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Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Teespice(f): 10:35pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession. let's hear different views. 8 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 10:39pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
well it depends on the level of jealousy , sometimes it might become too much . 5 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 11:01pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
Jealousy is a sigh of love buht too much of it is termed obsession 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by ochon: 11:12pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
Personally, I can't date or marry any girl that doesn't have a tinge of jealousy for me, and vice versa. Small jealousy or moderate jealousy is needed, it shows one cares about his or her significant partner. Jealousy is man's nature, so it's nothing to be ashamed of. However excessive or over-the-top jealousy, is a no-no for me. It kills my love for a girl faster than a marksman bullet to his target. When a girl gets overtly jealous over little things, or even ask I cut off my female friends that have been there before she came, without any CREDIBLE reason(s), then I'll have to find my way out of that relationship. Most times, it leads to headaches from the nagging partner. But one partner should try his or her best to be open about his or her dealings with opposite genders, to reduce his or her partner's chances of getting overtly jealous. Don't give him or her reasons to get overtly jealous. Normal jealousy - a welcome development Excessive jealousy - hell to the NO!! 55 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by obayaya(m): 11:15pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
Jealousy is a complex emotion. Jealousy as regards relationships is basically borne out of fear of abandonment. if you love someone, it's completely normal to be scared of losing that someone. So, Jealousy is definitely a part of Love. 35 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Exjoker(m): 11:51pm On Sep 23, 2014 |
Yes it is 1 Like |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by adonbilivit: 12:07am On Sep 24, 2014 |
nah, jealousy is for the weak and its a female trait 3 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by justi4jesu(f): 5:41am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Well my opinion is that jealousy is a sign of affection in the sense I assume you're referring to. Though if the situation is like for example, Your boyfriend/girlfriend is hanging out with someone else, to be jealous, or to trust them is the question. In different circumstances you may be jealous, but I believe jealousy, balanced with trust is true love. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by eleojo23: 5:42am On Sep 24, 2014 |
People get jealous because they feel a certain fear of losing the person they love to someone else. But if one is getting overly aggressive for no reason, then it's not healthy. There is some kind of insecurity when someone is over jealous. Someone who grew up with self confidence and love rarely have blind jealousy in their character unless there is an obvious reason to panic. It now becomes defending your 'territory' 3 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 5:42am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Where is Joenice? another debate for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 5:43am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Yes,but it shouldn't be to the extreme. It shows you care,and can't share the person's feeling with another person. 3 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Leetunechi: 5:43am On Sep 24, 2014 |
*snoring* |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by ochilikoko(m): 5:43am On Sep 24, 2014 |
adonbilivit: nah, jealousy is for the weak and its a female traitYou are wrong....Jealousy is totally part of love though,if well contained. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by sammieguze(m): 5:44am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Yes. As long as other does not breed envy 1 Like |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by tyson99(m): 5:45am On Sep 24, 2014 |
I dey jealous pass anything |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by LMAyedun(m): 5:45am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Reasonable Jealousy is part of love... In fact, it's a sign of love. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by jamilkb(m): 5:45am On Sep 24, 2014 |
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Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by ladythursday(f): 5:46am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Yes it is, if you love your spouse you shouldn't want to share him or have other ladies having his "attention" unnecessarily . Jealousy in relationships should be a healthy kind of jealousy tho. Just the kind that makes you watch for ur man/woman. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by michelz: 5:47am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Most Ladies like guys who are Jealous...If You're not the jealous type,then they'll say ''He's not man enough''. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Ifeogunleye1(f): 5:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Yes n No |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Bublanski: 5:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
I have watched too many Indian/Nigerian/American romance movies where the grounds for someone cheating on his/her partner is usually: "You didnt fight hard enough to keep me when I tried to leave'' - meaning I didnt sense enough jealousy in you when that other guy/lady was trying to woo me[b] So yeah, I guess guys/ladies actually EXPECT their partner to have some measure of jealousy in them, otherwise ''they may not truly, deeply love them'' Weird world 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Pavore9: 5:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
lt should be healthy and not such that reeks of insecurity. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by temitopeking(m): 5:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Jealous Wifey is dangerous to marry cos one day she is gonna jealously give u heart attack. It really pissed off but lil jelly instint is part of human. |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Ovialekhe(f): 5:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Yes it is.if ur partner in love is not jealous then probably he has no future plan with you.Maybe he com do chop and clean mouth. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by SpcAgtOko: 5:48am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Even God was jealous 6 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by lurvy: 5:49am On Sep 24, 2014 |
[size=15pt]@ OP, I see...So an argument from your room actually made front page?? End Will Never Wonder here on NL![/size] 1 Like |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Amuga(f): 5:49am On Sep 24, 2014 |
you can't love someone and not be a little jealous of what goes around the person.But some people jealousy are too extreme that they become a monitoring spirit. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by martyns303(m): 5:49am On Sep 24, 2014 |
A tiny bit of jealousy is understandable, but to a level it becomes a serious issue. Mostl girls who lack self confidence are over jealous, it's even worse if the guy is above her standards, maybe he's better looking or have a thing going for himself. The girl am seeing now is just too jealous, I spent 3hrs last night explaining every detail as to why I missed her call. 4 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by Nobody: 5:50am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Alittle jealous is okay....It shows we truly have feelings for each other...And wont tolerate cheating no matter what... But when it is getting too much....Pick race!!!.... 5 Likes |
Re: Is Jealousy Part Of Love? by chismo007(m): 5:51am On Sep 24, 2014 |
Yes it is oo cos u won't b jealous over some1 u don't feel anytin for 1 Like |
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