DESIRE A CHANGE. d second step is to draw closer to God and seek his help on how to overcome this evil act cos he says in his word we should seek him and we shall find him. Thirdly, u have to adjust ur social lifestyle, avoid staying alone, if u have d videos destroy dem, if its via internet on ur phone (hmmm dis will b hard cos we all need our phones for work, mails and all but find how to avoid visiting those indecency site, one of d demerit of technological agemand phones), u still 20 so its too early to say go get married but for those at marriageable age pls get married. God is ur strength bro |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by deeobserver209(m): 11:35pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
ajibolabd: go and die200 dislikes 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 11:36pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
ajibolabd: go and die. U are a fool. |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by DrLee(m): 11:59pm On Aug 10, 2014 |
ajibolabd: go and dienow I know for sure that animals are on NL |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by alotofgrace(m): 12:03am On Aug 11, 2014 |
nke001: |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Dannyxy(m): 12:38am On Aug 11, 2014 |
MaziOmenuko: Its a phase of your life; you'll soon outgrow it.please, who says prayer doesn't work? i am speaking from personal experience, infact not just prayer works, prayer and fasting helps a lottt.. @op, I will advise you to get closer to God, I know you want to stop, I know you feel dirty every time you do it, but you can't help yourself, you keep going back to it, the truth is that masturbation is a spirit, watching porn also has a spirit behind it, I will not lie to you, it takes determination, discipline, and the holy spirit to overcome this vices , you might try on your own, but my bro, it will not take long before you fall back into it, you need God's help. now let me give you a few steps that will help you 1. bring yourself to reality, stop living in the fantasies created by this porns, firstly, not every woman you see on the road wants to have sexx with you, life is not all about sexx, pornns stars are actors, they are make-believe artists, those situations don't usually happen in real life.. 2. read on masturbation and it effects, if don't know, mastutbation will affect you, not just you, your spouse will suffer. too much masturbation is one of the main causes of erectile dusfunction, quick ejaculation etc, also, masturbation is a paved way to get into more sexual ills, like homosexuality, most homosexuals started as masturbating addicts. so you see, it has no long run profit, infact it has no profit than the "1 min" pleasure you get from it, think of your future spouse, for her sake stop it . 3. the truth is that without discipline, you cannot get out of this filthy habit, this is where you need the help of God, you need to let the holy spirit envelop you, ask God to forgive your sin, mastubation is a sin in God's sight, since you've asked God to forgive, you find yourself conscious of the fact that masturbation is a sin, therefore you are relunctant to do it despite the urge. at this point you have to make a personal effort to stop, go on a self finding retreat, you can go on a three day fasting or more, you ask me what is the fasting for?. "fasting" as it is known is a spiritual activity, it has to do with self cleansing, during fasting, you will find yourself not wanting to desecrate your self, thereby with outstanding the temptation to give in, one day, two days, as you continue, your self esteem and confidence increases, you find out that you can actually do this, and with more determination and God's help you will overcome, those erotic images and voices that stimulates you, begin to fade, then the holy spirit begins to work on you.. note: you have accept Jesus before God can help you, if you think you can do this on your own, you are deceiving yourself, don't let anyone kid you into believing masturbation is something you can stop on your own because you want to, you might just find your self running in circles.. 5 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by rattlesnake(m): 1:13am On Aug 11, 2014 |
masturbtion is ok u cant catch eboila or hive ...many are walking round with disease no matter how bad u feel after masturbtn its a better feeling than u will feel if u catch gbege with all this disease girls around 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 1:43am On Aug 11, 2014 |
Engage your mind in worthwhile activities... An idle mind....... |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 4:37am On Aug 11, 2014 |
Try masturbatiņg with sand paper. 4 Likes |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Nobody: 5:01am On Aug 11, 2014 |
Khalessi: Try masturbatiņg with sand paper. |
Re: Help Me:- Am Addicted To P0rn &mastur’bation – What Should I Do To Stop? by Mzdivacious(f): 5:42am On Aug 11, 2014 |
ajibolabd: go and dieimmaturity!see mature ppl giving helpful solutions #notfunny 1 Like |
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