carefreewannabe:

Sorry, I won't reply. Am taken.

See shakara from carefree o. You dont even know if i want to toast you or not or won't you socialiize again because you are taken?
Chei you know i said it earlier that if you become banker everybody go hear am becuz the shakara will be over scale lol.

Oya ive followed you. Follow me back, no more story.

letsdothis:

See shakara from carefree o. You dont even know if i want to toast you or not or won't you socialiize again because you are taken?
Chei you know i said it earlier that if you become banker everybody go hear am becuz the shakara will be over scale lol.

Oya ive followed yoy. Follow me back, no more story.

I am not a follower. I never follow.

carefreewannabe:

I am not a follower. I never follow.

you will follow me o. Because every true leader was once a follower. Oya follow back lol

letsdothis:

you will follow me o. Because every true leader was once a follower. Oya follow back lol

I am long past the follower phase.

women....but why ...what do you want as creatures

carefreewannabe:

I am long past the follower phase.

You pass through the phase abi the phase pass through you, if the phase pass through you that is the koko.

Anyway no wahala. I know you look tough but i go catch you for germany one day before you marry

letsdothis:

You pass through the phase abi the phase pass through you, if the phase pass through you that is the koko.

Anyway no wahala. I know you look tough but i go catch you for germany one day before you marry

carefreewannabe:

You met the guy in germany or he's in nigeria?

letsdothis:

You met the guy in germany or he's in nigeria?

He is a Nigerian who lives in Europe. Satisfied?

carefreewannabe:

He is a Nigerian who lives in Europe. Satisfied?

yes

okotv: women....but why ...what do you want as creatures

Anything but what they have now, same as men.

okotv: women....but why ...what do you want as creatures

you are quick to label lazy women as"liabilities"



same thing applies to awon ole okunrin alapa masise.only thing they want to do all the days of their lives is eat, have sex, watch football and read news papers and argue.go and ask bisi komolafes fiance who was living with her and collecting her money when she was alive while he was gallivanting the streets of surulere using her car to do alanpoza. No job.faworaja empty pocket, lazy as a cat . what they do to Widows in Nigeria was done to him by her family

carefreewannabe:

Which one of the brothers are you crushing on?

crackhaus:
Interesting.

So you're not a typical lady who would love being surprised with a box of Chanel no.5 perfume? or the very expensive Valentino dinner gown you were gawking at the other day when you were window shopping? or the newly released iPhone 6s? or a pair of the signature red-bottom louboutin? or the keys to your brand new dream car?
You mean you would really love doing the shopping for these on your own with your own money because it's fun, and not prefer your man surprise with one?

Interesting indeed!
You're every man's dream girl, no expectations from your man whatsoever.

And somehow you think it is only moneywise a man can pamper a woman?

Money a woman can make herself?

Twa!

@OP:

If a husband is not earning, he should do his best to ensure he is super-hands on at home. Nobody wants a liability .

For posters comparing housewives to 'househusbands' or non earning husbands:

An housewife knows she is one and ensures that the domestic front is well taken care of. I would frown seriously at a housewife that still expects her husband to come home to assist her especially on week days. On the other hand, most househusbands still want to be the 'head' of their homes (Nigerian definition of head) and cross leg waiting for their working wife to come and do all the chores.

#Bible passages can be tweaked to suit most situations; wanna use the Bible; let's cover all fronts.

bukatyne:

And somehow you think it is only moneywise a man can pamper a woman?

Money a woman can make herself?

Twa!

See this bush woman, which one be 'Twa'?

I never said it's only with money...but hell yea, y'all would rather be pampered with any of those fancy things money can provide than with what carefree listed.

Money a woman can make herself you ask me?
Abeg leave story, no be today...

crackhaus:
See this bush woman, which one be 'Twa'?

I never said it's only with money...but hell yea, y'all would rather be pampered with any of those fancy things money can provide than with what carefree listed.

Money a woman can make herself you ask me?
Abeg leave story, no be today...

The moment you realize all women are not the same, the better

I do not need anybody's money when I make mine.

I only crave things I cannot do for myself from hubby (affection etc.)

SAMBARRY: you are quick to label lazy women as"liabilities"



same thing applies to awon ole okunrin alapa masise.only thing they want to do all the days of their lives is eat, have sex, watch football and read news papers and argue.go and ask bisi komolafes fiance who was living with her and collecting her money when she was alive while he was gallivanting the streets of surulere using her car to do alanpoza. No job.faworaja empty pocket, lazy as a cat . what they do to Widows in Nigeria was done to him by her family

see you supporting a crime...abuse is abuse whether done by a my or woman ...and as a man i don't believe in allowing a woman suffer not to talk if any one ....and we are not all sex maniacs

bukatyne:

The moment you realize all women are not the same, the better

I do not need anybody's money when I make mine.

I only crave things I cannot do for myself from hubby (affection etc.)

Okay bukatyne, point taken..

I'm already way past that moment where I realized all women are not the same, trust me...

crackhaus:
Which one of the brothers are you crushing on?

Jerome.

Prince is too aggressive.

okotv: see you supporting a crime...abuse is abuse whether done by a my or woman ...and as a man i don't believe in allowing a woman suffer not to talk if any one ....and we are not all sex maniacs

I am talking about lazy wimps who don't want to work but rather live off the woman's sweat and still want to be respected. How does that work and some people will say if the woman is the breadwinner the whole neighbours must know .That is to tell you that something is wrong with a dependant husband so the whole neighbourhood must know so if shame catch am e go fain work do

SAMBARRY: I am talking about lazy wimps who don't want to work but rather live off the woman's sweat and still want to be respected. How does that work and some people will say if the woman is the breadwinner the whole neighbours must know .That is to tell you that something is wrong with a dependant husband so the whole neighbourhood must know so if shame catch am e go fain work do

what if the man works but he is not earning as much as the wife

pickabeau1:

what if the man works but he is not earning as much as the wife

no problem as long as he is not totally dependent on the woman

SAMBARRY: no problem as long as he is not totally dependent on the woman

ok...i will accept your answer as is

is it a crime to help a jobless husband?? some men will never learn and think on how to work harder to be the breadwinner of the family. I pity this woman oo

SAMBARRY: I am talking about lazy wimps who don't want to work but rather live off the woman's sweat and still want to be respected. How does that work and some people will say if the woman is the breadwinner the whole neighbours must know .That is to tell you that something is wrong with a dependant husband so the whole neighbourhood must know so if shame catch am e go fain work do

why must the neighborhood know as if they got married to the neighborhood. by the way any man who doesn't want to work should be ready to do house work but that does not mean he is still not the head.

carefreewannabe:

Jerome.

Prince is too aggressive.

Good choice.
It won't be wise having an aggressive lady like yourself crush on an aggressive guy

However, most women would go with Prince though...you're so weird

carefreewannabe:

I am long past the follower phase.

Not every one shares your sadistic and tough woman approach;certainly not me.Your constant uploading of western,sad-faced women i.e feminist pictures to air your views shows how much you worship them.
Tough women,who compete with their husbands have been in existence from time immemorial but the difference is that those women act under their own natural push but you are influenced;the main reasons feminists are selfish and always sad out of nothing.
Are you trying to tell me men and women are equal but different?Can people be different and equal?Even the difference is the source of inequality?Are you trying to say men oppressed women?Maybe I can't actually deny completely that fact but I can mention things ranging from the pad you use during monthly circle to infinity.If not for Christianity that strongly encourage single wives,you dear not express this stupid view in Saudi Arabia.
Feminism as I will always say,is a communist ideology,which has helped in promoting lesbianism,divorce,reduce the number of children by promoting unlimited access to abortion.It has helped to forward a lot of women's political and business carrier,and seriously helped the multibillion dollar po..rn industry by making women loose the great value they place on their body by telling them they can sleep with as many men as they wish.There is now a deluded group called femen that encourages REBELLIOUS women to shamelessly remove top and expose breast in public,all in the name of eqality(Very sweet! FEMINISM IS SYNONIMOUS TO BONDAGE.Men have always loved women,and we will never stop.99% of women are NAURALLY submissive,ceteris paribus.
Feminism is not needed at all.There have always been women earning more than their spouse and there always will.Whenever people like you raise issues expectially on Nairaland,I laugh and remember a novel when an english reporter complained to an Afgan man in Afganistan that women were not being held like that in England,he laughed and replied,saying'We are not in England.'My lady,there are millions of willingly rich and SUBMISSIVE ladies(afraid of marrying the wrong man) in Nigeria,moving from one church to another in search for, even if it is married man,just to marry.Woe betide any lady that thinks she will leave those ladies and go after a bonehead militant who vehemently(After showing love,care and understanding to her) to submit and bear my name without kicking her ass out of my house.

there are millions of willingly rich and SUBMISSIVE ladies(afraid of marrying the wrong man) in Nigeria,moving from one church to another in search for, even if it is married man,just to marry

true.


not only in nigeria either.

Emmalot121: Not every one shares your sadistic and tough woman approach;certainly not me.Your constant uploading of western,sad-faced women i.e feminist pictures to air your views shows how much you worship them.

So?

Tough women,who compete with their husbands have been in existence from time immemorial but the difference is that those women act under their own natural push but you are influenced;the main reasons feminists are selfish and always sad out of nothing.

I compete with my husband?

Are you trying to tell me men and women are equal but different?Can people be different and equal?Even the difference is the source of inequality?

Yes, they can. A du.mb man and an intelligent man have both the right to vote. They are different but equal. This is just an example.

Are you trying to say men oppressed women?Maybe I can't actually deny completely that fact but I can mention things ranging from the pad you use during monthly circle to infinity.

And your point is?

If not for Christianity that strongly encourage single wives,you dear not express this stupid view in Saudi Arabia.

What are you talking about?

Feminism as I will always say,is a communist ideology,which has helped in promoting lesbianism,divorce,reduce the number of children bypromoting unlimited access to abortion.

So feminism developed out of communism now? Interesting.

It has helped to forward a lot of women's political and business carrier,and seriously helped the multibillion dollar po..rn industry by making women loose the great value they place on their body by telling them they can sleep with as many men as they wish.There is now a deluded group called femen that encourages REBELLIOUS women to shamelessly remove top and expose breast in public,all in the name of eqality(Very sweet! FEMINISM IS SYNONIMOUS TO BONDAGE.

Nobody forces men to watch porn.

Men have always loved women,and we will never stop.99% of women are NAURALLY submissive,ceteris paribus.

Then you should have no problem.

Feminism is not needed at all.There have always been women earning more than their spouse and there always will.Whenever people like you raise issues expectially on Nairaland,I laugh and remember a novel when an english reporter complained to an Afgan man in Afganistan that women were not being held like that in England,he laughed and replied,saying'We are not in England.'

Irrelevant.

My lady,there are millions of willingly rich and SUBMISSIVE ladies(afraid of marrying the wrong man) in Nigeria,moving from one church to another in search for, even if it is married man,just to marry.Woe betide any lady that thinks she will leave those ladies and go after a bonehead militant who vehemently(After showing love,care and understanding to her) to submit and bear my name without kicking her ass out of my house.

Go for them.

@carefreewannabe, I think you should have just ignored that. Sounds like a lot of ranting about things that don't even have anything to do with the thread

aderonila18: @carefreewannabe, I think you should have just ignored that. Sounds like a lot of ranting about things that don't even have to do with the thread

You are right.