Imagine a situation where you and your wife are invited to
attend a quiz. You both honours it. And along the line, she
wins ₦50,000, while you did not win anything. When it is
time for winners to come forward for their prizes (cash
prizes), she stands up, walks up to the podium, takes the
microphone, as others have done, thanks the organisers of
the quizz and finally, politely, turns down her own prize
and instructs the organisers to give the money to any
charitable organisation, while there's no dime in your
home, a situation of which she is in the know. Thereafter,
you both come back home and after a few minutes, she
quietly comes close to you with that irresistible soft,
romantic voice, clutching a piece of paper on which she
has written what (the list of foodstuffs) she thinks your
household lacks and, asks you to bring money for those
edible items listed on that paper. In such a scenario, if you
were the man, what would be your reaction? Please let's
be very honest!

They say in marriage that 1+ 1=1
so i am entitled to that cash also and thus should be part of decision

But if she insists, i will advice her to stay behind with the beneficiary of the "charity" donation to take care of them very well.

i'll find a way to locate her father...to refund the money i paid as her brideprice.what kind of holy wickedness is that?