If it will increase or improve our sex-life....If it will make my husband anticipate and want more of my body....If it will make my husband stick to my body no matter what..even if am aging....If it will make him close his eyes to other women with come-and-eyes .....


WE WILL WATCH IT TOGETHER....

berem: Yes it is! Nothing bad about it.

Am not surprise you are in agreement

5minsmadness:
A PASTOR advised porn??The Church of Christ is really coming under attack! The End Times is near!

There are different ways to learn about sex. Even our Ss3 biology books show the basic sexual position and how everything is supposed to go down (Basic biology, chapter 18-Reproduction. Yeah I remember.)

However I think this pastor was trying to concentrate on the QUALITY of sex being offered by both partners. Unfortunately his only recourse for that was p0rn. Speaks a lot about his past life.

There are educative videos one can watch on improving one's sex life that does not involve viewing joysticks the size of sugarcanes. I have given example of a very good one before The lover's guide. Very mature and interesting. Genitals are mostly hidden and no outlandish acrobatics or screams are seen there. The original kama sutra was also good but the title has now been so bastardized that anyone who buys a film titled kama sutra now is bound to find out it is hard core p0rn. Other interesting books are 'The Joy of Sex' and most books by Anne hooper.

Watching p0rn especially for newlyweds is such a baaaaaaad idea. There is no way the man and woman won't feel inadequate and/or disgusted afterwards. It will make them see each other in a different and not so good light.

Which church did that for goodness sake?

Nna men.......u be correct guy(in igbo)

In as much as ∂ couple agrees to watch it to improve their sex life,its no biggie.'there's an agreement'. SEX in MARRIAGE is KEY pls,instead of either of them going out to learn,they can watch,learn n explore each others bodies.

It is very wrong. Its looks good before men but it's a no no. It has effects too, forinstance It gives you an expectation that your husband cannot meet(Remember there would be no disappointment without expectation).

He will not last for an hour. Those guys you see in porn are working, they get paid for having sex so they are supposed to demonstrate a certain kind of performance that is not possible for an ordinary chap.

He will not rise to the occasion, every time you want him to. He will not have the energy to take try out some positions that would require one to have enrolled for Aerobics in the Olympics.

He may not even be able to drive you to orgasm like they do in porn.(Disappointment)

On the other hand as a man, your wife may not have that kind of libido displayed in those movies.

At times she will come home tired and not interested in sex, at times she will be having her menses, at times she will have devoted her time to prayer or she may actually not be in the mood. She may not have the flexibility to make some of the moves you see in the videos, especially after she gives you a baby or two. So forget the fantasy in porn and come back to the real world and talk it out with her. Forget Porn!



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Tallesty1: It is very wrong

Ɣ,cos a pastor said it?when it comes to marriage,dre r somethings we don't need to shy away from.

hurpeyeahme: Ɣ,cos a pastor said it?when it comes to marriage,dre r somethings we don't need to shy away from.

Not because a pastor said, I'm one of the few that don't take what pastors said. It is wrong because it is wrong.

Maybe i should Edith my first post and give reasons.

Tallesty1: It is very wrong. Its looks good before men but it's a no no. It has effects too, forinstance It gives you an expectation that your husband cannot meet(Remember there would be no disappointment without expectation).

He will not last for an hour. Those guys you see in porn are working, they get paid for having sex so they are supposed to demonstrate a certain kind of performance that is not possible for an ordinary chap.

He will not rise to the occasion, every time you want him to. He will not have the energy to take try out some positions that would require one to have enrolled for Aerobics in the Olympics.

He may not even be able to drive you to orgasm like they do in porn.(Disappointment)

On the other hand as a man, your wife may not have that kind of libido displayed in those movies.

At times she will come home tired and not interested in sex, at times she will be having her menses, at times she will have devoted her time to prayer or she may actually not be in the mood. She may not have the flexibility to make some of the moves you see in the videos, especially after she gives you a baby or two. So forget the fantasy in porn and come back to the real world and talk it out with her. Forget Porn!



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Hell No!!inorder nt to get disappointed dt is Ɣ dey both agreed to watching,for dem improve their sexlife

Ofcourse,we all knw ∂t pornstars r working to get paid. The couples might probably not be able to turn 360degree in bed buh I can bet dey would be able to turn 180 after watching=D. sex positions 69,cowgirl etc was made knwn cos @1point or nt we came across porn directly or indirectly,if nt evry 1 should ve bin ok wiv our fore fathers missionary positn.couples can decide to watch porn so as to knw ∂ various latest style nt rilly abt orgasm,libido n ∂ rest. Sorry 4 nt spacing typing via heavy eyes

haywhy28: I was in a marriage seminar this evening where the speaker (a pastor) advised couples to watch porns so as to learn new techniques and enjoy sex more. Whats your take on this?

Wrong move. That will be akin to a wife allowing her husband watch a prostitute to learn how to please his wife. Porn stars may be pretty and well-to-do. But it's glorified prostitution, nothing more. That advice from the pastor was a mistake and someone should have taken him up on it there and then.

Chai! Umunwanyi na argument

hurpeyeahme: Hell No!! in order nt to get disappointed dt is Ɣ dey both agreed to watching, for dem improve their sexlife

It is a no no. If you want to improve your sex life then invent your own method. Act one with your wife. Living a life of competitin can only bring you frustration. Ever wondered why marriages are getting worse since we started attaching too much importance to sex??

hurpeyeahme: Ofcourse, we all knw ∂t pornstars r working to get paid. The couples might probably not be able to turn 360 degree in bed buh I can bet dey would be able to turn 180 after watching=D.

And then what? If she could not satisfy the husband or could not meet his expectation he would start wondering while the porn actor is getting all that good sex and he isn't, the next will be to try a new person(cheating). If the husband did not last long like the porn actor the wife will start to wonder how comes the lady is getting all that heavenly feelings and she isn't. Next step will be to try a young chap.

hurpeyeahme: sex positions 69, cowgirl etc was made knwn cos @1point or nt we came across porn directly or indirectly, if nt evry 1 should ve bin ok wiv our fore fathers missionary positn. couples can decide to watch porn so as to knw ∂ various latest style nt rilly abt orgasm, libido n ∂ rest.

*Sighs* Do you not know that of all the sex styles, missionary style is still the best? I don't wanna explain how and why.

hurpeyeahme: Sorry 4 nt spacing typing via heavy eyes

I'm also reading with heavy eyes.


For Christians, pornography is a display of unrighteousness in its most brazen and bestial form. Watching it for whatever reason is wrong. Men are moved by sight, he begins to desire wat the imaginary woman has that his wife doesn't, if by luck he says someone that has it, he might try to push his luck. If by accident he becomes an addict then it automatically becomes a huge problem not just to your sex life but to your marriage as well.

The best way to improve your sex life is to communicate during sex. Don't just ly down.

of course. No matter what you think of it, porn is actually educative. I doubt if i would have known what blow.jobs, doggy, anal, boob.jobs, and the rest of them were if it wasn't for porn. So....yeah

shockwave91: of course. No matter what you think of it, porn is actually educative. I doubt if i would have known what blow.jobs, doggy, anal, boob.jobs, and the rest of them were if it wasn't for porn. So....yeah

Please don't bring something else to the discussion,which one is anal? Abeg.

haywhy28:
Please don't bring something else to the discussion,which one is anal? Abeg.

hian...see quarell o....o boy wetin cum be ur own

Maybe pastor doesn't know the difference between a porn tape and a sex education tape. The differences are clear. E.g in a sex education tape, they use banana to represent manhood and it's like a talk show with demonstration not the bang bang stuff of porn.

Yep but womanly dignifying 1. majority of it is a hype n not realistic though.

Op, what's your evidence. I don't believe a pastor said that.

Some people just lie to drive a point.

Give us a proof a pastor said so and stop defacing Christianity.

GlorifiedTunde:
Op, what's your evidence. I don't believe a pastor said that.

Some people just lie to drive a point.

Give us a proof a pastor said so and stop defacing Christianity.

I am not concerned about what you believe or do not believe. If you have nothing to say about the topic, keep mute.

shockwave91:
of course. No matter what you think of it, porn is actually educative. I doubt if i would have known what blow.jobs, doggy, anal, boob.jobs, and the rest of them were if it wasn't for porn. So....yeah

and that's education to you?

Okay o.

Dygeasy:
and that's education to you?

Okay o.

yup. Sex education.
C dis man o, u how u take learn? No b mojo