loveway:

Being a second wife or third wife is not GOD plan for every woman because in the life of every woman there is a man somewhere made by GOD for her to love , care, cherish and adore [vice-versa]. going into marriage involves several things beyond materials and physical things,but there has to be 2 major rediness
1- financial rediness
2- emotional rediness. this 2 objectives can only be shared appropiately with a man and a woman( husband and wife) but when there is more than one woman there will be cohesion and persistence crisis and conflict.
thank you. from loveway

Sapphic:

@ Topic, Second wife, no. Third wife (or more), then yes. LOL. it is the stupid women that allow themselves to be made second/third/fourth wives that I blame. However, if the man already has a 2nd wife, then the 2nd wife cannot complain if he marries a new wife on top of her.

C2H5OH:

Explain what makes these women stupid? Judgmental much?

Taken:

@ poster

Some of this issue is pretty simple cus based on logic and reasoning, true marriage is between a man and a woman.

Many women should be educated - since there are still many single men around, what is such woman doing as a second or third wife.

Please it is not right at all.

Ok guys, would you be the second husband?

The same thing that would make a man who shares his wife willingly with another man stupid.

lucabrasi:

its not right,im from a polygamous family and i can tell you that you might see them all getting along but there are always undercurrents,tensions in the house,petty jelousy envy [/b]e.t.c and this is assuming money isnt an issue

Okija_juju:

[b]So how do you explain the fact that the ratio of women to men is very low.
I just cant handle more than one woman but as to the God aspect, I dont know. He said nothing bout it.

Lagosboy:

There is nothing wrong in it. A woman can be a second wife.

See all these women saying no it is wrong , why should a woman settle for less blah blah blah.

Have you all asked yourself why thousands of Nigerian girls date married men?, Have u asked yourself why women are in no short supply for married men, Have you asked yourself how tuface would have 5 kids from 5 women and thousands of girls still want to sleep with him??

We humans dont like to face reality and practicality of life. Even in the west many married men have mistresses, whyy are these mistresses dating the married men. Why does Berlusconi of Italy have several girls aside his enstranged wife??

Hypocriciy is rife in our hearts and we love to shy away from the truth. Many women here on NL will happily walk put their fingers for Donald Duke or other state governors to marry them. Women love money , fame and power and that is a fact of life till eternity.

There is nothing eveil about polygamy if practised sincerely with the fear of God.

Lagosboy:

There is nothing wrong in it. A woman can be a second wife.

See all these women saying no it is wrong , why should a woman settle for less blah blah blah.

Have you all asked yourself why thousands of Nigerian girls date married men?, Have u asked yourself why women are in no short supply for married men, Have you asked yourself how tuface would have  5 kids from 5 women and thousands of girls still want to sleep with him??

We humans dont like to face reality and practicality of life. Even in the west many married men have mistresses, whyy are these mistresses dating the married men. Why does Berlusconi of Italy have several girls aside his enstranged wife??

Hypocriciy is rife in our hearts and we love to shy away from the truth. Many women here on NL will happily walk put their fingers for Donald Duke or other state governors to marry them. Women love money , fame and power and that is a fact of life till eternity.

There is nothing eveil about polygamy if practised sincerely with the fear of God.

emilyone:


well said bro

JJYOU:

lagos boy stop defending the indefensible which God does a man dipping his thing into different wells fear? does it make sence to you that a human being that says he fears God will have 2 or more wives? i cant believe in this day and age you guys still advocate this early grave mind set.

dont you see the back wardness, wickedness and evil this lifestyle has on any society that practice it?. can ia sk why you as woman think this is well said? what is well in anyone doing the rounds passing you know what about?

Lagosboy:

The same God Abraham who had two wives feared, the same God Solomon who had 1 thousand feared, the same one David who had several feared, the same one many of the prophets of God who had several wives feared.

Polygamy is no backwardness but the reality and practical solution to the excess women in our midst. Our fore fathers practised it, it was pratcised in europe, asia, middle east and alomost all regions of the world.

Polygamy is no backwardness but the reality and practical solution to the excess women in our midst. Our fore fathers practised it, it was pratcised in europe, asia, middle east and alomost all regions of the world.