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Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 8:42pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 8:46pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
pickabeau1: One wonders what's really your opinion about gays transgender and incestuous couples is. Are you for or against? All I can see is you slyly trying to pit one against another without actually making your stand know. Yet you've the effrontery to ask me what my opinion abouts gays is. |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 8:48pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Side jabs and not wanting to go down that road. Says the guy who brought up the topic and laced it with enough side jabs. Too late to wiggle out. Nonso23: |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 8:54pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Nonso23: how is simply stating, "that you are gay and you deserve your rights" solid proof of anything? Since when does a person's right to be gay override the right to protect the child's interests in a maintenance case where the most important thing is the welfare of the child to begin with. Fact remains a fit and proper parent would know where to take and not to take their minor children, plus what you can and cannot expose to them, its not rocket science? Soon strippers will defend taking their children to their place of work, because if a gay guy can get away with it, why should her case be regarded as " endangerment of the child" You cannot turn a blind eye to a children's rights and wellbeing simply because u want to prove gay people have rights too. It defeats the purpose of protecting a child's best interests. |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 8:55pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 8:57pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
pickabeau1: If nothing happened that would warrant the man being the person most fit to take primary care of the kids,then she has a right to complain. But like I said before,she could have doctored the story to suit her audience if not,then she's the wronged party here. The judge was quoted to have said 'if I could give you more,I would' What's does that mean? I believe you're smart enough to know that comment didn't just up and come out from his mouth. The woman must have been proven grossly incompetent to take care of the kids. If not. It spells nothing else but bias. If I have to explain that to you,why wouldn't I want to give up? Like who needs to get an explanation for that comment? |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 8:59pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Preach the side jabbing message to yourself. More like I slap you and begin to preach to you against violence. Classic. Nonso23: |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by pickabeau1: 9:01pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
cococandy: All still sentiments I have made my opinion on gays known They r who they are and they can't change it Science has shown that to be so also That's the fact on ground but you as usual spout some spiel about pitting one camp or sly There is no conspiracy here... |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:02pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by pickabeau1: 9:03pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
cococandy: It means she was not fit to be a mother or granted primary custody But of course you don't believe some women are unfit to be mothers Appeal to female instincts never dealing with d issue |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:06pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:12pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Nonso23:please show me where what you quoted in that particular post is in her novel? I'm taking about the legal position of children's rights in maintenance case. In case you didn't know the child's interests supersedes everything else. And i doubt if taking a minor child to places there are not supposed and exposing them to certain things they are too young for as minors all in the name of exercising your personal rights, is in anyway solid proof that a person is fit and proper be in the care of children. |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:16pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:19pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Nonso23:I no be homo ooo, but I have no choice than to shout GBAM! to the above post. |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:20pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I don't believe some women are unfit mothers? Me who says (on several threads) that not everyone who's female was born to be a mother. Citing examples of those who even dump theirs at the waste bins in the dead of night. Telling women not to get pressured into marriage or having babies when they are not yet ready because the society dictates so. Like I said before,you'll keep exposing yourself as someone who set out to ALWAYS misunderstand me. Suit yourself. Before you go chanting your shifting the goal post phrase again: Saying a mother is usually the primary care giver doesn't mean all women were born to be mothers. Same as saying a man is the primary provider doesn't mean all men are born providers. Some don't just have it in them. Guess I've to spell everything out to avoid more 'misunderstanding' As far as you keep picking parts of my posts which suit your percieved image of me while ignoring the other parts that seeks to put a balance to my general opinions,you'll keep making such unfounded comments like the bolded. If you'd noted that my first post on this thread says I suspect the woman doctored the story,that should have been enough to prove to you I think the judge gave the man custody (even when the supposed primary care giver is alive) for reasons she didn't state in her narrative. Which means I understand she could have been at fault. Even my second post was dripping with sarcasm at her story.meaning I found it hard to believe The only other optiong being bias on the judge's part. But first most likely because she wasn't fit. As is CLEARLY implied in my first post Which means your post @ bolded is trash. pickabeau1: |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:22pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Nonso23:please point out the woman's rights that she claimed to be violated because all i saw was a violations of the rights and wellbeing of minor children. I would really love for u to show us specifically where she referred to women's rights... |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:22pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by pickabeau1: 9:24pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
cococandy: I don't believe some women are unfit mothers? Noted... |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Nonso23:how can you base an argument on a maintenance case on anything else apart from children's rights when they are the main reason for maintenance cases anyway its like saying we are not going to focus on the cause of death in a murder case Talk about shifting the goal post. 1 Like |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:26pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
He won't answer you. Because it'll prove him to be the mischief maker that he is. Making baseless accusations they can't prove Mondisweets: please point out the woman's rights that she claimed to be violated because all i saw was a violations of the rights and wellbeing of minor children. I would really love for u to show us specifically where she referred to women's rights... |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:27pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
cococandy: He won't answer you.tell me about it |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:30pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Good. So you know your preaching about side jabs and going back to that thread isn't justified. Reason being that you did both first and I followed suit. And your intentions were not innocent as you tried to imply with 'killing mosquito' line Nonso23: |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:30pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
As in Mondisweets: tell me about it |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:31pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:31pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
cococandy:im agreeing with you, thats why i said that |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by pickabeau1: 9:32pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Mondisweets: please point out the woman's rights that she claimed to be violated because all i saw was a violations of the rights and wellbeing of minor children. I would really love for u to show us specifically where she referred to women's rights... Which violation of child rights did u see 2 Likes |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:33pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
I know. Lol This is the second time I'm getting that. Mondisweets: im agreeing with you, thats why i said that |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Nonso23: Nonso23: guess who is contradicting himself... |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:36pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Modified. I don tire. |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by Nobody: 9:50pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
pickabeau1: 1.) the children went to the first ceremony against their will. Violation of the right to freedom of choice and association, where they actually have a right to choose to do, or not to something. 2.) underage children being taken to bars and displaying provocative art in a house minor children live in. This can be detrimental to the wellbeing of a child and it also violates a child's right to psychological integrity. 3.) underage children being taken to LGBT films. If you have watched any gay films, you would know the amount of sex scenes in it, that can never be suitable for minor children. Again it affects a child's right to psychological integrity. |
Re: Her Husband Divorced Her For His Gay Lover - Then Took Their Children by cococandy(f): 9:52pm On Oct 01, 2014 |
Just saw this. Lmao. When will you begin to try to be a bit honest? So LGBT movement fueled by feminism isn't part of the anti-family tools the devil is using to ruin God's work on earth? The president of the conspiracy theorists association now suddenly thinks there's no grand conspiracy somewhere. And now he's suddenly 'liberal' enough to accept that they are who they are and can't change themselves. Now he doesn't have anything against liberal societies anymore. I'll remember this for a loooooong time to come. Bwahahahahah. Oh I'll remember. Good to have you in the midst of the liberals. Tuface. I dey come. pickabeau1: |
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