#1. Finding faults all the time
Constructive criticism, if it is meant to improve the marriage, is welcome. But, if you are always obsessing over the imperfections of your partner, then you are walking over troubled water. Chronic complaining tells your spouse that you are not happy with him, and he is not good enough. You might not feel this way, but this is the message you convey when you are out nit-picking on his small habits every now and then. What is even worse is when you do so in company of your family and friends.

#2. Not appreciating him enough
Lack of appreciation is often one of the major causes of resentment in a marriage. It is easy to take your spouse for granted. If your partner is doing something special to make you happy, and if you fail to see his efforts and quibble on small things, then it will ruin his mood and ultimately your relationship too!

#3. Having unreasonable expectations
Expecting the partner to do things that are currently beyond his capacity is the bane of every marriage. Putting pressure on him for things that you yourself know might not be reasonable for him to commit to is a smart way to erode your relationship slowly and steadily. Say, if you want to buy a bigger house or start a family, but your husband is not in a financial or mental state to commit to such a change. Well, instead of criticising him, try to understand his point of view.

#4. Not nourishing your bond
You are aware of how important it is to connect with your spouse on a daily basis, but it is easy to forget when there are kids, career, and chores to manage. Keep in mind, physical and emotional shut down often leads to a big lack of intimacy. Withholding affection from your partner can cause a major disconnect that will be hard to bridge.

#5. Putting others before him
After marriage, you have a new family to look after as well. While you need not break all ties with your own family and friends, understand that these new relationships are important as well. If you are always putting your family or friends before him or his family, he might not like it.

#6. Giving the silent treatment
So, do you always keep your feelings pent-up and wait for him to figure out what is wrong? Well, that is what is actually wrong! He is not an expert, who will figure things out on his own based on your expressions and mood. By keeping quiet or closing communication you cannot solve any problem or resolve any issue. What’s more? Your attitude might throw him further away from the issue and the relationship.

#7. Not giving him space
It is a well-known fact that men truly love their space and freedom, and this is one of the main reasons why most of them turn commitment-phobic. Calling him up every single hour, getting jealous unnecessarily, forcing him to cancel plans with his friends always- are some common things that you might be doing out of love. But, your attempts to keep your man hooked to you might actually make him run away in the opposite direction.

If you are guilty of any of these behaviours, you are putting your marriage at great risk. We all know that every relationship has to go through a fair share of ups and downs. But, when you keep certain emotions and behaviour in check, you can find a way to make your relationship last a lifetime easily!

source: bollywoodshaadis.com

Booked!

Exactly

Wow. Nice one. I agree with those points. Expecially placing others before him.

When you click through pages of NL all what you see everywhere are lists..6 this, 14 that, 7 this, 21 that..please, biko, person no dey school again..una still want make him dey cram list..for where??

ggrin I hope you are jotting down the salient points and hopping to provide us with the uncensored version and not this oyinbo writeup?!

True

Na lie. *Yinmu

8. Always giving "I don't know" response when a question demands either "yes" or "no".

Waitin 4our ladies in dhouse 2speak out, I dey luk like lucozade

samuelson06: 8. Always giving "I don't know" response when a question demands either "yes" or "no".

If she nor know nko?


So OP, these things u listed here, most guys even do them more than women... So I think you should rephrase.. Thenk u.

samuelson06: 8. Always giving "I don't know" response when a question demands either "yes" or "no".

That's my specialty , I do it when I sulk. I know it's annoying that's why I do it

Karleb: ggrin I hope you are jotting down the salient points and hopping to provide us with the uncensored version and not this oyinbo writeup?!

*yarns*

Noted

I'll edit my comment when this makes fp

if she's exhibits half of this features, she won't even have a boyfriend who will last 1week..

MisterLongman: Is it only women that are guilty of this crime

not necessarily but will agree with me that women are more likely to exhibit these traits than men.