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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Wittylens(m): 7:50am On Oct 02, 2014
MrCork:

....bro... No female seems intarested... Only men r respondin to yoe thread though.

anyways...we not sayin u g@y coz u look g@y wearin rainbow color shirt but seriously,how looong u been g@y? (no offense)
angry

I'm Not Gay. And Will Never Be.

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 8:18am On Oct 02, 2014
Don't change who you are. You'll find someone who likes you like that.

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Taleeysun(f): 8:43am On Oct 02, 2014
OH! Nairaland.....
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 8:47am On Oct 02, 2014
Mr cork no go ki pesin, op to me u r still a kid wen u r redy nd I mean redy gals will come ok.
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by lottoe(m): 9:09am On Oct 02, 2014
@ OP, cherish the kind of person you are, let me tell you the truth people like you often have a good and stable family. Do you know what 90percent of ladies nowsday dont actually know what they want, all they want for now his partying, fantasies and co,because all ladies you asked out turned you down doesnt mean there is no lady carefully studying you and hoping to be yours forever. I will advise you to improve on yourself, learn new things and thrive to be an achiever in life. In summary, there is nothing wrong with who you are, never ever let ladies or your friends determine your attitudes in life.

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 9:31am On Oct 02, 2014
Op i can date u if u dnt mind

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Cannonleo(m): 10:36am On Oct 02, 2014
Op I swear u are a direct replica of me...everything u said is just a reflection of what I am facing now.the only difference is dat when I am in a crowd or a discussion I am very sociable and charismatic..i know how to prolong a discussion but I cnt easily start one...my attempts at being sociable or an extrovert has been a disaster..i was ditched by my ex 2 yrs ago after a long relationship for a guy with much cash and swag in her own words..they didnt even last 6 months

I tried asking a couple out but I had no luck.1 actually said yes only for me discover her real intentions..i recently met a gal I really love..took me some time to relate with her..i was abt to ask her out when she did it her self..she treats me well only prob dat she doesnt reply my txt but she calls..and I kinda of feel speechless when she is around me.and it annoys me..i just cant find the right words but still am nt shy.she kinda of knows it hence she mKes our meetings lively.however when ever I try to ask her abt deep intimate stuff she blushes.still I just want to be my self and make her love me more

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by kay29000(m): 11:00am On Oct 02, 2014
Wittylens: *NOTE : I'm just trying to evaluate myself to see is if I'm "ODD" or if there's any other guy like me. (IN RELATIONSHIP ASPECT)


MY GOOD SIDES

*I Don't Double Date.. Although I've had few relationships so far , I've never for once cheated while dating.

*I Show Too Much Care..

MY BAD SIDES

* I Don't Socialise. My Social Life Is Almost Zero. Infact I've Never Been To A Club Before.

*I Don't Talk Too Much.. I'm More like an Introvert. So People Think "I'm Boring"

*I Don't Flirt With Girls. Unlike my other friends , I don't move too much with girls. I have few female friends. I Barely Move With / Talk to girls in where I live. But if any girl eventually gets close to me they find out I'm not that boring.

Since I Broke up with my EX ,I've asked a few girls out but none accepted. I think its because they think I'm Too Boring.

So I'm just wondering ; Can any Girl Ever Date Someone Like Me? , Is There Still Anyguy Like Me? Do I Have To Flirt Around Like Other Guys.?


I'm an introvert too. Trust me, there are girls out there for you. Some girls have walked up to me and told me straight-up that they like me cos I am quiet and appear mysterious to them. I might be an introvert, but I always have a lot to talk about (maybe cos I read a lot) when I do get to talking. You might be a quiet person and like to stay by yourself most times, but don't ever approach a girl with the mindset that you are less than extroverts and guys that generally flirt with girls. Girls don't turned by guys that appear desperate.


Believe in yourself, and it will show in the way you walk and carry yourself, and that can be a strong attraction for girls. Maybe you should read this book- Quiet: "The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" (by Susan Cain). Trust me, there is power in the subtlety, and I have learnt to master this. Try and go out once a while, but don't force yourself to be who you are not. If an opportunity to talk to someone presents itself, do so, but don't force anything. Take care of yourself (dress well, and be neat), and dive into your passion...whatever it may be. Most of the people I have met have walked up to me...some girls would be attracted to you solely by the mystery of your quiet nature.

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by kay29000(m): 11:05am On Oct 02, 2014
lottoe: @ OP, cherish the kind of person you are, let me tell you the truth people like you often have a good and stable family. Do you know what 90percent of ladies nowsday dont actually know what they want, all they want for now his partying, fantasies and co,because all ladies you asked out turned you down doesnt mean there is no lady carefully studying you and hoping to be yours forever. I will advise you to improve on yourself, learn new things and thrive to be an achiever in life. In summary, there is nothing wrong with who you are, never ever let ladies or your friends determine your attitudes in life.

LOVELY! I couldn't have said it better.

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by agrovick(m): 11:41am On Oct 02, 2014
missberrypop5: Awww, try to be a more lively if you think you're boring. You're just a male version of me, that's why i go for extra crazy dudes. So, for me, i need crazy people around me to bring out the life in me. Cure your boring nature. Other things about you are perfect. Though i think you can get a lady who'll love you just the way you are.
Chisos Dis gal has killed me
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Wittylens(m): 11:49am On Oct 02, 2014
kay29000:


I'm an introvert too. Trust me, there are girls out there for you. Some girls have walked up to me and told me straight-up that they like me cos I am quiet and appear mysterious to them. I might be an introvert, but I always have a lot to talk about (maybe cos I read a lot) when I do get to talking. You might be a quiet person and like to stay by yourself most times, but don't ever approach a girl with the mindset that you are less than extroverts and guys that generally flirt with girls. Girls don't turned by guys that appear desperate.


Believe in yourself, and it will show in the way you walk and carry yourself, and that can be a strong attraction for girls. Maybe you should read this book- Quiet: "The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking" (by Susan Cain). Trust me, there is power in the subtlety, and I have learnt to master this. Try and go out once a while, but don't force yourself to be who you are not. If an opportunity to talk to someone presents itself, do so, but don't force anything. Take care of yourself (dress well, and be neat), and dive into your passion...whatever it may be. Most of the people I have met have walked up to me...some girls would be attracted to you solely by the mystery of your quiet nature.

Thank you very much. wink

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Wittylens(m): 11:51am On Oct 02, 2014
Xenaf: Op i can date u if u dnt mind

Of course I don't. wink
Xenaf: Op i can date u if u dnt mind

Of course I don't.
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by alexis007(m): 12:10pm On Oct 02, 2014
wait a moment,mr. Op...so is this your greatest problem in life....chai....if synagogue hadn't collapsed...this young man should be a candidate of t.b. Joshua's 'flogging delieverance'
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by KMTee(f): 12:33pm On Oct 02, 2014
those bad sides of your are too much

fine, u may not patronise club, you may not be the flirting type
but my dear, atleast once in a while you should have time to go on a date with ur gurl, go to beaches, cinema
or atleast take a walk in your street..

and when both of you are indoor, which you prefer..you should atleast talk, gist and converse..
abi wetin we go dey do if i come visit u or u come visit me
you go just siddon dey look like luku
abegy
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Pdizzle(m): 1:58pm On Oct 02, 2014
rocgirl: Ofcourse, there'll be someone out there who would.
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Oct 02, 2014
agrovick:
Chisos Dis gal has killed me
R.I.P grin grin
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by agrovick(m): 3:41pm On Oct 02, 2014
missberrypop5: R.I.P grin grin
u want me to torment u abi
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Oct 02, 2014
agrovick:
u want me to torment u abi
lol, shiii don't derail the thread. grin grin
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by agrovick(m): 3:56pm On Oct 02, 2014
missberrypop5: lol, shiii don't derail the thread. grin grin
tah! For u, i will derail a train grin this ur grin is infectious grin
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Oct 02, 2014
lottoe: @ OP, cherish the kind of person you are, let me tell you the truth people like you often have a good and stable family. Do you know what 90percent of ladies nowsday dont actually know what they want, all they want for now his partying, fantasies and co,because all ladies you asked out turned you down doesnt mean there is no lady carefully studying you and hoping to be yours forever. I will advise you to improve on yourself, learn new things and thrive to be an achiever in life. In summary, there is nothing wrong with who you are, never ever let ladies or your friends determine your attitudes in life.
Well said brother. @op, i think this brother has said everything.

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 02, 2014
agrovick:
tah! For u, i will derail a train grin this ur grin is infectious grin
hahahahahaha, funny you!
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by LONGFELLOW02(m): 4:03pm On Oct 02, 2014
Wittylens:

I have a problem of "Not Wanting To Go Out" . I hardly visit my friends. I prefere to stay indoors. Even when my male friends want to take me out I stylishly decline

Hw old are You?

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Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by LONGFELLOW02(m): 4:08pm On Oct 02, 2014
alexis007: wait a moment,mr. Op...so is this your greatest problem in life....chai....if synagogue hadn't collapsed...this young man should be a candidate of t.b. Joshua's 'flogging delieverance'

I can deliver him. . He head washing
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Oct 02, 2014
love your kind of man my husband is like you but makes you different is that he a lil bit social.
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Wittylens(m): 4:15pm On Oct 02, 2014
LONGFELLOW02:

Hw old are You?

Why do you want to know?
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by jaybee3(m): 4:15pm On Oct 02, 2014
NOPE, Not because of your irrelevant perceived negative qualities but simply because of your lack in self confidence

Ain't no woman interested in some cry baby

Now man up, keep ya head high and be positive.
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by agrovick(m): 6:24pm On Oct 02, 2014
missberrypop5: hahahahahaha, funny you!
grin I'm blushing. Oya help our Op out
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by Nobody: 8:09pm On Oct 02, 2014
agrovick:
grin I'm blushing. Oya help our Op out
lol, don't worry, i'll marry him. he's a husband material.
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by agrovick(m): 8:56pm On Oct 02, 2014
missberrypop5: lol, don't worry, i'll marry him. he's a husband material.
lwkmd, this babe sha. Op your worries are over
Re: Can Anygirl Ever Date Someone Like Me? by lawrenceunaa: 10:53pm On Oct 02, 2014
op u re not alone on this but seriously never plan to have a gal frn
then watch as gals would be over flowing their bank undecided

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