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Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by bukatyne(f): 11:09am On Sep 13, 2014 |
@Babymama: nice thread, hope you are fully ok Hubby: Thought about it He is very principled (and can sometimes be rigid and an idealist (see things as it should be and work towards it) 1 Like |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by EfemenaXY: 4:28pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Interesting thread. |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Too gentle: This makes some people take advantage of him. Sometimes, I wish he had just a little "agberoness" in him. Too trusting: This man gave a huge sum of money (about 80% deposit) to an interior decorator when he just moved into his new home. He didn't know much about the man, neither did he know his office. Someone just recommended him, he called him up, the man came to the house and they talked. All he had was his phone number. I mean, who does that? Of course, the man stopped picking his calls after some weeks. The rest is history. . . I nearly get high BP. Hates confrontation/can't say "no": A relative/friend asks for money he doesn't have or can't afford to give at the moment. Instead of telling the said person exactly that, he will say "I'll see what I can do". And they will nearly blow up his phone with calls and daily prayer SMSs. This gets on my very last nerve! How difficult can it be to say "o'boy, I no get money" and mean it? 5 Likes |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by EfemenaXY: 6:48pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
^^ Eyah...he sounds kind hearted, Phema. You'll just have to be the 'hard' one in your relationship. |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by donodion(m): 6:55pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Stillfire: Babymama, what's your own flaw? She talks a lot.that's one of her major flaws 1 Like |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Stillfire: 7:00pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Babymama1: Lol. I can't do that though. I found out I blame myself more when things go wrong...like I must be stu.pid to have let the issue happen. |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:00pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: ^^ Eyah...he sounds kind hearted, Phema. Kindheartedness is good, but when people start taking advantage of it, then it's high time one re-evaluated him/herself. I pressed some buttons and now, his frenemies are complaining he's changed since he got married. Them never see anything |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Funny enough but what we consider flaws may be Gods way of balancing us out. We both cant be hard and we both cant be soft We both cant be quiet and we both cant be talkative We both cant be disciplinarians and we both cant be soft parents and the list goes on Most importantly if you complement each other and respect, undertand and tolerate each others differences, then thats OK . . . it even makes the marriage more interesting and lively. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
^^^^^True that Chaircover. |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:14pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Phema: chaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiii!!!!!!! Phema, diaris God oo |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
alutacontinua: My dear, what can a good, christian and kindhearted woman like me do na? |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:29pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Phema: lol You remind me of my mum dad can dash himself out (and everybody knows). Even as kids, na daddy tinz oo, my mum go dey ask how, when, where and what you wanna use it for when I will have got triple from dad Thing is I think I completely take after the man. the only solution for me is 'don't ask' cos once you do, I'll gladly go hungry for one week just to put a smile on somebody's face |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by bukatyne(f): 7:36pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Really? Please send 5K to my account $dollars please Thank you in advance 1 Like |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
bukatyne: lolllllllllllllllllll @phema, your children go like daddy pass |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by EfemenaXY: 7:41pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Your roommates must have loved the hell out of you at Uni! |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:48pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: Lol, they do when it's to their favour. but when I decline them something cos I just gave it to a lady I met in class yesterday, that's when they remember I'm stvpid |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by EfemenaXY: 7:55pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
^^ Girl, don't let people (especially borrow-borrow Nigerians) take advantage of your kind nature. It's a dog-eat-dog world out there... |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
alutacontinua: Oh, that worries me too. Other than giving out money, I doubt he will even scold them when they go wrong (I mean, our kids). I won't even have the 'privilege' of saying "let your dad get back from work today", like my mum had. That will be a waste of time and energy. They will prolly laugh me to scorn. Looks like I might just be doing the disciplining all by myself Hope I don't turn into one spiteful wicked woman. The Lord is my muscle |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 8:49pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Coogar what are your own flaws Count them off and name them one by one nna a 1 Like |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
EfemenaXY: ^^ Girl, don't let people (especially borrow-borrow Nigerians) take advantage of your kind nature. LOL Yes ma-am |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 9:11pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Phema: Join the club babes Mummy "hard" since 1845 Welcome to the club of "where's dad?" as the first thing they utter when they get in before saying Hello mum |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
chaircover: Lol@ where is dad? When will these children realise we actually love them more, ehn? |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by coogar: 9:37pm On Sep 13, 2014 |
Babymama1: Coogar what are your own flaws i am flawless. |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by ladygogo: 1:56am On Sep 14, 2014 |
This Coogar ehn .That jollof rice part cracked me up. . Nice thread babymama. My hubby is actually similar to yours. He is a no nonsense man and doesn't give people second chances. However , I dont think that's a flaw at all. That actually turns me on . I love men with balls. My hubby can be a nag. Yes o men nag too . Most times I'll be like 'I don hear abeg'. Dont kee me. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by oln: 4:33am On Sep 14, 2014 |
^^Oh my!The 'I don hear abeg',Dont kee me.This really got me laughing...It's like we married same husband. I need to let my husband know he has an 'act alike'somewhere. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 4:35am On Sep 14, 2014 |
ladygogo: This Coogar ehn .That jollof rice part cracked me up. . Men accuse women of nagging,na dem dey nag pass 1 Like |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 4:37am On Sep 14, 2014 |
coogar: Indeed You strike me like someone that will start cooking his own stew and soup when he is angry Hahahahaha I hear some men do that When they're mad at the wife they will stop eating her food and start cooking and putting on one side of the fridge until she begs them If my hubby tries that,I will put all his containers of food inside the deep freezer |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by donodion(m): 4:57am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Babymama1: Em em I belong to that category.... |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 5:00am On Sep 14, 2014 |
donodion: Hahahahaha What exactly do you plan to achieve? To make her feel bad you are rejecting the food? |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by donodion(m): 5:23am On Sep 14, 2014 |
Babymama1: Yep. when a man like me who have great preference for home made meal starts ignoring my babes food...as tasty as it maybe,hmm, eating fast food,sometime sef I fit ask a female colleague to prep some specific type of soup I know my babe is equally good at.... im passing across silent but strong message. But im getting over that antic..... ...no expose me o. |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by Nobody: 9:21am On Sep 14, 2014 |
donodion: . . . . and when she starts taking imaginary phone calls from guys in your presense no vex o! Two can play the game 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Is You Spouse's Greatest Flaw? by donodion(m): 9:47am On Sep 14, 2014 |
chaircover: That one is an old trick women are known for. to make d oga suffer jealousmonia...you women even go as far as calling the 'person on the other line with sweet names like," my lovie,yes dear,sweets....,etc' trust me I know..and I've also learnt when ur woman starts that...me too I grab my phone close to her and be calling one imaginary sister with wonderful titles like " oh Nosa darling,you are angel, your soothing words are so touching. And I look forward to seeing you again,rememer that gorgeous versace bag with shoes to match,babygirl it will compliment any outfit you out on for the next outing". Yes two can play the game well well... I learnt from advance women. |
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