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Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 3:09pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
sandijey: In some countries, mothers give their children to nursery schools at the age of 2 or 3. These children are taken care of by professionals and have the opportunity to play with other kids and develop important social skills. Being in the care of the mother from age 1-7 is not necessarily what makes a child develop self-confidence and certain social skills and is thus not necessarily the best. And I know how important the first years are. Besides, you don't have to work from 8 am to 10 pm when your children are young. You can also work part-time. And if you have a husband who understands that his role does not end with financial responsibilities, you can divide the responsibilities you two have with the kids, which is also good for the children as they need a mother AND a father. I have absolutely no problem with women who stay at home and focus on children and household chores for the rest of their lives. It's their choice. I don't even think they are inferior to mothers who work but this is not what all women want and must do. Now this is a constructive debate. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 3:12pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: @bold Men also want to be pampered and taken care of, in one way or another. This is not a gender issue. Apart from that, even if my husband was a millionaire, I would still want to do my job because I LOVE IT. 1 Like |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 3:18pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
cococandy: Wash. By mouth.I will see me and make sure I advice me not to kneel down to beg 1 Like |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 3:20pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Yes, men do...just not as much as women. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 3:21pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: I have never asked any man to do my household chores, my laundry or my food. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 3:29pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:But you would so love it if a man suddenly ups and does them for you occasionally. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 3:33pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Of course! In the same way you would enjoy it. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 3:45pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:I suppose your definition of being pampered starts and ends with doing your laundry, chores, or cooking for you huh? And I thought diamonds were a girl's best friend, along with all the romantic gifts a man can get a hold of. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 3:47pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: I can do the shopping on my own. It's fun. Doing laundry isn't. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 4:02pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Interesting. So you're not a typical lady who would love being surprised with a box of Chanel no.5 perfume? or the very expensive Valentino dinner gown you were gawking at the other day when you were window shopping? or the newly released iPhone 6s? or a pair of the signature red-bottom louboutin? or the keys to your brand new dream car? You mean you would really love doing the shopping for these on your own with your own money because it's fun, and not prefer your man surprise with one? Interesting indeed! You're every man's dream girl, no expectations from your man whatsoever. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 4:09pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Yeah, that's the adjective that best describes me. So you're not a typical lady who would love being surprised with a box of Chanel no.5 perfume? or the very expensive Valentino dinner gown you were gawking at the other day when you were window shopping? or the newly released iPhone 6s? or a pair of the signature red-bottom louboutin? or the keys to your brand new dream car? If I was that rich, I would love to do the shopping on my own, alone or with some friends, coupled with a nice dinner at a fancy restaurant. I wouldn'T reject the present though from my boyfriend and yes I would appreciate it. I am sure you would also love to get a surprise gift like a MacBook or a dolby surround system combined with a 70" cinema TV. Interesting indeed! I don't have such expectations, indeed. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 4:32pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Hmmm i dont know why i like you this carefreewannabe. I hope your pm is working well? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 4:45pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
Hmmmm... Very tempting...but still, you portray or come off as a difficult person. Carefreewannabe |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 4:50pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
letsdothis: Sorry, I won't reply. Am taken. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 4:51pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Hmmmm... Maybe I am. I am not so sure. You come off as a cheater. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 4:56pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Lol...I get a lot of that. You should however try at least to know a person outside NL's facade. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 4:58pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Why would I? I have too many enemies here. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 5:10pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Who doesn't have people that don't like them on NL? We all do. But should the ones with no beef with you suffer the same fate as those who do have some animosity towards you? Surely you can tell apart those who really just want to know you from those who may be up to mischief...yes? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 5:12pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Not always. Where are you located? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 5:25pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Port Harcourt... why? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 5:26pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: I thought you were somewhere in Europe for some reason. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 5:36pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:I can be if you want me to. When last did you visit Nigeria? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Why would I want it? When last did you visit Nigeria? Two years ago. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 6:02pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:There wasn't a reason for the curiosity on my location I guess huh? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 6:14pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: I am curious by nature. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 6:33pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:As am I. Where exactly in Europe are you? |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 6:43pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: Beautiful Germany. |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by crackhaus: 7:58pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:Lol...aiight |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 8:00pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
crackhaus: |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 8:56pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Hahahaha see as you are using the guy's testosterone to play. You are using the guys libido to play with this picture |
Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
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Re: Female Breadwinners Lament 'we Slave To Feed Our ‘househusbands’ by Kanwulia: 9:01pm On Sep 21, 2014 |
SAMBARRY: Exactly. Monkey dey work baboon dey chop.hiaannnn like the elders say stoopeedity fuels laziness I say na choice o. Everyone has the choice to be a monkey or baboon. Na the 'end-game' be the most important thing o. There is good investment. . . and there is bad investment. |
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