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How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Ama80(f): 9:05pm On Aug 11, 2014
I hav been suspectin my hubby and ds particular woman are havin intimate rlshp but cudnt prove it.but today,my hubby complaind abt hs fone and i tuk it and went 2 galery,gues wat i saw,d complete pussie of dat bitch wide apart,her complete nude pix head 2 toe.as i writin ds im stl shakin..10 complete nude pix of sombody's wife savd in my fone.wat do i do
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 11, 2014
Wow... so sorry about that ugly discovery
It's very likely your husband has cheated on you
I think you should let your husband know what you discovered
Then he'll probably be sorry/guilty for what he did
It's up to you to forgive him
Although it will be hard undecided

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by BoiledCorn: 9:20pm On Aug 11, 2014
Surrender the ugly picthures angry or my golden advice stays with me angry











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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by sleekch1c(f): 12:01am On Aug 12, 2014
Save the pics.
blackmail her with it.
Blackmail ur hubby too with it.
nwanne you can be rich o! Dont let this pass you by as opportunity comes only once!! grin grin

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by marieolae(f): 12:04am On Aug 12, 2014
Ama80: I hav been suspectin my hubby and ds particular woman are havin intimate rlshp but cudnt prove it.but today,my hubby complaind abt hs fone and i tuk it and went 2 galery,gues wat i saw,d complete pussie of dat bitch wide apart,her complete nude pix head 2 toe.as i writin ds im stl shakin..10 complete nude pix of sombody's wife savd in my fone.wat do i do
my dear, men cheat. Its in their characteristics. Confront him and hear his explanation. Its will now be up to u whether or not he is worthy enough to be forgiven
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by bsk86(m): 12:04am On Aug 12, 2014
Oya, let see d pix na
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Dayjhihannon01(m): 6:28am On Aug 12, 2014
Get τђε̣ pics on υя fone first and den confront him and hear his explanation... Am so worried about what our married men r into this days... I saw ∂ same on my boss fone and I can't help bυт wondered what'z all dis trash for?? I don't even knw why ∂ unclad thing ιѕ now more viral.. +++Hish; Soiled Planet+++
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Ama80(f): 7:06am On Aug 12, 2014
sleekch1c: Save the pics.
blackmail her with it.
Blackmail ur hubby too with it.
nwanne you can be rich o! Dont let this pass you by as opportunity comes only once!! grin grin
Thinkin d same tin.
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by rawpadgin(m): 9:20am On Aug 12, 2014
sleekch1c: Save the pics.
blackmail her with it.
Blackmail ur hubby too with it.
nwanne you can be rich o! Dont let this pass you by as opportunity comes only once!! grin grin
typical Igbo chick grin
sleekch1c: Save the pics.
blackmail her with it.
Blackmail ur hubby too with it.
nwanne you can be rich o! Dont let this pass you by as opportunity comes only once!! grin grin
typical Igbo chick
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by rawpadgin(m): 9:24am On Aug 12, 2014
If u have to confront him, confront him with caution make he nor bundle u go papa house o

ladies should know that its in our DNA to cheat. to take cheating out of us, don't use force rather use prayer
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by temi4fash(m): 9:53am On Aug 12, 2014
Ama80: Thinkin d same tin.
then d marriage is as good as dead...

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Ama80(f): 1:52pm On Aug 12, 2014
temi4fash: then d marriage is as good as dead...
D mariage is dead either way.how can i condone ds insanity.
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Vikky014(f): 2:23pm On Aug 12, 2014
am nt married bt if am in ur shoes,i will take dt pix,den go meet d lady wt it,i will tell her to hlp me wt my hubbys nude pix in her fone,unless if d lady is nt closeby,afta dt i will confront my hubby& beg him to explain dt ladys nude pix 2 me(lols)
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Joshchi(m): 2:30pm On Aug 12, 2014
No vex...he forgot to delete them. Next time you wont see the pictures, you hear...
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Nobody: 2:39pm On Aug 12, 2014
undecided
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by temi4fash(m): 5:00pm On Aug 12, 2014
Ama80: D mariage is dead either way.how can i condone ds insanity.
u don't av to... If u don't want to... First thngs first.. How old is ur marriage??.. Was he like dis before u married hiim... When u were dating did he cheat on u or tendencies to do so.. Dere must av been red flags u ignored.. Ans all dis and let us know where we are.. Dis marriage can stil work.. If u pple want it to..
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by kandiikane(m): 12:00am On Aug 13, 2014
marieolae: my dear, men cheat. Its in their characteristics. Confront him and hear his explanation. Its will now be up to u whether or not he is worthy enough to be forgiven
No,no!! There is no such characteristics. Stop belittling yourself by accepting such false statement. If anything, statistics shows women cheat more than men, is that part of the female characteristics do?

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Nobody: 12:25am On Aug 13, 2014
sleekch1c: Save the pics.
blackmail her with it.
Blackmail ur hubby too with it.
nwanne you can be rich o! Dont let this pass you by as opportunity comes only once!! grin grin

Nwanne, money ain't everything. She needs an advice on how to save her marriage not to exploit like the igbo girl that u're.

@Ama80: Don't blackmail anyone...save yo marriage. Find out the man that is married to d whor.e then send the pics to him. Or better still try to find out where she works or resides....print the pics and distribute it around so she gon be humiliated. Public humiliation is the worst kind of pain.

If someone gives u a slap....retaliate with a blow.

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by lilTunechi(m): 12:57am On Aug 13, 2014
sleekch1c: Save the pics.
blackmail her with it.
Blackmail ur hubby too with it.
nwanne you can be rich o! Dont let this pass you by as opportunity comes only once!! grin grin
That Should be easy.

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by guente02(m): 1:54am On Aug 13, 2014
iyke926:

Nwanne, money ain't everything. She needs an advice on how to save her marriage not to exploit like the igbo girl that u're.

@Ama80: Don't blackmail anyone...save yo marriage. Find out the man that is married to d whor.e then send the pics to him. Or better still try to find out where she works or resides....print the pics and distribute it around so she gon be humiliated. Public humiliation is the worst kind of pain.

If someone gives u a slap....retaliate with a blow.
Revenge is for God not Man
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Nobody: 2:03am On Aug 13, 2014
guente02:
Revenge is for God not Man

I know but sometimes its good to let the other person feel yo pains. Most people learn through the hard way.

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by xp17(m): 2:56am On Aug 13, 2014
@op, instead of you focusing on being in an unhealthy marriage, you are thinking of making some filthy lucre outta the ugly status quo.
your main concern should be your unfaithful husband, even if he was to cheat, having a picture of his escapade with the alien means he has no respect for you and the marriage. what's his he keeping it for?

if I were you, I'd present the claim before him and advise him to go ahead with the alien, since you ain't good enough for him. personally, I'm not against guys having some rare fun at the periphery of marriage, but bringing the ugly scene home shows he's dumb and I'd not endorse you to continue in the sick marriage.


the alien in the picture should not be your concern, your concern should be your man who doesn't know the do and don't in a marriage. if really he does, he would not do anything to jeopardize his marriage. opsssd! this is unacceptable.

good luck in whatever way you choose, whether to make a fatter account, or face the unacceptable scenario, or applaud him for a job well done.

best regards.

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Ama80(f): 5:16am On Aug 13, 2014
temi4fash: u don't av to... If u don't want to... First thngs first.. How old is ur marriage??.. Was he like dis before u married hiim... When u were dating did he cheat on u or tendencies to do so.. Dere must av been red flags u ignored.. Ans all dis and let us know where we are.. Dis mariage can stil work.. If u pple want it to..
8Yrs old mariage.he is very discreet at wateva he does so found it difcult to acuse hm but my suspicion has alwys been thr n it has been ds same loose brain.it s not abt cheatin itslf but ds madnes,i mean hw bad can it get.each time i view ds pixs,i feel raged.
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by temi4fash(m): 5:41am On Aug 13, 2014
Ama80: 8Yrs old mariage.he is very discreet at wateva he does so found it difcult to acuse hm but my suspicion has alwys been thr n it has been ds same loose brain.it s not abt cheatin itslf but ds madnes,i mean hw bad can it get.each time i view ds pixs,i feel raged.
hmm... Ur marriage is pretty young.. Your hubby has made things very difflicult.. It is one thing to cheat and anoda thing to rob it on ur partner's face. pls avoid looking at those pictures it would make you feel worse. it might affect whatever decision u decide to make.. If I tell u it is gonna be easy I will be lieing to u.. The decision is for u to make and all we can do is advise it is you dat know where the shoe pinches.. I would suggest u find a very good time to confront him of your findings.. Whatever he says and whatever you decide will help you know how u would handle these.. I hope u av a job and if u do have children pls put dem into consideration in whatever decision u decide to make.. Dere is d thread for married peeps on NL.. I wuld get you the link am sure dai would help thru these... All is well.. All is well.. The lord is with you..

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by temi4fash(m): 5:46am On Aug 13, 2014
Ama80: D mariage is dead either way.how can i condone ds insanity.
dis is the thread www.nairaland.com/1817310/counselling-strictly-couples-intending-couples/11
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Dygeasy(m): 6:00am On Aug 13, 2014
rawpadgin: If u have to confront him, confront him with caution make he nor bundle u go papa house o

ladies should know that its in our DNA to cheat. to take cheating out of us, don't use force rather use prayer
C'mon bro,

That's not an excuse.
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by rawpadgin(m): 6:06am On Aug 13, 2014
Dygeasy: C'mon bro, don't be _stupid.

That's not an excuse.
u really don't have to insult me u know
please grow up
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by Dygeasy(m): 6:08am On Aug 13, 2014
rawpadgin: u really don't have to insult me u know
please grow up
I take it back if you see it as an insult. Didn't really intend to. I'm sorry.

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by rawpadgin(m): 9:16am On Aug 13, 2014
Dygeasy: I take it back if you see it as an insult. Didn't really intend to. I'm sorry.
that's what am talking about

#grownmenshit
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by rawpadgin(m): 9:17am On Aug 13, 2014
Dygeasy: I take it back if you see it as an insult. Didn't really intend to. I'm sorry.
that's what am talking about

#grownmenshit

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Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by dspecialist(m): 9:49am On Aug 13, 2014
temi4fash: hmm... Ur marriage is pretty young.. Your hubby has made things very difflicult.. It is one thing to cheat and anoda thing to rob it on ur partner's face. pls avoid looking at those pictures it would make you feel worse. it might affect whatever decision u decide to make.. If I tell u it is gonna be easy I will be lieing to u.. The decision is for u to make and all we can do is advise it is you dat know where the shoe pinches.. I would suggest u find a very good time to confront him of your findings.. Whatever he says and whatever you decide will help you know how u would handle these.. I hope u av a job and if u do have children pls put dem into consideration in whatever decision u decide to make.. Dere is d thread for married peeps on NL.. I wuld get you the link am sure dai would help thru these... All is well.. All is well.. The lord is with you..

Its quite tough. Ive seen a similar situation among a husband and wife who has been married for more than 20 yrs. When the lady confronted the husband, he said he saw the pix flying around and he joined the fun. From your explanations so far, i believe you just saw the ladies pictures and not your husband with her, so there is possibilities of denial as well.
Its a really tight situation. The descision is yours to make, we can just advice. The family i know this happened to, the lady knew he cheated but couldnt prove it, she was hrt broken but still held on to the marriage but made more diggins. Tapped the husband line and all. Eventually she nailed the husband and despite allllllllll evidence the man still kept denying. Because the marriage already bore children she just stood for her children and stoped having intimacy with the husband.

Thats a scenario, first question you should ask yourself is if you want to stick to the marriage and win your man back if hes worth it, second is if you cant live with such thoughts and want to leave. If you want to keep the relationship, confront him now and what ever reason he give you would build up from there, but i personally believe he's going to deny. Second option, build up on the case since you have a leverage and he doesnt know yet, you dont have to trail, just tap his phone. There are several softwares that does that on the IOS and Android markets. Install one, you can then listen to all his phone calls, here his conversations whenever you want and even use his phone to snap when hez not aware. But know that after knowing all these, it would be difficult for you to keep the marriage because you would have had concrete evidence to face him.
Re: How Do I Tak Advntage Of Ds Ugly Situation by temi4fash(m): 12:09pm On Aug 13, 2014
@dspecialist
Its quite tough. Ive seen a similar situation among a husband and wife who has been married for more than 20 yrs. When
the lady confronted the husband, he said he saw the pix flying around and he joined the fun. From your explanations so far,
i believe you just saw the ladies pictures and not your husband with her, so there is possibilities of denial as well.
Its a really tight situation. The descision is yours to make, we can just advice. The family i know this happened to, the lady
knew he cheated but couldnt prove it, she was hrt broken but still held on to the marriage but made more diggins. Tapped
the husband line and all. Eventually she nailed the husband and despite allllllllll evidence the man still kept denying.
Because the marriage already bore children she just stood for her children and stoped having intimacy with the husband.
Thats a scenario, first question you should ask yourself is if you want to stick to the marriage and win your man back if
hes worth it, second is if you cant live with such thoughts and want to leave. If you want to keep the relationship, confront
him now and what ever reason he give you would build up from there, but i personally believe he's going to deny. Second
option, build up on the case since you have a leverage and he doesnt know yet, you dont have to trail, just tap his phone.
There are several softwares that does that on the IOS and Android markets. Install one, you can then listen to all his phone
calls, here his conversations whenever you want and even use his phone to snap when hez not aware. But know that after
knowing all these, it would be difficult for you to keep the marriage because you would have had concrete evidence to face
him.

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