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What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by marveangel(m): 3:37pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
I know that after reading this post many girls will call me sorts of names coz they are emotional creatures, they think with their heart and everything is a male-female war for them....I completely understand.....But there is one question that has being on my mind for weeks now and I just have to ask........."What is the use of a girlfriend apart from Ssex?". YES......what is the usefulness of a girlfriend apart from Ssex.......I get how a wife is useful to her husband...I totally understand that but I still don't see how a girlfriend is important to a guy...and don't start talking about her later becoming my wife...my question is Girl Friend..right now....present not future that no one is sure of. I for one I wash my clothes myself and many times I cook my meal, itz not like am expecting her to make money one day and come pay my bride price or get me a job.......I got my job myself....even the car I drive and she sometimes drive I bought myself and I fuel myself.......SO really apart from sex what else is a GF useful for.....yet she expect me to take her out regularly,buy her gifts, recharge her phone and still call her.....all this expenses and she thinks one night of sex covers it all....SMH......abeg how much Ashawo dy charge per night 5 Likes |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MrTeymee(m): 3:45pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Hmmh..stories that touch *mak ah run warm soup ah dey come* 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by yomi007k(m): 3:48pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
I no know oo. But ashawo price varies depending on her class n d location. 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 3:49pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Twisted Thinking. What is a friend useful for? when you answer that, add "girl" before "friend" That's a Girl-Friend . Some people sef and their thinking pattern 7 Likes |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tymax(m): 3:51pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Ladies, over to you Defend your "usefulness" |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by great289(m): 3:52pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
i got ur point, buh it seems u are in the wrong r/ship.(those dt depend solely on their bf). They (nl girls) will use d last sentence in criticizn u. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Guy u dey para gan, if u dnt see any reason avin one, then tis upto u na..... Ashawo dey everywhr, even for ur street, u will see one but can u compare the companionship of GF to that ashawo... 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tymax(m): 3:59pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi:This is deliberately misleading. Why do you need to downplay the romantic connotation of a girfriend? A girlfriend (in today's world) is not just a friend who is a girl. She must be romantically involved with a guy before she can be called such. In this light, what then is the "benefit" of a girlfriend? Disclaimer: I am not bashing girlfriends o. 5 Likes |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:11pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Op has gone Mad again abi na Ebola ni ? 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: 1000 likes. 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Dreyl(m): 4:14pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Huh! |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tallesty1(m): 4:19pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
If you have a girlfriend and you are not gonna marry her in the next six months-one year then you are seriously wasting your time, money and peace of mind. Life - Gf Equals peace of mind. And if you mistakenly invest emotionally in a woman who is not that much invested in you = DOOM. 8 Likes |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 4:22pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Tymax:The romantic part is just an added benefit, which isn't peculiar to Girl-friends. Ask the sex-workers in my area and "friends with benefit". Perchance, you didn't know there are ways to be romantic without going all sex-y and smoochy and still be considered a Girl-Friend |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tymax(m): 4:32pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: The romantic part is just an added benefit, which isn't peculiar to Girl-friends. Ask the sex-workers in my area and "friends with benefit".so what separates girlfriends from friends with benefit? The 2 groups are friends with the guy and they are romantically involved as well. Okay what's your definition of a girlfriend. 3 Likes |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 4:35pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Tymax:One is fair weather. The other is All Weather (or supposed to be) |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tymax(m): 4:38pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: One is fair weather. The other is All Weather (or supposed to be)Which is which o? Cos FWB represent a "stable" arrangement. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 4:44pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Tymax:FWB:- So, you want to embark on a casual, no-strings attached relationship? Just sex, no emotional commitment; get in, get off, get out. Having a friend with benefits is like a dream come true to most, but that doesn't mean it can't necessarily turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly - Elitedaily. ^^^ There, that's the definition of Friends with benefit. You should know by now, which is All weather and Fair Weather . Or Do you want the definition of a Girl-Friend? |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tymax(m): 4:51pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: FWB:- So, you want to embark on a casual, no-strings attached relationship? Just sex, no emotional commitment; get in, get off, get out. Having a friend with benefits is like a dream come true to most, but that doesn't mean it can't necessarily turn into a nightmare if not handled correctly - Elitedaily.Ɨƚa..Ɨƚa..Ɨƚa.. Madam, I need your own opinion. Besides, the definition you provided represents stability. That means I get the stuff regularly without the emotional baggage. This looks "all weather" to me o. Please who is a Girl-Friend? Is she different from a girlfriend (without the dash you deliberately put there)? It seems you are trying to distinguish between the two girl friends |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 5:08pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Tymax:A girlfriend is a female friend, possibly specifying a female partner with whom one is romantically and/[size=14pt]or[/size] sexually involved. - wikipedia That said, whatever rocks your boat You can't keep running from emotional baggage. That's the surest way to learn Emotional Intelligence. @TheEmboldened gives me the impression that You're yet to, or simply do not understand what really matters. A girlfriend (as it is supposed to be) is first and foremost your friend. Not necessarily a wife to be and should be treated like you would a friend, with respect. That said, anything else you two decide to add, which are not contained in honorable friendship codes would be termed "Your Business" |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Tymax(m): 5:19pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: A girlfriend is a female friend, possibly specifying a female partner with whom one is romantically and/[size=14pt]or[/size] sexually involved. - wikipediaMy sister, I do not endorse romantic relationships without possible marriage in sight. I feel it is largely meaningless to be romantically involved with someone you have no intention to marry. Well, I think we are almost on the same page. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by great289(m): 5:19pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: A girlfriend is a female friend, possibly specifying a female partner with whom one is romantically and/[size=14pt]or[/size] sexually involved. - wikipediayou are running round the bush 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by kajoula(m): 6:01pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Tallesty1: If you have a girlfriend and you are not gonna marry her in the next six months-one year then you are seriously wasting your time, money and peace of mind.[size=40pt]GBAM[/size] 1 Like |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by jsunex(m): 6:11pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Dnt no wat to say... in d real sense... I spend more now ooo... mak i no talk my mind too much oo she mit b on NL. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 6:29pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Tymax:and that about sums it up. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 6:32pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
great289:No, I was merely reiterating |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by great289(m): 6:40pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: No, I was merely reiteratingu didnt quote me rit? |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by marveangel(m): 6:49pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi:. @ least I don't get to buy and buy and keep buying for my friends.......and they are way more grateful when I buy them beer or do little thingz dan d supposed GFs 3 Likes |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by MizMyColi(f): 6:54pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
marveangel: . @ least I don't get to buy and buy and keep buying for my friends.......and they are way more grateful when I buy them beer or do little thingz dan d supposed GFsNo! You don't have a GF, what you had/have is a GD - [size=14pt]Gold Digger![/size] Besides, why date someone you have no interest in marrying? Isn't that being selfish? |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:13pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
It seems someone doesn't knw d diffrence btw a gf and sexmate..GIRL-FRIEND BOY-FRIEND. Op,u think aving a gf is jst to av fun and dump ha at d end of d day,well datz ur buiz,nt all guys thinks d way u do....u even gave urself a back up,sayin we sudn't say it wud lead to marriage and stuffs lyk dat,a serious minded person wudn't jst love sum1 jst be wif dem temporarily,itz one's wish to get married to ur gf/bf,bt tinz doesn't jst work out d way we want at tyms. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by kaboninc(m): 7:44pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
Personally for me, I just want a friend. Firstly a friend. Then if its possible we take it to the next level, fine. If not, we remain as good friends. I believe a relationship built on a solid foundation will stand the test of time. Wives and husbands and girlfriends and boyfriends and sugar mummies and daddies will come and go. But a good friend, will always stay. So if your boyfriend/girlfriend is truly a friend to you.... So answering the poster's question, if myself and my girlfriend are good friends, then she's of tremendous good to me. Otherwise, its useless. |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by kaboninc(m): 7:54pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi: No! You don't have a GF, what you had/have is a GD - [size=14pt]Gold Digger![/size] Besides, why date someone you have no interest in marrying? Isn't that being selfish?Must we all date because we want to marry? |
Re: What Else Is The Use Of A Girlfriend by EejaNla01(m): 7:57pm On Aug 12, 2014 |
I think how a typical Nigerian girl views dating and relationship is what the op has problem with,they expect you spend much money,energy and time while they sit back and return it with sex... Guys are d cause of this,they don't mind doing all that just for sex and when their face clear and feel they are losing much they start complaining .... however,there are still girls out there that understand how relationship and dating should be even though they are few.. you might be Lucky to meet them later on. 1 Like |
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