As it was in the past, so it is now.

ladies would you honour your partner by kneeling down for him as the tradition encourages?

Concerning the change in our beliefs these days can you still show him that aspect of you?

Do men / boys actually want it?

If she tries that, I'll know she's up to something

carefreewannabe: Do men / boys actually want it?

Some of us think its being "ancient" but it actually something right?

Tymax: If she tries that, I'll know she's up to something

Lol...something like?

Gflat:

Some of us think its being "ancient" but it actually something right?

If it is ancient, does it mean it should be done?

Do you want your girl to do it?

carefreewannabe:

If it is ancient, does it mean it should be done?

Do you want your girl to do it?

Nah...it make me wanna look/act like my grandparents

carefreewannabe: Do men / boys actually want it?

Good question.

I don't !

matify:

Good question.

I don't !

Interesting

Gflat:

Nah...it make me wanna look/act like my grandparents

LOL

carefreewannabe:

LOL

So back to the question can you??

Gflat:

So back to the question can you??

If I had to beg his forgiveness, I could but I try not to do anything that would require such of me.

Capital NO!

carefreewannabe:

If I had to beg his forgiveness, I could but I try not to do anything that would require such of me.

Do you find it embarrassing doing such

nikkypearl: Capital NO!

Even during traditional engagement?

Gflat:

Do you find it embarrassing doing such

Yes, I do.

carefreewannabe:

Yes, I do.

Why

Gflat:


Why

I don't know, it's just a feeling.

There is nothing wrong in going on your knees or bending down to greet your husband,it is a sign of respect. A woman can kneel down to serve her man his food or at least bend. It doesn't make her a slave or make her less equal to the man.
Yes there are still young ladies who do it.

lertee: There is nothing wrong in going on your knees or bending down to greet your husband,it is a sign of respect. A woman can kneel down to serve her man his food or at least bend. It doesn't make her a slave or make her less equal to the man.
Yes there are still young ladies who do it.

i was actually saying something similar to this, but them girls were telling me its an act of slavery...

carefreewannabe:

I don't know, it's just a feeling.

Come on, what about during engagement?

These hoes ain't loyal

Gflat:

Come on, what about during engagement?

What has engagement got to do with it?

both sides shud do it, not just females and males act like something higher, mkay?
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Gflat:

i was actually saying something similar to this, but them girls were telling me its an act of slavery...

It only becomes slavery,when the guy begins to see himself as her lord and expects or makes it compulsory for her to treat him that way.

lertee:
It only becomes slavery,when the guy begins to see himself as her lord and expects or makes it compulsory for her to treat him that way.

Yeah...you are right though. But never the less you ladies should at least surprises us with a little kneeling one day..

carefreewannabe:

What has engagement got to do with it?

Are you a yoruba girl

mastiphal25: both sides shud do it, not just females and males act like something higher, mkay?
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Like dudes should kneel down for a girl

Gflat:

Are you a yoruba girl

That's a secret.

I dunno much about how things worked back then buh now, kneeling is a yoruba tn I guess, so...it aint my culture.

Yes we do, I do go down a bit not for any guy though just for older peeps but will do it for my hubby