Unibenstudent: What will make someone uncontrollably jealous

it depends..some people get jealous over little things...especially guys

Tryin

Reminds me when I was seeing this guy
He will always be like, I love u bt this ur craziness is killing me

Yes I nagged his head outta his body, I was so obsessed with him. I had a drm one night he was with another lady, woke up and that same midnight I called and started ranting that he better watches his back that I will kill any woman that tries to take my place, nigga was slpn yes the amount of anger in his reaction cld brk the walls of jerico

I woke up next morning and cldnt blv all I said to him, I started pleading

Sarimah: it depends..some people get jealous over little things...especially guys

ok,well maybe the guy knows the girl has the potential to cheat xo he keeps checkmating her,,so how much of jealousy is supposed to keep u in a relationship?

Unibenstudent: ok,well maybe the guy knows the girl has the potential to cheat xo he keeps checkmating her,,so how much of jealousy is supposed to keep u in a relationship?

a little bit of it

Sarimah: a little bit of it

lols,I guess u will like a guy who can cope with your ability to make friends easily and be rest assured that he is still the king of ur heart

dytbabe:


Reminds me when I was seeing this guy
He will always be like, I love u bt this ur craziness is killing me

Yes I nagged his head outta his body, I was so obsessed with him. I had a drm one night he was with another lady, woke up and that same midnight I called and started ranting that he better watches his back that I will kill any woman that tries to take my place, nigga was slpn yes the amount of anger in his reaction cld brk the walls of jerico

I woke up next morning and cldnt blv all I said to him, I started pleading

DGKN:

Trust me
I am the queen of nags when it comes to it

Infact I barged a very cool name
CRAZY JEALOUS WOMAN

dytbabe:
Trust me
I am the queen of nags when it comes to it

Infact I barged a very cool name
CRAZY JEALOUS WOMAN

eleojo23: People get jealous because they feel a certain fear of losing the person they love to someone else. But if one is getting overly aggressive for no reason, then it's not healthy. There is some kind of insecurity when someone is over jealous. Someone who grew up with self confidence and love rarely have blind jealousy in their character unless there is an obvious reason to panic. It now becomes defending your 'territory'

eleojo23: People get jealous because they feel a certain fear of losing the person they love to someone else. But if one is getting overly aggressive for no reason, then it's not healthy. There is some kind of insecurity when someone is over jealous. Someone who grew up with self confidence and love rarely have blind jealousy in their character unless there is an obvious reason to panic. It now becomes defending your 'territory'

I heard that in 700
BC

slimmy05: Where is Joenice? another debate for you.

Absolutely. Before I say Jack Robinson, you already called my name. I slept like a baby last night. Did you sleep well last night too? Hope you're fine today.

Teespice: So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession.

let's hear different views.

Ask GOD I believe he defined it.

without Jealousy how can you protect your own? Ofcourse jealousy is a sign of love. But it should be moderate o!

If my God is jealous, who am I not to be?

ochon: Personally, I can't date or marry any girl that doesn't have a tinge of jealousy for me, and vice versa.

Small jealousy or moderate jealousy is needed, it shows one cares about his or her significant partner. Jealousy is man's nature, so it's nothing to be ashamed of.

However excessive or over-the-top jealousy, is a no-no for me. It kills my love for a girl faster than a marksman bullet to his target. When a girl gets overtly jealous over little things, or even ask I cut off my female friends that have been there before she came, without any CREDIBLE reason(s), then I'll have to find my way out of that relationship. Most times, it leads to headaches from the nagging partner.

But one partner should try his or her best to be open about his or her dealings with opposite genders, to reduce his or her partner's chances of getting overtly jealous. Don't give him or her reasons to get overtly jealous.

Normal jealousy - a welcome development

Excessive jealousy - hell to the NO!!

U have spoken my mind. God says he is a jealousy....... because he loves us and don't want to share us with other gods.

adonbilivit: nah, jealousy is for the weak and its a female trait

this is not a female bashing thread and as such I won't like such sexist comments.

jealousy is not a trait known to females alone but to males as well even though females tend to show that more as a result of the way we are wired.

lurvy: [size=15pt]@ OP, I see...So an argument from your room actually made front page??

End Will Never Wonder here on NL![/size]

well, I wanted to get more views and opinions. location should not be the issue.

that said, you have anything to add?

Teespice:

this is not a female bashing thread and as such I won't like such sexist comments.

jealousy is not a trait known to females alone but to males as well even though females tend to show that more as a result of the way we are wired.

it is what it is anyway. my apologies

You guys have said it all, it all boils down to a healthy one but some guys wouldn't agree that they are jealous sha.

Teespice: So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession.

let's hear different views.

Of course, being jealous in a relationship is good. It shows "indication of interest" which is what keeps relationship going and is paramount. Unfortunately, most people don't like it. Because it makes them feel weak and insecure. Another problem is competition. In other words, competition is a fact of life, and not an obsession. We treasure more what is hard to obtain and this is why women love to play games most times when they are in love with a man. To them, it is part of life and a way of knowing how strong the man really is emotionally.

Another drawback is nobody wants to lose, perhaps what is rightly belongs to them. For instance, I am not a jealous type when i'm in love with somebody. Instead, I turn it around whenever she tries to make me jealous. Because I am not wussy. I give her the go ahead and doing so, she will realize that I am not a wuss and I probably do not care. Not that I don't really care for the woman. It's just a way of showing her that she cannot really make me feel emotionally weak. Hence, she would think that I have had enough of her and want to leave her for another woman.

justi4jesu: Well my opinion is that jealousy is a sign of affection in the sense I assume you're referring to.


Though if the situation is like for example, Your boyfriend/girlfriend is hanging out with someone else, to be jealous, or to trust them is the question.

In different circumstances you may be jealous, but I believe jealousy, balanced with trust is true love.

Very well said[b][/b]

A little jealousy is healthy for the relationship....
Where there is no jealously..... There is no love

Because we are human and we tend to protect what we get in our own way..... And by this way we get a bit jealous when the one we do care about/love is giving someone/something his full attention and not ours...

But to much of it is bad.... This is as a result of insecurity and inferor complex of the one showing that seed of much jealousy

CAPITAL YES even GOD is jealous wen he see us doing bad :oCAPITAL YES even GOD is jealous wen he see us doing bad

Being jealous shows u hv genuine intreast in somebody,but overdoing it mks u look emotionally needy and desperate,a big turnoff 4 many peeps

Jealousy is a sign of love .....daniel said in the bible , for I am jealous for you ... thats why he would not defile himself.

ifyfaith:

Very well said

tanx

EJanni: without Jealousy how can you protect your own? Ofcourse jealousy is a sign of love. But it should be moderate o!

yeah, exactly!!!

Teespice: So an argument is going on right now in my room now as regard the question above. personally, I feel a little jealousy is healthy in relationships. what won't be healthy is when it spiralls out of control and leads to obsession.

let's hear different views.

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pussyaddict:

Anita oyakhilome in d making

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