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Re: Children And Divorce by pickabeau1: 5:53pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: How was the divorce finalised.. did he have a lawyer 1 Like |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 5:55pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
pickabeau1: I don't have all details and I don't think it is relevant at the present moment. If he gets a lawyer now then to fight against the mother's decision to take the child to a remote place. |
Re: Children And Divorce by pickabeau1: 5:56pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: ok.. no problem |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 6:40pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Your opinion, and you are entitled to it! Glad it is a woman LIKE YOU! I am also GLAD that when it comes to children, it is A WOMAN'S WORLD! We can't lose ALL WAYS ABI? Hallellojah! If Na to go chase woman, this same man will drive 2000 miles. Shior! 4 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 6:44pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: I don't understand the second part. Sorry. |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 6:48pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Meaning hope you NEVER have to find yourself in any position WHERE other women LIKE YOU will question YOUR DECISIONS! AMEN! 5 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 6:51pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: I don't have to show solidarity with all women just because I am a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 6:55pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Irrelevant but in this case! As long as there are no joint custody stipulations, ANY woman is free to relocate to any part of the world if she chooses! It is the man's responsibility to TRAVEL AND MAINTAIN CONTACT WITH HIS CHILD! Shikena! 4 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 6:59pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: Look, any human being can question my decisions as much as he or SHE wants. I will do what I think is right anyway but I think that it is wrong to take a loving and caring parent his or HER child without a good reason. Very simple. |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 7:02pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Is is not wrong! The woman is entitled to start afresh. Clear away from ANY UNHAPPY MEMORIES! I don't know MANY women who do not move after A DIVORCE! Especially, if it was a NASTY one! 5 hours is not far! The woman needs a break. 4 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 7:10pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
Carefree are you suggesting she stays In the same place even when she has nothing doing there. Just sit there and wait for allowance from the ex? She needs to move on, but they both try and find a way to meet up the child's need 2 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by Stillfire: 7:26pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 7:30pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: You act like the woman is a victim and you don't even know her. I don't care if she needs a break or not, I just know that the child needs a father. |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 7:33pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: [img][/img] Now I know why so many kids do not know their fathers. |
Re: Children And Divorce by isokey: 10:04pm On Aug 14, 2014 |
Isnt this the KANWULIA i used to know? U've changed....am luving the new youuu.... |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 5:20am On Aug 15, 2014 |
isokey: Isnt this the KANWULIA i used to know? U've changed....am luving the new youuu.... Hmmmmmm I have always been the same o! I have not changed one bit! 1 Like |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 5:23am On Aug 15, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: carefreewannabe: Na who send dem message? Abeg, na dem sabi jor! Nothing we can do on or off NL. 1 Like |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 7:35am On Aug 15, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I agree 1 Like |
Re: Children And Divorce by pickabeau1: 7:41am On Aug 15, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: If i may ask, what is the reason? |
Re: Children And Divorce by CircleOfWilis: 7:50am On Aug 15, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara:I missed the old u...what happened to ur old moniker :kanwulia |
Re: Children And Divorce by damiso(f): 7:59am On Aug 15, 2014 |
Even though I see the dilemma the father is placed in here I actually don't really see the mother wanting to stay close to her mother as being necessarily selfish.Divorce can be a very emotionally draining time for anyone and sometimes a clean break and having supportive family around you helps. A good compromise might probably have been mum coming over to her city (but then again mum might still be married, working, have her own life etc) so that might not even be possible. I agree though that its not fair for the father to have to work extra hard to see his kid but unfortunately that's one of the fall outs of divorce and life.Like most have said if it was not this life could have happened in other forms (new job opportunities, remarriage, transfer etc) their lives can't just be on hold. The sad reality is that either parent might eventually have to work harder to see the child.Its just what it is.When you are married those decisions are taken together but unfortunately as much as the child's welfare is also paramount the parents still have their own lives to live somewhat now that they are single. The dad too might get a very good job offer hours away someday. Even one half of married couples sometimes have situations that take them away from the family with the other parent having to take on the bulk of parenting for a while. 3 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by FKBZ: 10:09am On Aug 15, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: I believe u are being over defensive. If u are in the same shoe u do worse If the man truly loves the child as u claim he would have made the marriage work if only for the child. The woman has the right to take the child anyway has long as she doesn't deny him custody. 5 Likes |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 11:20am On Aug 15, 2014 |
CircleOfWilis: I missed the old u...what happened to ur old moniker :kanwulia What did you like about the old me? My shoes? Well. . . . .an ongoing battle with your extremely SEXXXXIST Seun(who believes every woman should act and look llike a POVERTY-STRICKEN, OLD, FILTHY, BATTERED, TOOTHLESS hag/bytch/WITCH from his OGUN STATE BUUUUUUSH/JUNGLE . . . . .) and his BOKO HARAM HAREM of trisexxxxual-swinging, faceless cowards of "bottom-for-air" Lokitto MODS and ASHI-SUPER MODS o! I ain't going nowhere. "Kanwilia" is in jail, and does not really care about HER salvation or a release date ON OR OFF NL! *awwwwwwwww somebarrrry likes moi* 1 Like |
Re: Children And Divorce by FKBZ: 4:46pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
KanwuliaJara: lol at your comment.... the beef between u and seun is something else ooooo i think i need to start following you. |
Re: Children And Divorce by KanwuliaJara: 6:04pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
FKBZ: Na today? I fit reach to born am by American or by AFRICAN BOKO HARAM TOTO-WASHING standards . . . . But tufiakwa!!! Praise my H-Agnostic GAAAAAWD for H-Abortions of "such" imps as sacrifices to Satan! Amen!!! But I go show am say I get brothers we pass I'm age!!! Na me and am ke!!! F'O'st to HANG!!!! *back to Dallas. . . . what a wonderful rest period. work do start again. . . . .and lofting h-it * |
Re: Children And Divorce by jumzzy448: 6:18pm On Aug 15, 2014 |
Kanwuliwuli the iron lady. Miss no nonsense. |
Re: Children And Divorce by Nobody: 12:19pm On Aug 16, 2014 |
FKBZ: I don't think I am "over defensive". I have a clear stand on such issues and my stand is that a father should not be denied his child / children and a child / children should not be denied their father if not absolutely necessary. You don't have to agree. |
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