one interesting status update of a friend i saw on Facebook, i could not ascertain if it's her own original write up and so i really can state clearly here who the original writer is, but it's certainly not mine, but i found it interesting and worthy of sharing to my faithful readers who have come to appreciate the kind of quality articles churned out from the website, i hope you learn one or two things from the article


1. Don’t Beg:
For God’s sake, don’t beg! Begging after a breakup only makes matters worse. It makes you appear pathetic and it can be very irritating. Maybe you don’t understand why it ended. Maybe you think it ended for the wrong reasons. Maybe you’d just rather be in a bad relationship than be in no relationship at all. No matter what you do, don’t beg for him/her to return. Deep down, you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone you had to beg to be with you. Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation and regret.


2. Don’t Seek revenge:
Don’t seek revenge. It serves no purpose and it will only make you feel worse about yourself. Don’t destroy his things, don’t speak evil of her. The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. You may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Forgive and move on. Carry your head high and spend your energy on people who deserve it.


3. Don’t Communicate With The Person
Don’t continue to communicate regularly with your ex. Breakups leave a void in your heart where your ex once occupied but constant calling and texting won’t fill that void. Every time you drop the phone without saying “I love you”, your heart will break all over again. Many people feel lost after a breakup; not because they miss their ex, but because so many of their daily habits once revolved around someone else. Give yourself some time to adapt to single life.


4. Don’t Visit Their Facebook Page
Social media can be a heartbroken person’s worst nightmare. Resist the urge to post anything about your breakup online, don’t insult your ex on twitter and don’t be a constant visitor to his/her Facebook page. Seeing pictures of your ex happy or with someone else can compound your problem and make your life more miserable than it probably already is.


5. Don’t Give Up
Regardless of how the breakup made you feel, don’t let it destroy your hope. Continue taking care of yourself. Take some time to refocus and pursue the things you’ve always loved to do. Spend time with loved ones. You found love before and you will find it again. Learn what you can from the relationship that just ended and move forward. Don’t give up on meeting your perfect match. Be thankful that the wrong relationship ended to free you up for the right one

You wrote that thinking its that easy,except you don't love the person.

Unconsciously you get to do most of what you listed.

When I was heartbroken,it took me time to adjust to life after the person.

Since then,am not emotionally,or physically attached to anything,or anyone.

I did all except no 2. I love revenge nd am still having ma pay back. Hehehehee

Toh....dats the Nigerian mentality..."dnt speak with th person" at least we can still be friends

This will go a long way to help heartbroken guys and ladies out there.....nice one

I did 1-4 and later end it up with number five... Its hard to say goodbye

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Hell no!!!am so getting my revenge!just imagine her saying "can we still be frnds?"Noooo let's be brother nd sister!nonsense,I know she just wnt to go fvck another nigga

IMO point number 3 may not be necessary but different strokes for some folks sha.
I think making that your "breakup" a mutual friend would be helpful and help ascertain where the wrongs came from.
My 1 cent oo.

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Have a wonderful day.

rozzay: I did all except no 2. I love revenge nd am still having ma pay back. Hehehehee

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