ebujany: For those asking...Am a graduate,am working and b4 she left for camp,she was the considering type.she never puts pressure on me wen it comes to money or sum other things most ladies want infact,she will rather give to me than take from me.(Which i dnt like).she's a very good girl and like i said she's not a hoe.i just think she's getting distracted or stressed up.i read in a book that all ladies gets paraniod wen they dnt have enuf sleep.anyways,i just dey look am

cococandy: You seem insecure and pushy.
Why would you be quarelling with a babe on the phone over where she is and what she is doing.
That's because you already have the mindset that camp is an immoral place hence you're hounding her.

Pls leave her be.
How do you expect her to have the time to answer your calls like she used to now that she's in camp and phones aren't allowed all the time?

10missed calls?
You're insecure
Grow up.

Mikocake: I've 101 problems and gurl is none of them..I wish I've this kind of problem, I'll gladly move on but the kind of problems I've now smh..GOD PLEASE HELP ME!!

cococandy: Oh she's good like that and you found it expedient to open such a thread. What were you expecting if not insult and abuse on her person.

Well you got it.
The trolls are here. They have only known HOEs all their lives so they feel cool to call yours a hoe too.
Enjoy.

cococandy: Oh she's good like that and you found it expedient to open such a thread. What were you expecting if not insult and abuse on her person.

Well you got it.
The trolls are here. They have only known HOEs all their lives so they feel cool to call yours a hoe too.
Enjoy.

godfreyakpoguma: True but dat dosnt mean she can't love one person don't care abt oda guys.

ebujany: Hi guys..pls i have a very serious problem.

My girl went to nysc and changed totally. she's now a stranger from who i use to know. it started from wen she got to camp. wen ever i call her, she wnt pick up and wnt call back, flash or send call me sms as the case may be. wen she finally picks she will say she was busy. she told me about a corper that works in ICT in her camp and that the guy wants to help her get posted to a good PPA.

She said they normally do the fixing with money but the guys said he will do that for her with his own money. I noticed that wenever i call, she's not happy. we quarrel about everything from wer she is to wat is happeing there.Today, she finally got posted to a nice place of PPA and I was happy for her. When i called her, her call was on call waiting OVer 10missed calls she didn't pick.

this was a girl that wen ever I call even if her call is on call waitin she will ask the caller to call her back that she wants to answer my call but she didn't. wen she finally picked she told me she was talkn with the guy.i asked wen it started that the guys call is now more important than mine.she got angry and said i shld stop calln her.am so mad ryt now don't know wat to do.

Ladycloud: her choice

cococandy: You seem insecure and pushy.
Why would you be quarelling with a babe on the phone over where she is and what she is doing.

cococandy: That's because you already have the mindset that camp is an immoral place hence you're hounding her.

cococandy: Pls leave her be.
How do you expect her to have the time to answer your calls like she used to now that she's in camp and phones aren't allowed all the time?

cococandy:
10missed calls?
You're insecure
Grow up.

TribalEAST: I wonder how I always manage to stumble on your posts; they reek of silliness, honestly. I conclude that you are neither here nor there because when a guy shows no concern, you lots claim he's irresponsible and doesn't care. When he shows care, he becomes INSECURE
what do you expect him to do with his girl in that kind of environment? If you love someone, you'd want to protect that person by all means. So sad that that's what you lots call insecure.

how about a pls call me back message or a flash to acknowledge his calls?
very soon she'll start complaining that the new guy doesn't even call her. What did she do to the one that showed concern. When such women end up marrying jerks who beat them, they come on nairaland narrating the event without pointing out how blind they were to the traits before marriage. What annoys me is that some set of wicked spiritual people will be using the opporrtunity to hate men, even the innocent ones

MidieMeliss: You want my advice. Please wait for her to come around for a while. She's just a little bit distracted by the events unfolding in camp. She'll most definately come around.
Besides, if you guys are meant to be, you'll eventually end up together.

professore: The best thing on earth that u can do is this STOP CALLING HER,if she comes back..good,if she does not come back..better

Note...the more u contact her,the more she hates u and disrespects u and u will lose all ur self esteem that u will not even be able to approach a new girl in ur life if care is not taken.

HARDDON:


'if she comes back, good?' like crzly?

op, go do thanks giving bro! let d guy hv d sneaky sh%yt of a gurl. if she can be gotten by so little a tilt, she is mos def too cheap 4 ya! tomorrow, an alhaji wud roll arnd, promise her a ride, n she wud dump that guy too!

God has a way of revealing d wolves in ships clothings . don't even think about it, move on.



broken r/ship, they say, is better than a broken/failed marriage

professore:
The Op did not follow her to the camp to see with his eyes that she has been gotten,so she might just be reacting based on the stress she's going through at the camp,who knows?u?so let's learn how to give advice properly.

professore:
The Op did not follow her to the camp to see with his eyes that she has been gotten,so she might just be reacting based on the stress she's going through at the camp,who knows?u?so let's learn how to give advice properly.

Durchess: Sm guys jz assume its every gal dt open dia legs anyhow for 3wks orientation camp 4 dt matter. Mtshceeeww.
Ur feeling insecure dts y ur crying hia. If thz no trust in d relationship then leave d gal abeg, abi ur babe na fowl

texazzpete: Lmao @ people using 'camp stress' as an excuse.

If there's stress, who is supposed to be the best stress reliever? Is it not the boyfriend that she should be able to talk to to unwind?

There is no level of 'camp stress' that will not leave you with some hours of idle time in mammy market or in the rooms. I'm beginning to have a serious suspicion that most of the people babbling about 'camp stress' haven't yet gone through nysc.

HARDDON:

oh spare us the 'rash

those 3 weeks r like 3 months!

don't know y ladies can't just call a spade a spade, u lot must always find a way to coin round it.

he calls, she doesn't pick, doesn't call back, nor beep nor nothing. gurls that truly Luv theirs guys wen in camp, after d day's rigors, always call to spend time with him. no matter what. they feel lonely so dey always wano hear his voice.

so many r/ships r broken while in camp. deal with it.

n her case is even worse cos if she has been d good gurl, n suddenly d leech released , seeing d other flip of s coin, she is bound to bounce !

Durchess:
Bliv me bro u hv trust issues or probably breaking relationships ws ur specialty @ camp.
4 Christ sake u guys kip goin on nd on abt gals sleeping around @ orientation camp we all ain't d same. Someone hs done it b4 or ppl r still doin it doesn't mean d poor gal is doing it.

aggiel: Op just give urself some space, stop calling and stop sending text messages, its heartbreaking when the one person u love stops picking ur calls, ignores ur sms, or worst still finally picks ur calls and talks to u in a disapproving or rude manner. I don't know why it's so common this days in relationships, one of the partner gets so distracted with work, success, stress, money and suddenly feels the other partner ain't worth talking to, and let pride get in the way.

The most annoying part, after like 6 months, when u've set things straight and decided to move on, such person comes back with stories like, bad advice from friends, I was not happy then with some things, I didn't wanna bother u with my problems, Ehn u shouldn't have given up on me if u truly loved me, u know stupid and flimsy excuses.

Op, Pls just set ur priorities straight and know wat u want, I'm sure u don't want a disappearing and appearing galfriend. If u've done all the necessary options to know the reason why she's acting funny and she still decides to take the exit door, don't force her to stay cos u might regret such forceful actions in the future.

Durchess:
Bliv me bro u hv trust issues or probably breaking relationships ws ur specialty @ camp.
4 Christ sake u guys kip goin on nd on abt gals sleeping around @ orientation camp we all ain't d same. Someone hs done it b4 or ppl r still doin it doesn't mean d poor gal is doing it.