I just wanted to know how would you guys feel when ur guy/girl detect to you when to call and when not to call him/her. Thats after you must have tried several calls its cut that number busy at times it would be answered but the next thing cut again.

i'd feel like i'm not important to him. He doesn't feel for me what I feel for him so I just watch out so as not to waste my energy,time and love on him.

If I can't call him whenever I want to, why is he there in the first place?

The word is DICTATE not DETECT

I am sure i am nt an dectector but a patner

Olumide7:

The word is DICTATE not DETECT

Adviser we here you, but i believe you could be,

hear not here

Olumide7:

hear not here

I knw u wuld still talk , heheheheh take it easy okay

that means hes got something to hide, i want to be able to call my boyfriend 24/7 any time i like, what am i even saying that kind of relationship would not work for me because nobody dictates to me i set my own pace

whoooo, me thinks he/she is cheating on you by the side. why else would they be acting all weird and $hit!

i think it depends like in long distance relationship where theres like 6 to 10 hours difference, the other person might be at work, in school or something at the same time when the other one is less busy. Although theres shld be no "DICTATION" only "DISCUSSION" and "PLANNING" and 'AGRREMENT" and most of all trust. but really i think if ur partner "dictates" its wrong and both partners shld address that if one of them as a problem with it

I would think he is hiding something; I like to be able to call my man at any time except when he is at work and can't pick up calls.

desiree:

I would think he is hiding something; I like to be able to call my man at any time except when he is at work and can't pick up calls.

he sure is hidin somtin even if he is at work all he got 2 do is not pick up and when he can he shuld call u back immediately wen a man start tellin me when 2 call him i ain't even gon go no further wats d point

depends on the dictatee cos the dictator would always dictate to the dictatee simply because of the way the dictatee potrays him or herself

(level of mumuness, foolishness and stupidity)