dre11:


one out of many u get.....
Abeg mayb u need to go back to one of those pending matter

KiddaBlingzz: abi....which one you suggest?

Mprex: Hy pretty ladies of NairaLand. I feel elated to be amongst you. As a very observant person, i have discovered the our male counterparts are always complaining about so many wrongs in the ladies. I know its not possible to please everyone you come across in life but it would not be a bad idea to be described as "nice, good, wonderful" by @least 80 percent of the people you cross in life.


On this thread, i'm going to give us some tips that will help us as ladies to be nicer to the guys and will eventually make them see us from a positive light.

Feel free to correct me where i'm wrong, criticise constructively and contribute positively. Thanks

#CONTRIBUTE TO HIS LIFE-: i know this may sound strange but its for real. Contribute to a man's life. Dont always be on the recieving end. Give him something. Not necesarrily material things,
. Advice your man, inspire him, push him positively, give him some form of motivation. Remember to send him a gift on his birthday. Its not a crime to send your man recharge card. Theses are little things that count. Dont always be there to collect, give him something in return.


DONT BE OVER-DEMANDING-: i know my female folks will be like, "mprex are you alright". Girlfrind i am ok and i mean what i just said. Dont put pressure on your man to give you everything. I know women has this nature of always wanting and asking for things but you can curb it. Learn to fix some of your needs by yourself. "baby will make your hair, your lashes, your nails, your shopping, your insatiable desire for gadgets. Everything is on baby! " haba! Give hima break pls. He is human, ha has his own needs to attend to. Most importantly, he has parents and siblings that are probably looking up to him. Dont add to the pressure. Be considerate pls!


#GIVE HIM SPACE:- yes! Give the young man space! He had a life before you met him. Dont expect him to coo over you as if his entire world revolves around you! Give him space. He has a job to attend to, he has a family to look out for, he has friends to hang out with. Give him his private time.

DONT STARVE HIM OF SEX-: (for the MARRIED pls ) now, this one is a bit raw but its true. Dont starve the poor man of se.x for crying out loud. Give it to him, he is entitled to it! Dont make him beg for sex. Its degrading and it hurts his ego. Mind you, if you deny him that honeypot, he might be tempted to go eat the honey somewhere else!

That will be all for now. W'ill add more tips if i am encouraged by comments

KUDOS!

SOURCE: my brain

Vikky014: Wow!9ice tip!dnt knw sme1 thinks like me

Onyiibazz:

See them, all of them don dey form caring!

Vikky014: i play piano & guitar,so am unique

dre11:


abeg...
Give me there list make i suggest one for u

KiddaBlingzz: just suggest any one wey dey your mind

dre11:

there are alot on mah mind
so, i would like u to narrow it down nah

KiddaBlingzz: the first one that crossed your mind is the one i will go for

dre11:


do u think this is gonna tally with what u want

dre11: @chipatra ......... waiting to catch a glimps of that ur sexy foxy eyes

kidder.... can u ask her

KiddaBlingzz: it is

help a brother na

chipatra: hmm, sexy foxy eyes. i dey blush 4 here o

dre11:


how do i help a brother who has more female admire than i can think off

dre11: @chipatra ......... waiting to catch a glimps of that ur sexy foxy eyes

kidder.... can u ask her

dre11:



don't blush lady
i just describe the person i saw on ur dp

Tallesty1: That would be after my burial cause you gotta kill me 4st

Kentnickole:
Perfect diction with coherent facts...

chipatra: na me

KiddaBlingzz: why not?

and its Kidda not kidder

KiddaBlingzz:

Mprex:
thank you

dre11:


i hope we are not derailing ur thread

Ceasar1:

Bro you derailed her thread and you're asking If you Did? SMH..
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If you wrote this Mprex, then that tiny source of yours works like an algorithm, and that's fair to say we need a male version Biko. Nice write-up.

dre11:

thats great......
Seems i need to dispute the novel by prof Wole soyinka that the beautiful ones are yet to be born.....


Because
All i keep seeing are beautiful faces on NL profiles

chipatra: woow! For real? Anywhere, na dey book by the Ghanaian writer Ayi Kwei Armah "The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born" u dey talk about? If so, I think the writer was not referring to physical beauty in his book,
I think he was writing about corruption in the society & how no one is completely free of corruption hence the qoute "The Beautiful Ones Are Not Yet Born" #chai I don write grammar 4 here O

dre11:


grammar
u have just started nah...... so, i need more of that
u got me on that the author of the book.....

Seems ure into reading of african books, poet, novels and stuff

chipatra: nope, na 4 secondary school I read that book o

Mprex:
of what