donbachi:
Not supporting it either.but,some married women are the cause.
1: No more shaving of armpits and down below
2: No more brushing of mouths and bathing before eating.some will eat morning, afternoon and night before brushing
3: No more hanging of legs at the ceilings, doggie styles
4: No goodbye and welcome kisses
5: No more BJ,but want their pvssies sucked by men
6: No respect
7: Not submissive

PoliteActivist:
Sooo, they are sleeping with married women and single ladies without their consent. They're raping them? Or you are leaving out one half of the equation?

thesicilian:
The single greatest decision you will ever make is your choice of life partner. Choose wrongly and you are doomed for life

Fahvvy:
Just as it is inherent in every woman to want the best possible man out there (hypergamy), it is also inherent in EVERY MAN to want as many women as possible (polygamy), it's man's nature ...

Now...
There are ONLY TWO CLASS of men who have been able to tame this inherent nature in them:

1. Deeply spiritual people (emphasis on deeply, cause even some so called pastors haven't tamed this nature) ...
2. Highly principled men

The problem is that, these classes of men are seen as "boring", "corny", and not worth being with by the average woman ...

And so they accept the life of the party and the likes, they accept men who haven't been able to put this inherent nature under control ...

It's their cross, make them carry am ...
And I see someone up there making excuses and I can't help but laugh ....

Blimey, even if a woman is 100% not guilty of all those things you mentioned, a man who hasn't tamed this nature will still sleep with other women who are prolly less "cleaner" than his wife ...

kokoA:
Do not judge us with the white man's laws biko. African men are polygamous from birth weather you agree with me or not. Our forefathers married many women and have plenty concubines but their society then was more loving and peaceful than what we have now. There's no word for 'adultery' abi "cheating" in any African language, which means it doesn't exist.

SundayNightGist:


Your oil no go dry bros!
Thank you for the reply
Learnt a lot
Thank you

SundayNightGist:


Not neccessarily, but you and I both know that it's usually the men that initiate this move firt most of the time.
Abi I lie?

Persephone1:

Open marriage in Nigeria, an Igbo man ooo . LoL 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Open marriage indeed!

Na people wey dey marry Nigerian men i hail!

advanceDNA:
...

Orí gbó gbó yon tí darudàrú...you are now crying for faithfulness...y'all suddenly think a ring on ur finger and a marriage certificate u signed on saturday will suddenly make you sexually disciplined and have happy homes... with ur 30 body counts ....lol

There's no settling down kán kán for any of you....... ..both men and women....that's the reality we all created

Persephone1:
That is what you get when you walk down the aisle with men whose only solution to marital issues is "getting another woman" . Some don't even need to have issues before they step out . To them they are "polygamous" in nature so marriage isn't enough to curtail their wandering prick.

It's disgusting to say the least. I still have one on my neck who said he regrets marriage because I refuse to date him. Then I start to wonder why get married when you know you still want to test waters? .
One even had to lie that he is in "open marriage" lol. Open marriage in Nigeria, an Igbo man ooo . LoL 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Open marriage indeed!

Na people wey dey marry Nigerian men i hail!

ItisWell22:
Indiscipline by both parties involved! 😒

PoliteActivist:


Maybe you are the only one who hasn't seen videos of single ladies saying they prefer married men.
The world in general tend to think women are less powerful than they really are. If you analyze things carefully you'd realise women are actually the stronger sex. If you always bear this in mind as a man you may be able to even things a bit.

A woman can seduce a man (sometimes easily) who doesn't even like her into sex. But a woman will not have sex with a man she doesn't like unless she's getting something she wants in exchange!

PoliteActivist:


Ok, maybe his wife is not fully aware of it, but if he says he's in an open marriage then he's in an open marriage
But let's be honest, most women will go after a man that has qualities they want, marriage or no marriage!
Most men on the other hand, leave married women alone

zed7:
Honestly, I can't say if cheating is a choice or there is a cheating gene. Chasing women is stressful. I have friends who are obsessed with women, always looking for a new woman to conquer. I can't understand it.

We did a bit of that when single, for fun and adventure, but I don't know what drives these men to still continue after marriage.

Chasing women is a fruitless exercise when married. You gain absolutely nothing. You lose time, resources, respect, peace and emotional stability. I can't yet see one positive thing about womanising as a married man.

SundayNightGist:



Hmmn!
You seem to have a point though, just that you're too aggressive with your reply
So wetin you dey talk now be say once igboro forever igboro? Abi bee ko baba mi?

SundayNightGist:


Hmmmmmn! Too much sense...
So e mean say las las women no be weaker sex kankan then
Na wa!

SundayNightGist:


Ahh! Lobatan!!
Are you serious right now bro?
If every married man continue like this, you no sure say na anarchy we go enter like that?

This is like saying in Ruger's voice "since no man can focus, we def. don't give a fvck"

SundayNightGist:



Omo, this one loud gaan o
That man na professional adulterer walahi

PoliteActivist:


Ok, maybe his wife is not fully aware of it, but if he says he's in an open marriage then he's in an open marriage
But let's be honest, most women will go after a man that has qualities they want, marriage or no marriage!
Most men on the other hand, leave married women alone