Tallesty1: Why haven't you learnt your lesson?

samintegrity:


My brother because someone did something wrong to me in the past doesn't mean i shd stop loving or caring, i guess that's just my nature. No hard feelings though i love to believe that we are all not the same that just because did something dosnt justify that B will make the same mistake. I guess i was wrong. Pls no hard feelings just advice

stint: Op you have two problems:
1. you are too nice: if u put a girl on her toes and she keeps doing her 50-70percent to keep the relationship, she won't have much emotion left to share. Its like negotiating with omo IBO: if you want a good deal you must subtly show them you know your options and u r willing to walk away. All that while being as fun and attractive as you can be.
2. You have too much time:
Get busy: making money should be more important than selfish Nigerian girls who have no clue what they want. Be successful and you will be too busy being tempted by girls to be emotionally disturbed by a selfish girls.

Most people are just as happy as they have made up their mind to be. All you need to remember when a girl bleeps up is that

NOBODY IS INDISPENSABLE

there is always another beautiful sweet girl that is just your type.

Tallesty1: I'm just trying to reason with you. If you are not lucky then it could be a sign that you shouldn't be dating now. Do you really need a girlfriend

Olazy239: mayb i should nt be dstin nw too,bcus am also unlucky,,,,pls explain better

samintegrity: [s][/s]

Well, times without numbers i asked myself this same question over and over again, am a guy with principles, and am just too emotional ( dosnt mean getting violent oo). When i love, i love deeply, and i care soo much as well, buh i guess am jst not the lucky type wen it comes to meeting someone that won't just cheat on me and stay faithful just as i always av and will.

My major problem is i can't stand u been unfaithful once i get u, am gone no matter what u say or do to beg i dnt give 2nd chances cos i have once tried giving it buh turns out d more i try to the more i hate.

I can virtually go any length to make my girl happy, even though am not wealthy buh still i get her anything she wants.

Buh Still why??

Av always been faithful in all of my relationship buh i guess girls don't like faithful guys.

You might wanna think is my intimate side, well you so wrong, wen it comes to making love, i can virtually go hrs.

Now, there's this girl, we av been dating now close to 4 months mind u while it all Started she told me she gat no bf then i ventured more, she was so hard to get buh at it all i got her, buh to my surprise i gat to understand that the no bf earlier statement was jst a fabricated lies, just few weeks ago, she got to find out that d guy is a mere player, now d guy's been pleading,.

One thing you won't see me do is argue that hey u told me u had no bf b4 buh which is dis, naaaaa i didn't, i did as if i knew nothing, i was so calm in handling issues with her just because i love her so much.

To cut the long story short, cos there's lots of things to say, thou av talked to her severally buh each time she told me its over btw dem, recently i saw her chat with the guy, and one of her ex, dey both pleading 4 2nd chance, i wasn't comfortable with that told her to remove both of them, she said she has buh to my surprise all she did was just renamed both of them. Mind you all my female friends contact she has deleted. Buh can't remove her 2 ex. I tot past shd remain past.

Now my question is, why do you ladies cheat? Why So much i didn't mentioned buh i jst need your views on why you cheat even when you so sure that a guy loves you so deeply. Why cheat??

samintegrity: [s][/s]

Well, times without numbers i asked myself this same question over and over again, am a guy with principles, and am just too emotional ( dosnt mean getting violent oo). When i love, i love deeply, and i care soo much as well, buh i guess am jst not the lucky type wen it comes to meeting someone that won't just cheat on me and stay faithful just as i always av and will.

My major problem is i can't stand u been unfaithful once i get u, am gone no matter what u say or do to beg i dnt give 2nd chances cos i have once tried giving it buh turns out d more i try to the more i hate.

I can virtually go any length to make my girl happy, even though am not wealthy buh still i get her anything she wants.

Buh Still why??

Av always been faithful in all of my relationship buh i guess girls don't like faithful guys.

You might wanna think is my intimate side, well you so wrong, wen it comes to making love, i can virtually go hrs.

Now, there's this girl, we av been dating now close to 4 months mind u while it all Started she told me she gat no bf then i ventured more, she was so hard to get buh at it all i got her, buh to my surprise i gat to understand that the no bf earlier statement was jst a fabricated lies, just few weeks ago, she got to find out that d guy is a mere player, now d guy's been pleading,.

One thing you won't see me do is argue that hey u told me u had no bf b4 buh which is dis, naaaaa i didn't, i did as if i knew nothing, i was so calm in handling issues with her just because i love her so much.

To cut the long story short, cos there's lots of things to say, thou av talked to her severally buh each time she told me its over btw dem, recently i saw her chat with the guy, and one of her ex, dey both pleading 4 2nd chance, i wasn't comfortable with that told her to remove both of them, she said she has buh to my surprise all she did was just renamed both of them. Mind you all my female friends contact she has deleted. Buh can't remove her 2 ex. I tot past shd remain past.

Now my question is, why do you ladies cheat? Why So much i didn't mentioned buh i jst need your views on why you cheat even when you so sure that a guy loves you so deeply. Why cheat??

ephee:

am just like u.i guess u also av an xplanation y guys take faithful ladies for granted.i also got played twice nd since then i choose to stay single.

my point is not all ladies ar like that.

Tallesty1: Ok.....*100% from experience*. Every woman wants a gentle man, a gentleman who is stubborn untamable, controlling, confident and independent. They don't want a man that will treat them like a brother(aka nice-guy). They all need a good kick in the as's somtimes and nice guys can't do that cause they pamper-women.