Coming up with romantic ideas can be a
challenge for some couples. After all, it's hard
to come up with new ideas year after year, and
it's easy to fall into a rut, especially after
you've been together for a while. For
newlyweds, however, making a habit of
incorporating romantic ideas into your
everyday life can help you set a standard for
life. Why do you need romantic ideas? You
need them, so that you continuously refresh
your relationship, prove you're not taking your
spouse for granted, and build on passion.
Frankly, romantic ideas keep things from
getting stale and boring. Here are 10 romantic
ideas:
1. Flirt with Your Sweetie
Being married doesn't mean you're dead, nor
does it mean that you have to stop being hot
for one another. While it can be difficult to flirt
with someone after you've watched him
urinate or seen her deliver a baby, you should
try to suspend reality for a bit and make like
you're still dating. Teach yourself how to flirt
again and have fun with one another. More »
2. Share Love Poems
Whether you write a love poem yourself or
read aloud one of the classics, you and your
spouse will be inspired by the beautiful
language used to express love and sexual
desire. If you're a bit shy, you could also send
the poem by way of letter or even text
message. The point of a love poem is to find
the exact right words to share your feelings
with your beloved and to put them together in
a creative way. On paper or out loud, a love
poem will always help you score points. More
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3. Write a Love Letter
If poetry is not your thing, you can always
write a traditional love letter. You just put pen
to paper and start spilling your feelings onto
the page. Answer questions, such as, "How
does your spouse make you feel? What do you
think about when your spouse walks into a
room? What are his or her best qualities? Why
did you choose to marry this person?"
Sometimes, we think our spouses know what
we think of them. But, often, we never tell
them. Frankly, even if we have shared our true
feelings in the past, reminders on pretty
stationary are always welcome. More »
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4. Sing a Love Song
Singing a love song, performing one for each
other during karaoke night at the local pub, or
making like Lloyd Dobler (John Cusack) in Say
Anything with a boom box over your head
blasting a favorite song always is a hit,
especially with the ladies. Find your song or
write one of your own and share it with your
love. Be old-fashioned and throw pebbles at
the window to get his or her attention. And
then perform on the lawn for the world to see,
too. It's the "shout it from the rooftops"
moment that most people only dream about
happening to them.
5. Give the Gift of Lingerie
Surprising your spouse with something sexy
you'd like to see them in can be a big turn on.
For starters, it tells your spouse that you still
have sexual feelings for them. Essentially, they
can be certain they've still got it. And it can
also inspire him or her to make mad,
passionate love to you. Think silky boxers for
him and anything in lace or satin for her - and
you are all ready to go. More »
6. Get into Sexting
When looking for a night of wild sex with your
spouse, you should be sure to clue in him or
her. That doesn't mean just demanding sex or
even just telling him or her. Instead, you
should build up to the actual act. Step one
could be sexting your spouse or sending him
or her text messages all about the things you
hope to do later on when you're together.
From the romantic to the raunchy, you'll know
how to write the perfect sexts for you and your
spouse. The give and take will probably get
you all worked up for what is to come. More »
7. Kiss with Movie Passion
Pick a favorite romantic movie and try to re-
enact the kiss from it. From Spider-Man's
upside down kiss to the one in Casablanca ,
you have many options. Just choose one that
is possible for you to do and would be
meaningful to your spouse. If all else fails just
give a kiss like you never have before - replete
with dip, butt grab, whatever it takes to turn
you both on. Your goal is to send the
message that you are in love and you mean
business. More »
8. Massage Each Other
Physical intimacy is heightened when you're
relaxed and playfully touching one another.
Investing in some decent massage oils - with
a scent you both like - and rubbing each other
down is one form of pre-intimacy you'll both enjoy.
Be sure to get naked, light some candles, and
put on some relaxing, soothing music. Then,
massage each other from head to toe if you'd
like. More »
9. Bust Out of Your Sex Routine
Let's face it. Married couples tend to have a
routine when it comes to sex. Once you get
into a sex rut, it's hard to get out of it. Every
once in a while, you should change things up
a bit. Whether you dress up in sexy outfits to
role play, try new positions, or do it someplace
unusual, you have to constantly make sex
together new. More »
10. Set the Stage with Flowers
Flowers or even just rose petals can set the
right tone for a romantic evening. Whether you
have a dozen red roses delivered to your wife's
office or simply put a bouquet of wildflowers
at the center of the dinner table, you are
sending the message that you care. A single
red rose on date night or rose petals covering
your bed can be just as sweet. Flowers usually
reap rewards.

MisterLongman: @Op the most important thing is money........ If you don't have money, how will you have time to sex-chat when you can't afford to buy a smartphone....... Or carry out the remaining tips when you are residing under eko bridge........ It is only when a man is poor that he is considered unromantic

Are you referin to our naija girls??

...heheheehehehe...

Please, dont expect that from any Naija guy....They are simply not romantic....


They still operate or use old-school ways of showing love....

temigracie: ...heheheehehehe...

Please, dont expect that from any Naija guy....They are simply not romantic....


They still operate or use old-school ways of showing love....

is love letter not an old school way? Wake up sister timi

temigracie: ...heheheehehehe...

Please, dont expect that from any Naija guy....They are simply not romantic....


They still operate or use old-school ways of showing love....

lol. Some naija guys can do that. I do most of those stuffs....

Naija guys do no10? U go wait tire

Sarimah: Naija guys do no10? U go wait tire

djeezy can definitely do it
atleast for you

Sarimah: Naija guys do no10? U go wait tire

and do Naija girls like flowers?

ipain: and do Naija girls like flowers?

personally, I don't fancy it dat much..donnoe 4 others

Sarimah: Naija guys do no10? U go wait tire

The last time i checked it was our naija girls that have been rejectin flowers from guys

Folarinwazzy:

djeezy can definitely do it
atleast for you

hehehe don't be too sure oh..

Exjoker: The last time i checked it was our naija girls that have been rejectin flowers from guys

lol..not all na..some love it
Dats y its gud to knw wat ur woman likes nd dislikes

No 6 couldbe very hard.

Sarimah: hehehe don't be too sure oh..

well,i can
atleast i know myself,and i know what i can do

Folarinwazzy:

well,i can
atleast i know myself,and i know what i can do

wat can u do?

Sarimah: wat can u do?

everything and anything

Folarinwazzy:

everything and anything

hmmm ok

Sarimah: lol..not all na..some love it
Dats y its gud to knw wat ur woman likes nd dislikes

You mean ure redy to acept flowers from me #wink# mean u like flowers rite?..lol

Exjoker: You mean ure redy to acept flowers from me #wink# mean u like flowers rite?..lol

flowers keh? Jst convert d flowers to a pink ferari..dah wil be all 4 nw

Sarimah: flowers keh? Jst convert d flowers to a pink ferari..dah wil be all 4 nw

...And will you call that love??

Exjoker: ...And will you call that love??

I am thinking up stuffs more romantic than all these joined together for my Sweetylicious ice cream.

Sarimah: flowers keh? Jst convert d flowers to a pink ferari..dah wil be all 4 nw

I made an obscene remark about your pix once. I am so sorry about it.

Sarimah:

Lol...U werent serious even at the beginin...

assfreak:

I made an obscene remark about your pix once. I am so sorry about it.

its aiite

Exjoker: Lol...U werent serious even at the beginin...

hehehehe says who?

Sarimah: hehehehe says who?

U shul have ask for ma head instead of a ferari...thats how guys will go as far as stealin(robbe) to satisfy gals need

assfreak: I am thinking up stuffs more romantic than all these joined together for my Sweetylicious ice cream.

Yeah baby! Add a love note and a bunch of flower too.I love romance.

sweetylicious: Yeah baby! Add a love note and a bunch of flower too.I love romance.

I will add even more than that for you, moi love. I will do stuffs sweeter than honey for you, my Sweetylicious cuddlycutehoneywookums.