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Re: Vertedness by 1one: 2:27pm On Sep 14, 2014
jaykaylegend:
i have friends that still do that especially @ night but i have always not hav the courage to even try it... And i have tried to talk to just any other girl but the right words don't come out but now that you have mentioned i wll up my efforts
and P.S; your long post helped

Aii man cool

Come back here to give us testimonies grin
Re: Vertedness by jaykaylegend(m): 2:47pm On Sep 14, 2014
merit12: To get over shyness is to hange out with. Friennds and family and be determine youwanna get over it

Talk to ladies

Start by compliments
Greetings


Still don't understand? Enrollin my school
i would really love to
Re: Vertedness by passionate88: 2:50pm On Sep 14, 2014
Unionised:

Only little boys worry about being friendzoned.

The matured know what to do...
Then as a matured guy, why not help a brother out?. Tell him/me/us what to do.

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Re: Vertedness by Bryan12(m): 3:07pm On Sep 14, 2014
temigracie: ...hehehehehe....

Shyness!....I understand how you are feeling, bro....Lemme give some tips....

When you finally meet that girl you want to date so badly...
Firstly, be her friend..come closer...Always be there for her whenever she needs your help or your presence...

Secondly, be nice....Always give her this kind of sexy and sweet smile...It' ll melt her heart....

Lastly, whenever you wanna pop the question about dating each other....Make sure you say this stuffs to her at night or evening...On a date....When it is dark alittle...People usually have boldness at night...
Last sentence nailed it gringringringrin
Re: Vertedness by Vizboyz: 3:14pm On Sep 14, 2014
friend zone loading just 50%



op just be your self that all I can say.

am just like you but most people don't know cause I have learned to talk to girls become their friend before asking then out

just be self



you will get friendzone and brotherzone 50% of the time
Re: Vertedness by luvola(m): 3:37pm On Sep 14, 2014
passionate88: Simple... People don't know I'm shy around the ladies because of the way I act...
same here but u will not know until u watch closely. I am a bit shy
Re: Vertedness by mikaj(m): 3:50pm On Sep 14, 2014
Bros calm ur tits. The best advise is when u meet a girl u like or wanna converse with, just approach her and say "BABY I LOVE U, TALK UR OWN BACK". I swear she will welcome u with an open arms. #beenworkingformesince1992.
Re: Vertedness by Unionised(m): 3:51pm On Sep 14, 2014
passionate88: Then as a matured guy, why not help a brother out?. Tell him/me/us what to do.

He's not been friendzoned.
Re: Vertedness by Nobody: 4:06pm On Sep 14, 2014
jaykaylegend:
The thing is face your study for real , you don't need that side when the time come you will be bold !!!

Talk 2 ladies the same way you talk to yourself , moderately with great IQ, without trying to impress her (she no be GOD and her papa is not your Governor) .....

Infact she dey sh:it and her sh:it smell pass ya own , she pissed for bed yesterday night when nobody is watching ..... While sleeping she fart and it was horrible !

Na dat kain person you dey shy for because she put pancake and dey form like say she no dey menstruate ?

If you like a girl, walk up to her and tell her you like her, tell her what you like about her, tell her your name and what you do/study ...... Tell her you will wish to roll with someone like her ....... (Damn who she is, worst is she will say No, thank you .... Best, she respect your boldness and give you a chance)

As the converstaion flows thru time, ask for her hobbies ....Generally, women love Moderate Romantic talk (complement her physique and endownment) , you need to know about Fashion, Celebrities and you must be able to solve her assignments(Book) !!!


Also, learn to be bold now cuz you will face interview very soon ,, no come join train of unemployed ooo !
Re: Vertedness by passionate88: 4:11pm On Sep 14, 2014
Unionised:

He's not been friendzoned.
Just tellit... So that he/me/us will know what to do when it happens
Re: Vertedness by Acidosis(m): 5:34pm On Sep 14, 2014
You cannot overcome shyness by experimenting your wooing skills on mature ladies. You'll clearly fail doing that. You might end up mixing pidgin, hausa and english while talking with your tongue hitting the walls of your jaw.

I used to be a very shy guy, but I overcame shyness in Church while @School. From reading Bible verses on pulpit - to co-ordinating small groups comprising of male and female students. (You don't have to do all these though; its just a phase that'll pass).

I couldn't date any girl until after 4years in school, although I didn't fall flawlessly in love with anyone. It was so bad in my 100level that I used to run away from my room when girls (course mates) call to inquire if I'm home - they always come for notes, assignments, etc.

But today, the story is different. I have no regrets though, cos if I'd gone wierd back then, I for don born like 8 pikins, being a very 'active' guy.

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Re: Vertedness by Nobody: 6:16pm On Sep 14, 2014
Acidosis: You cannot overcome shyness by experimenting your wooing skills on mature ladies. You'll clearly fail doing that. You might end up mixing pidgin, hausa and english while talking with your tongue hitting the walls of your jaw.

I used to be a very shy guy, but I overcame shyness in Church while @School. From reading Bible verses on pulpit - to co-ordinating small groups comprising of male and female students. (You don't have to do all these though; its just a phase that'll pass).

I couldn't date any girl until after 4years in school, although I didn't fall flawlessly in love with anyone. It was so bad in my 100level that I used to run away from my room when girls (course mates) call to inquire if I'm home - they always come for notes, assignments, etc.

But today, the story is different. I have no regrets though, cos if I'd gone wierd back then, I for don born like 8 pikins, being a very 'active' guy.


grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Vertedness by chidekings(m): 6:53pm On Sep 14, 2014
jaykaylegend:
jaykaylegend is not shy to comment, he just dosen't know what to write

u dey use ur hand dey spoil ur market.
Re: Vertedness by pamcode(m): 7:18pm On Sep 14, 2014
ellapius: @ op stop mesturbating then u will be bold enuf to ask for the real tin .dont ask me how I got to know.cos u wont like it.
i want to know pls tell me
Re: Vertedness by Unionised(m): 8:06pm On Sep 14, 2014
passionate88: Just tellit... So that he/me/us will know what to do when it happens

When you grow up, you will know.

Epiphany...
Re: Vertedness by Nobody: 8:26pm On Sep 14, 2014
rasbaby: First what's your name before we get started? And also know that once I cure you of that shyness,
hmm it will cause you a lot of distractions, cos I've helped a lot of guys in your shoes and they thank me for it but they just can't get off it once they are into it. It becomes fun to them. Hope you prepared? Over to you!











When should we start the class then
I assume u to b a prof in this field
Re: Vertedness by Nobody: 8:53pm On Sep 14, 2014
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Re: Vertedness by Nobody: 8:54pm On Sep 14, 2014
Joavid:

grin grin grin grin grin grin
ehn ehn... u dey laugh me shey...lol

Anyway, Acidosis is serving a 2week ban sad sad
Re: Vertedness by tobiboss(m): 8:55pm On Sep 14, 2014
Following
Re: Vertedness by youngds: 9:24pm On Sep 14, 2014
ellapius: @ op stop mesturbating then u will be bold enuf to ask for the real tin .dont ask me how I got to know.cos u wont like it.

thread closed... she nailed it
Re: Vertedness by Nobody: 10:32pm On Sep 14, 2014
acidosisTM:
ehn ehn... u dey laugh me shey...lol

Anyway, Acidosis is serving a 2week ban sad sad

Hehehehehe, wetin you do?
NL mods are not nice at all!
Re: Vertedness by daveP(m): 10:36pm On Sep 14, 2014
temigracie: ...hehehehehe....

Shyness!....I understand how you are feeling, bro....Lemme give some tips....

When you finally meet that girl you want to date so badly...
Firstly, be her friend..come closer...Always be there for her whenever she needs your help or your presence...

Secondly, be nice....Always give her this kind of sexy and sweet smile...It' ll melt her heart....

Lastly, whenever you wanna pop the question about dating each other....Make sure you say this stuffs to her at night or evening...On a date....When it is dark alittle...People usually have boldness at night...

(whistles like mr bean when he gets shocked) (smooches beard)
Re: Vertedness by samffizy(m): 11:05pm On Sep 14, 2014
Jst fast nd pray fr 40days nd nights
Re: Vertedness by SkinnyDude(m): 11:38pm On Sep 14, 2014
op, are we related?
mine is worse, cos' i also stutter. how can you converse with a girl you love stuttering? it's unromantic nah.
Re: Vertedness by SkinnyDude(m): 11:48pm On Sep 14, 2014
ellapius: @ op stop mesturbating then u will be bold enuf to ask for the real tin .dont ask me how I got to know.cos u wont like it.
how do u know he is mesturbating, eh lady?
Re: Vertedness by themmydhayhor(m): 1:16am On Sep 15, 2014
Nice point




temigracie: ...hehehehehe....

Shyness!....I understand how you are feeling, bro....Lemme give some tips....

When you finally meet that girl you want to date so badly...
Firstly, be her friend..come closer...Always be there for her whenever she needs your help or your presence...

Secondly, be nice....Always give her this kind of sexy and sweet smile...It' ll melt her heart....

Lastly, whenever you wanna pop the question about dating each other....Make sure you say this stuffs to her at night or evening...On a date....When it is dark alittle...People usually have boldness at night...
Re: Vertedness by agrovick(m): 3:25am On Sep 15, 2014
temigracie: ...hehehehehe....

Shyness!....I understand how you are feeling, bro....Lemme give some tips....

When you finally meet that girl you want to date so badly...
Firstly, be her friend..come closer...Always be there for her whenever she needs your help or your presence...

Secondly, be nice....Always give her this kind of sexy and sweet smile...It' ll melt her heart....

Lastly, whenever you wanna pop the question about dating each other....Make sure you say this stuffs to her at night or evening...On a date....When it is dark alittle...People usually have boldness at night...
emmm is this a recipe for getting a gal of his dreams or getting friendzoned?
Re: Vertedness by agrovick(m): 3:30am On Sep 15, 2014
passionate88: @bolded... You will be FRIENDZONED before you could even shout Halleluyah!.
chop knuckle
Re: Vertedness by joeblack62: 3:48am On Sep 15, 2014
Just calm down @ op...You'd be fine. Don't think too much about how difficult it is approaching that girl cos that fear you feel only exists in your mind. Most of them don't even notice it. make sure you start hanging out with male friends more often, dress more comfortably, look nice, smell nice, talk to few girls just as friends. And as time goes on you'd be just the man you wanna be. Focus more on making yourself a better person, don't think you're weird, this is what most guys have gone through. Just calm down and get over it.

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Re: Vertedness by Tinkybabe(f): 4:26am On Sep 15, 2014
Someone came here with a similar problem last year and this was my advice.

Tinkybabe: Op you lack confidence because you are scared of rejection.
One thing you should know is that rejection is almost inevitable.The world's most successful people have at one point in their lives faced rejection but why they have risen to the height they are now is because they didn't allow the rejection or fall to deter them.They kept trying and used these rejections to their advantage.

About women,first of,women are human beings and are not superior to you.The worst a girl can say to you is no.One thing you should have at the back of your mind when walking up to a girl is that it could be a win or a lose situation.

Now on approaching girls,try to make friends with them first-don't come on too strong.In fact try not to make a romantic relationship your priority...Just come on as a basic friend.

Engage them in general and sensible convos,be humorous whilst being yourself and just endeavour to socialise generally-with the right company of course..


Build that confidence not just in a bid to get a girl but to make yourself a better and stronger person overall.

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Re: Vertedness by Hawlahscho(m): 5:51am On Sep 15, 2014
passionate88: Simple... People don't know I'm shy around the ladies because of the way I act...

D way you act is what I don't know. May I be told?

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Re: Vertedness by AdeniyiA(m): 6:05am On Sep 15, 2014
Your shy type should not have a dating mindset before befriending a lady as you'd be moved to feel awkward nd uneasy becos of your intentions. Start with being a friend, then gradually things would work out themselves.
I Could also deduce that you're a Virgin? it's good bro, just face your studies and achieve something tangible and your shyness shall melt away afterwards, dating can be a huge distraction for your type

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