I've been asking this girl out since the past two years but she keeps insisting that she would not tell me the reason why she's still saying NO to my date request. Although,I still see many things that show to me that this girl likes me. In the past,we used to be friends because we lived in the same area but we weren't all that close. She's 20 already and I dont know why she's obstinate. I'm never giving up anyway but tell me what to do to get this girl. I love her so much.

well i dont really know what's stoping her for
going out wit u
if u say she really loves u
cos as for me i dont think she loves u that much as u say
or is she just playing abit shakara to say yes?lol
anyway keep ur finger cross who knows maybe she will agree
but as for me i dont think she feels anything for u,or she loves u.!!

What?

Move on, man.

What do u want to get her for? at 20 and you'r pestering her life is too early live her alone or if you really love her wait till she's due.

For me i think she have a long way to go.

sweetie life is to short more fishes in the sea and all that move on

LOL coco teacher

@coco,
u should be NL teacher u go get many students
i'll be ya numba 1,student

i am expensive ooooooooooo i do not think NLS can afford me lol

@coco abeg seun will pay for all of us,hehehe indeed

abeg coco go here and tell me ya view https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-19160.0.html

All i knw is that, she is not ready for all this una love of a thing, lol

Ignore her for a week or a month and at this time when you see her just smile at her or say hi and nothing else. Very soon she would start looking for your face. But that's if she likes you. If she does then you talk to her like an old friend and forget about showing off your likeness for her. Then if she continues showing you that she is interested then you can ask her out again. If you show girls you like them alot they start wiggling their but for you.

Basic boy see eh, i have same thing in my net, just try be urself and don't pest her oooo give her sometime don't be susprise that this so called gurl loves you.

BOY DONT YOU SEE THAT
THIS  GIRL DONT LIKE YOU 4 NOTING? 
BECAUSE IF SHE REALLY LIKE YOU US U ARE SAYING THEN SHE WOULD HAVE GONE OUT WITH YOU  FROM A LONG TIME.
AND BELIVE ME SHE IS NOT PLAYING THE PART OF A DIFFICULT GIRL
BECAUSE IF SHE WERE, SHE WOULD HAVE PLAYED 4 1 WEEK NOT 2 YEARS,
MYBE SHE IS SAYING NO JUST BECAUSE SHE KNOW  U FROM A LONG TIME AND SHE DOESN'T WANT TO HURT U
IF A GIRL REFUSE TO GO OUT WITH A BOY  IS A CLEAR MESSAGE THAT MEENS  SHE DOESN'T LIKE THE GUY
                                      SO  BOY MOVE ON,
THIS ONE 4GET

i guess you should move on, at least if she gave a reason it makes more sense.

iice:

Abeg reduce 2 normal caps because CAPITALS means your shouting

LMAO

@topic, guy u gotta move on, if she loves or really likes u, she'll come begging!

2years? gosh, u shld have made history.

My candid advice is that you shl try to get her talk to you, let her feel the gravity of the feelings you have for her, and see if she'll budge, but if she remains adamant, i 'll rather you give her some more time- maybe 2 months break, perhaps there is something scare about her that she knows will bump you off the moment you hear it.

@basic, youre what other Guys call a wussy (Mumu).

how can you ask a girl out for two years, You deserve to be on Guiness book of records

What world are you stuck in, if a girl says no more than once these days, she means no and you gatta move on.

Are you afraid of meting other preety girls? if youre not careful, shell report you to the police as a stalker.

i do not apologize for being rude, youre disgracing us guyz. i have sent you an email, you must visit the website i reccomended and do as it says. i need you to announce a new girlfriend in 3 weeks. YOU HEAR!

I pity that girl.
just let go am sure you are her biggest nightmare

bros y dont u leave d poor girl and find som1 else no b by force wit aids and hiv all around u are still killing ursef because of a small girl dat has not seen anytin in life please wake up

@IICE, IS IT AGAINST THE RULES TO WRITE IN CAPITALS COS I DO AND I'M NEVER A LOUD PERSON AND BESIDES I THOUGHT PPLE ARE ENTITLED TO WRITE ANYHOW THEY LIKE AS LONG AS THEIR SPELLINGS R CORRECT AND WHAT THEY TYPED MADE SENSE

@TOPIC, 2YEARS IS QUITE A LONG TIME TO RUN A GIRL,IT'S OBVIOUS SHE'S EITHER PLAYING HARD TO GET OR DOESN'T REALLY FANCY U,BUT WHICHEVER WAY I FINK IT'S PAST TIME U MOVED ON COS THERE ARE LOT BETTER PPLE OUT THERE AND I BELIEVE THERE'S A SPECIAL PERSON FOR EVERYBODY,SO MAYBE SHE'S NOT JUST THAT SPECIAL PERSON

DEAR,DONT GIVE N U WILL SUCCEED.
THAT'Z HOW GIRLS R,SHE'S JUST JUST PLAYING HARD ON U.

she might like u but she might be thinkin bout what might happen if d relationship doesn't work out or maybe she just think yall being friendz better or maybe she just enjoy seeing ya ax her everytime it can be fun 2 see a guy keep axin u out everytime

for 2 years? damn, and i tot i had it bad. yours is worst man. you gott@ move on. at least she aint playing hard to get so basically, just look for another ofeke cuzz this one no want you or you can do what edygirl said.

Um. You'll get over her eventually.

diddy4:

for 2 years? damn, and i tot i had it bad. yours is worst man. you gott@ move on. at least she aint playing hard to get so basically, just look for another ofeke cuzz this one no want you or you can do what edygirl said.

help me tell em oooooooooooooooo diddy4, for me i think she is too small for all those things sha.

i have told him, i hope he listens.

maybe there is a reason behind here answer and she's afraid to tell you here reason.

n wot do u think can be the reason?
maybe she loves someone else or something

naija_diva:

maybe there is a reason behind here answer and she's afraid to tell you here reason.

I agree with naija diva theres something behind her saying no