12 Points For Wives To Note
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1. The wife that wins all
arguments with her husband
is not wise. The home is not a
law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a
weapon in the home - placing
embargo, going to bed in jeans
shorts and trousers - lacks
wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the
modern trends and laws of
"women's rights" to insult or
ridicule her husband simply
makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her
home devoid of peace through
bickering, nagging and
quarrels needs help. A man
should be eager to run away
from office to be at home, for
that should be the safest and
coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in
marriage does not mean
competition. It simply means
partnership. Taking advantage
of such equality to turn
around and become the de
facto head of the home and
oppress the man is tantamount
to playing with fire. If you
destroy your home, soon you
will be the boss of an empty
home.
6. A wise wife makes the man
feel so good that he assumes
that he is the head. Once he
gets that feeling, the woman
gently wields her power and
the head actually turns to
wherever the neck wants
without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull
herself away from friends'
influence and advice or even
from the control of her mother
and father will have herself to
blame.
8. When a man is looking for a
wife, he bypasses women of
different shapes and sizes to
choose a wife. But soon after
childbirth, many women hide
under the excuse of childbirth
to let go of themselves.
Many stop bothering about
their looks, shape, dressing,
etc. Within 5 years of marriage,
people start wondering if the
wife is the man's aunt, even
though she is 7 years younger.
Her defence is that if he truly
loves her, he should love her
the way she is.
But when looking for a wife,
he saw people like the present
YOU and ignored
them and settled for the
former YOU. Today, you go to
bed smelling of onions
and ogiri. You go to bed
wearing grandmothers'
clothes. Why are you playing
with your marriage? Love is
not about looks - we know. But
looks enhance
love and marriage. There is a
difference between someone
disfiguring herself
and the person being
disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent.
As hard as it may be, work on
looking like you were when he
first saw you
and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired,
sleepy, sore, down with
headache or fever, "not in the
mood," you are a joker, a
serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly
become more important to
you than your husband, you
need prayers.
11. If you assume that as the
woman, only you need to be
pampered and
fussed over while the man is a
stone that has no emotions,
you need to be
pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind
of a wife does not excite her
husband. Wives are usually
complacent and
presumptuous. A wife must
strive to have the mind of a
girlfriend. A girlfriend is
always nicer, sweeter, more
loving and always thinking of
ways to wow her sweetheart;
a girlfriend does not try to win
all arguments, does not call the
man a "useless man", is not
careless about her looks or
dressing, always smiles and
laughs with the man, sends the
man sweet messages and calls,
etc.
Are you your husband's
girlfriend in word and in deed?
Now That you have read this,
please SHARE to educate
others.
They need to read it too, don't
be selfish.

My brother's wife must definatly and surly see this !
Good write up .
Let me add to it ....... A good wife must always be grateful both to her God and husband on any smallest thing they accomplish or husband gesture to her .

A woman wit d fear of god is to be praised.

I must enter front page this week se....no matter what

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Phemsy: I must enter front page this week se....no matter what

I must enter front page this week se....no matter what
sorry bro...today is the end of this week.

Gooci:
I must enter front page this week se....no matter what
sorry bro...today is the end of this week.

....there is nothint too big for God menh..........i have been fasting since monday

Phemsy: ....there is nothint too big for God menh..........i have been fasting since monday

murasi yur fasting oooo

Gooci:
murasi yur fasting oooo

na how you go take helep mi ni bayi

Phemsy: na how you go take helep mi ni bayi

how much yu get for hand

Gooci:
how much yu get for hand

...calm down bross...you dey construct house ni??

Phemsy: ...calm down bross...you dey construct house ni??

yelwz kee, i wan build yur thread for front page ni nau

Dis is a seriously nice, interesting and witty write-up. Lots of points for d wives and to-be wives to ponder on.

I do number one a lot I don't know it not good

nice post but hardly will ladies agree to this ....can you ever win an argument with a lady its waste of time

Nice write up