My word of advice for marriage to sons an single 1. My son, if you keep spending on a
woman and she never asked you if you’re
saving or investing, and she keeps
enjoying the attention, don’t marry her.
2. My son, a woman could be a good wife
to you, some could be a good mother to
your children but if you’ve found a woman
like a mother to you, your children and
your family, please don’t let her go.
3. My son, don’t confine the position of
your wife to the kitchen, where did you
get that from? Even in our days, we had
farm-lands where they worked every
morning . . . that was our office.
4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head
of the house, don’t look at your pocket;
look if you will see a smile on your wife’s
face.
5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let
your wife be in-charge of your salary, it will
be difficult for her to spend it when she’s
aware of the home needs and bills to pay
but if it’s in your care, she will keep you
asking even when all has been spent.
6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the
pain in her body is nothing to be
compared to the wound on her heart and
that means you may be in trouble living
with a wounded woman.
7. My son, now that you’re married, if you
live a bachelor kind of life with your wife,
you will soon be single again.
8. My son, in our days, we had many wives
and many children because of our large
farm-lands and many harvests, there are
hardly any land for farming anymore, so
embrace your woman closely.
9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did
meet your mother could be your eateries
and restaurants of nowadays, but
remember, the closet thing we did there
was to embrace each other.
10. My son, don’t be carried away when
you start making more money, instead of
spending on those tiny legs that never
knew how hard you worked to get it,
spend it on that woman that stood by you
all along.

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