Adufetohposh: Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation that we can't explain... Threading on a part that could end awful, but our hearts seem adamant and tender towards whom we love

Finding a man who opened up his heart and let me in, brought me love and laughter even though it was so wrong *sigh* if he could just be mine alone ...

Sometimes I wish I don't love this man so I could go on with my life never av to feel the. Pain wen he goes home to his wife... *confused*

I should av kept my feelings hidden,jealousy haunts me and envy is there.....hmmmm seem dis whole thing seem to be a life time worth of joy and sadness...
Could dis be Love or Lust

austine4real: only ur post makes 5555% sense

100Cents:

Hahaha.

Boys dey vex o.

If married men come carry these kind beautiful ladies, which fine girl we struggling guys go come marry ?

Infact I have seen such a young beautiful girl marrying as second wife at a tender age of 22. When I heard she was 2nd wife I vex seriously, the old man sef no rich pass me.

Fadelex:
sweerie don't be confused , it's a matter of time before I leave her and be with you 4eva..

100Cents:

Birds of a wrong feather.

My advice for you, Jenny is start looking at 40 years from now. Stop fixing your gaze on feelings, immediate satisfaction and gratification..

You need JESUS..

princesstemi: yes follow her hrt cos am nt in position to ask her to leave the man cos I don't knw what she see in him in d 1st place. So she is the one in am not she knws what she feels for him I don't. If she find her happiness him him good luck, am nt in any position to ask to leave. And plz may I ask you this question what if the man in question find her more comfortable been with nko or find happiness in her And will advice to stop, what happen to both of them?

jaybee3:
My comments are based solely on the information provided. Love is a complex matter of the heart

starlingbawa:

Logically, there re lots of points in this post. A lot of folks criticising the OP on this platform 'COULD' have actually done worse things in life. The OP is being real and the truth is these situation is prevalent in our everyday life and will continue to happen.

It is what it is and I don't think anyone should fault her.

Come to think of it, how many of the previous Contributors are from Polygamous homes or children outside wedlock? I bet a few are!

Let's not be in a haste to condemn her!

jennylove7575: ha ha ha ha ha ha mogbe!... ;Dha ha ha ha u kolo pass me ha haha..u funny.

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i wonder if thats the kinda laugh that make your twins giggle/wiggle

jennylove7575: as I was laughing the twins were shaking..they kept shaking when stopped laughing and started shaking again when I remembered ur comment...ha ha ha ha ha

adavize: it will end only in one way; DISASTER.
OF COURSE, HE IS SHOWERING YOU WITH MONEY AND AFFECTION BECAUSE HE WANTS TO BANG YOU..SIMPLE

tell him never to contact you again, send an sms to his wife, that way you ensure he does not, break his heart before he breaks yours,
he probably takes you to hotels, comes to your house and makes love to you and then gives you money, he lies that his wife is ugly, nagging and does not understand him, and you believe those lies,, after while the the calls, the affection will dry and he will move on to his next target, at 30 yrs, you start praying and wondering where your husband is ....well, here is the reality, all the money, all the postinor(fact, most married men prefer raw sex), all the affection were bundle of deceit to ruin your life..

how can you get out?

1. kill of the contact, dont explain, dont try to reason, send him a simple, message, dont come near me again
2. get closer to God, whatever religion, ask for forgiveness get the right mentors, a woman you trust and ask her to help you
3. concentrate on your trade or school


if you cant do this, tell him to marry you as a second wife and watch his face lose colour because you were just a sex mate to relieve pressure and boost his ego.. and not a wife material...who want to marry who they cheat with..not most men.

most vulnerable women have fallen for married men, you wont be the last but it never ends well. save yourself now...karma is a b.itch for both of you, the cheater and the person been cheated with...am sure he has young girls, and tomorrow he will wonder what is happening to them.

clitlicker:

This babe too weak she go gree watin u talk but she go still continue, i know her type.

Adufetohposh: Thank you soo much sandijey, I promise to stay true to myself and right all my wrongs... God bless u always dear

adavize:

lets encourage her and not discourage her...it can be done, its tough but people have done it....

laplace12:
Must u always display dat u're from d slum?.... She asked for an opinion and not an insult...
Eediot!!!

You are crazy.

Feel pain because a man went home to his wife. Don't you know there is such a thing as ownership of property?

Assume you are admiring a parked posh ride and suddenly the owner shows up and drives it out, do you also feel pain?

You are stealing someones property and at the same time feeling pain that she is getting part of it. *wonders*

clitlicker:
The only way get over an obsession is to replace it with another, in other words, get her a boyfriend

princesstemi: maybe u should get her one your abuse words will never change anything but get them worst more. Sorry if that sound rude but that is d truth

Adufetohposh: Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation that we can't explain... Threading on a part that could end awful, but our hearts seem adamant and tender towards whom we love

Finding a man who opened up his heart and let me in, brought me love and laughter even though it was so wrong *sigh* if he could just be mine alone ...

Sometimes I wish I don't love this man so I could go on with my life never av to feel the. Pain wen he goes home to his wife... *confused*

I should av kept my feelings hidden,jealousy haunts me and envy is there.....hmmmm seem dis whole thing seem to be a life time worth of joy and sadness...
Could dis be Love or Lust

brownlords: Agent of distraction everywhere, I can bet my life this girl writing love poem here is In love with this mans money, she would have since dump her hustling boy friend for this aristo.

9ja girls digging for,gold since the day Jesus Christ turned water to wine.

jennylove7575:
Married man or single man, I don't think status matters here. If you love him and he loves you back u can settle with him... Ensure he works out ways on how to protect u and keep you safe so that his wife doesn't pour acid on you

Adufetohposh:
Sometimes we find ourselves in a situation that we can't explain... Threading on a part that could end awful, but our hearts seem adamant and tender towards whom we love

Finding a man who opened up his heart and let me in, brought me love and laughter even though it was so wrong *sigh* if he could just be mine alone ...

Sometimes I wish I don't love this man so I could go on with my life never av to feel the. Pain wen he goes home to his wife... *confused*

I should av kept my feelings hidden,jealousy haunts me and envy is there.....hmmmm seem dis whole thing seem to be a life time worth of joy and sadness...
Could dis be Love or Lust